when you feel your partner is cheating on you...
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
August 12, 2011 8:45pm CST
do you think that there is a huge chance that it is true?
have you ever trusted your instinct and viola! you are right, after all... you catch him texting or calling someone else... has this ever happened to you?
5 responses
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
Yeah, there might be a big chance that it is true. But make sure to test first before accusing. If he is acting weird and different all of a sudden, then there is a 90% chance that he is really cheating. but sometimes, there are no signs of cheating so we just have to be keen and very observant. But most likely for girls, they know when their partners are cheating because girls are more sensitive than men. and are most likely true.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
25 Aug 11
I agree before you accuse or anything yu gotta make sure you are correct. Sometimes we feel something is off and assume someone is cheating when its completely something else.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
8 Sep 11
once i also experienced the same..we usually go out with my x-boyfriend during my free time but there were times when he do not ask me out often..its strange because even txting he does not do the same..i confronted him on that issue and he tell me the truth that he and her ex-girlfriend are seeing each other again..i have no choice but to let him go..to bad..but its the easiest way out..
@soulist (2985)
• United States
25 Aug 11
I had the feeling once and I was right. I used to find text messages to my boyfriend at the time from other women asking when he was coming to see them and what he was doing etc. I asked about it and he said they were friends.. I took his word for it. then one night when I called a woman answered telling me he was with her now. he tried saying she was jealous and was his landlady's daughter. Then he was 2 hrs late to see me and when I went to find him he was with another woman. I ended it right then and there.
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
If you are observant enough, you can sense that there's something strange happening with your partner. Even just a small change creates doubts and suspicion. But of course, you have to see to it that you are 100 percent sure that he or she is doing something bad before you judge or tell him/her.
Trust is the key of successful relationship.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
25 Aug 11
Fortunately I haven't experienced this. I'm so happy that I haven't. It would be so heart breaking to find out that my spouse has been disloyal. There would be so much pain and no one wants to experience pain. Once this trust is gone it's hard to get back.