Where is the trust?
August 14, 2011 11:29am CST
Mine is a trust of a loved one broken and now I wonder where such confidence comes at all. How can we create new and even more with the time limitations in which you can meet? As you can also overcome the fear again to make it breaks? Fear is the path.
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3 Sep 11
you get where you trust yourself at the same level as your partner give I can only trust someone who gives me the feeling that I am accepted by him and not in any position shall immediately get a response because he feels threatened by my you only trust a man if you show him by your behavior you can trust me fully
19 Aug 11
Confidence comes from experience, build new trust again takes courage, love, desire, forgiveness and time. Courage to ask again to the other, love for others, will again engage new, forgiveness to be able to start anew and time to heal. lg and good luck Thank you for your additions, now it's getting clearer. Show that you are willing to change yourself if necessary, talk or write to you with the others about the misunderstanding, try to explain to clear the misunderstandings from the road. Give it another time, even to perceive change in you!
17 Aug 11
I need have no fear because I am protected. I say this for a long time and time again, but I really did not believe it, but it is so. I know that now. One can overcome his fear only when you realize that you must have none. There is nothing like what you really want and now I know I can believe in everything that I want to be good faith and I know that will change everything now, including my future partner. I've noticed that I have my ideas and demands, as for him will come true, because I will not find so wrong partner. In addition, I look at the men who had previously interested me, perhaps, now no longer on, because they do not really interest me. I want to live and I want a good life. This includes the specific partner for me and I want to. Do you understand what I mean? Believe in what you want and then it comes true. Afraid you will get us nowhere, because you do not fear in your life live. Be skeptical, but verify. I wish you much success.
16 Aug 11
Trust is like a tender plant, it takes time to unfold its story. The plant must be cherished and nurtured. Do not act on the words you hear, act according to the deeds that follow you! It may be that they were so inconsiderate give him or her a chance but not four or five! Separate yourself otherwise compromise! Last trust is not something you can grab with both hands and have like a ripe pear.
16 Aug 11
Maybe you need to now learn that gang that have arisen on a purely emotional basis, will not remain on forever. Children trust unconditionally, because they lack in experience they need for their survival and absolute trust. But later one learns the skills of another realistically and reduce absolute confidence. This is not negative. So if you think you would have lost the trust of another person, then fathom the cause with her ??and ask yourself whether your expectations of each other were not too high. If you know the person very much, did you need you might have liked that you in the matter where you've broken trust, will now heavily controlled.
15 Aug 11
Confidence comes from the original trust. The basic trust can only arise when a child can grow up sheltered. The basic trust created by the mother-child relationship. Children who have had a bad childhood, growing up in institutions or foster families may be able to keep any commitments because trust is missing.
• United States
15 Aug 11
Trust is something that really takes ages to build and only seconds to really destroy a lot of the time. There are a lot of times where we tend to really think that we trust a lot of people, a lot of the time to say the very least. However, one small misstep and that rattles the foundations of those trust. If its a slightly bigger misstep, then the trust can be shattered all together. We must take things one step at a time. There are going to be many times where we think we have the trust but as we fear, it is just something that is going to break a lot of the time. We tend to fear our trust getting broken or losing the trust of a person. Yet there are times where we just got to really take it carefully and eventually we'll be back to the races. That's the hope anyway.
• United States
14 Aug 11
Trust is very important. It is essential to the success of a relationship. I think once the trust is broken it can be very hard to get back. I'm so happy that I've experienced this to a large degree. It would be very discouraging to have someone I care deeply about break my trust. It is also important that we keep and stay trustworthy to others. A lot of people feel that it isn't necessary to be trustworthy or faithful. Many don't understand the consequences of being this way. Hopefully in time they will. It's just sad that innocent ones have to go through situations like this because others don't take seriously their actions and how it affects others.