happy bday to me!...

@verolop29 (1096)
United States
August 14, 2011 9:05am CST
so my bday is coming up (9/1) and my husband always makes them special! except for the last couple of yrs its been a little rough but here we are! So anyway i heard him saying something like hes gonna get me a laptop! Ive tried getting one for free and i was soooo close but it didnt happen. There was an offer that was sent to my email for a free laptop and all i had to do was order this and that(just 2 offers) and the laptop would be mine. so i got the 2 offers and then they wanted me to spend more money on something else...i was irritated and mad so i canceled my orders =( i know life goes on loL! but i wanted that laptop!! so lets see if he does. But even if he doesnt its ok. the thought is what really counts right? what do u think? if it was ur bday, anniversery,there are many anniverseries weather its being friends bf/gf..whatever...if they didnt get u what u wanted would u hold it over them and never let it go? or do u brush it off, like me?! I am the kind of person that, say it were our 10 yr of being best best friends and u forget. i would know,somehow, but id know that this accation is just as special to u as it is to me! i wouldnt expect u to get me anything. and if u did get me a gift id be soooooooooooooooo sooooooo(ok I think u get it lol!) shocked u did this! idk thats just me!
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@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Aug 11
I hope you get your laptop. If he didn't say anything, and he didn't get me much of anything, I can say I wouldn't be that disappointed. But if there was this big build up and hints and so on, and then nothing, yeah I'd be disappointed, because he led me to believe I was getting something special.
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
15 Aug 11
oh man! does that happen to u?! Sometimes it happens to me but i dont relize it then and there! u better believe ur sweet but id be sad,mad...i just wouldn't be happy if he did that to me!! but if he doesn't, i will buy it myself! and then he's gonna wish HE was the one that bought it for me! yeah, i have my (clears throat) womanly deviouse ways lol! because I dont know y, but it seems like every now and then he gives me what i really want, and sometimes he just gets me what he wants me to have...I guess its just a man thing.
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@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Aug 11
heck he'll say stuff and totally forgot he said it, and when I bring it up later, it's "oh it was just a suggestion, not a promise"...
@catof1 (683)
• United States
14 Aug 11
Happy Birth Day verolol29! Just thought I would drop you a line and let you know that. I hope that you do get your lap top; they are very handy and nice to use all over the house and while you travel. Keep us updated!
@verolop29 (1096)
• United States
15 Aug 11
oh yes ik know! but im trying not to get so happy, u know, so in case i dont get..i wont be so disapointed...he's done that to me a few times before and after we got married..but i didnt make a big deal out of it, i just brushed it off. i do that with a lot of things life trows at me-i always end up brushing into GOD's hands and he takes care of me! like he makes my hurt go away..u know what i mean. its ok if u dont know what i mean but im just saying..!
@huilichan8 (1379)
• Singapore
21 Aug 11
Happy b'day in advance!:) I wouldn't hold it against them (my family/friends) if they don't get me anything. But I would be disappointed if they forget to wish me a happy b'day.
15 Aug 11
i'm not really huge into gifts anyway, so i dont mind either.. usually my parents and friends and family give me money in a card at xmas and birthdays etc, because i won't really ever want anything.. i'm strange.. theres lots of things i WANT, but if someone was to ask me i don't have a clue lol! so i'm always happy with whatever. i love leopard print things, and i love hello kitty, and swallows, and wee girlie skulls etc.. so people just get me stuff to do with that and i'm usually more than happy haha!