I think I've fallen to her

Philippines
August 24, 2011 12:17am CST
About a month ago I visited my favorite computer shop in Pasig because I haven't been there for a long time ago, The computer shop is very famous eversince when I was in highschool. As I entered the shop I saw a cute little lady and surprisingly she's one of the staffs of that shop there. I was attracted to her for the first time I see her, she assisted me that time and I'm shy to ask her name because she might get mad at me if I do so and I assume she have a boyfriend already, so the only thing that I do is to surf there so I can see her frequently. I really like her but I don't know what approach should I do so mylotters I need your advice about this matter. Thank you in advance.
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12 responses
@SIMPLYD (83124)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
Befriend the girl first. As a regular cutomer of the shop, you can now ask for her name. Then, slowly you can introduce yourself first and that will start your friendship. That way, you will know if she's already taken or not and from there work your way to her heart.
1 person likes this
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
Yes you're right. I should ask for her name and the only problem is how can I get her number.
@zhawee (875)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
yes she right, you make way be a friend to her, and this is not time to tell her number because you so much obviously you like her. You must know her better. You attract her in first time you saw her,
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
25 Aug 11
Don't worry about getting her number just yet. Approach her and start talking to her...get to know her. Then, if you find you really like her and you guys are good friends, you can exchange phone numbers. Befriend her first.
@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
Have the guts to approach her my friend. Have confidence on yourself. Things will not happen untill you make a move. And if your intentions are good. I think everything will go fine. Be true to yourself.
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
25 Aug 11
I agree. Build some confidence, and walk right up to her and talk to her. You never know if you never try, and don't expect anything to happen if you don't do anything. If you really like her and really want to know her better and maybe even be with her, then you should make a move. Whether the result is good or bad, at least you know you tried. Just be yourself! Annie
@padu19 (1441)
• India
24 Aug 11
I would first like to ask if you have made an assumption that she has got a girl friend or are you sure she has one?! Better, visit the place, call her for a moment to assist you on something and take the ooportunity to talk to her. Better give a try than repenting later! All the best!!
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
If she will give me an opportunity then I will maintain it until marriage.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
Simple- first asks her name,and make friend with her. Try to be a constant or regular customer to their shop and then start to have a small talk with her. Then, try to know simple things about her- like her favorites and bring her favorite food- like saying "oh, i just happen to drop by at 7/11 and buy something, then I saw this chippy and I remember that you like this one so i buy one for you " (some tactic boy to impress a girl) And,everything will follow jaiho®
@djbtol (5498)
• United States
25 Aug 11
Here's the deal. If you are kind and polite you will find opportunities to greet her and have some conversation. Very important not to be pushy. Just be pleasant. Frequent the store and make it your goal to have her smile when you come in the door.
@oXAquaXo (607)
• United States
25 Aug 11
Voracious, If I were you, I'd try to become friends with her first. It's always awkward if you go directly into a romantic relationship, so a friendship would make it easier. Plus, once you become friends with her, you can learn more about her and see if you really like her and if she has a boyfriend or not. If she finds that she likes you...well, I'm sure you know the result! The point is, don't be shy. Walking around the shop won't get you anywhere...you have to go up to her and talk to her, let her know you exist. That'll be a step forward, and you can go from there. Good luck!
@rajaiv0810 (1013)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
Since you become a regular customer already I don't think there would be any problem to ask for her name. She wouldn't be suspicious anymore because she sees you there frequently. Just ask her casually and so as the other staffs too so that you would appear to be friendly to everybody but of course you have to give her extra attention. Maybe next time around you can look for her say hi. Everything starts with one hello you know.
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
Well, if you like her, then you have to make a move. You will not know if she is already in a relationship already unless you do the first step into knowing her. You can start with a simple conversation like you like their shop and you know it since you were in high school and you were happy to come back and see a lot of improvement. Then you introduce yourself and hopefully you'll learn her name as well... take it slowly and don't make her feel like you were boasting. Start with a friendly conversation and hopefully things go well along the way. Good luck to you.
@walking2010 (1009)
• United States
24 Aug 11
Well the only way to know something is to ask LOL, I think that its so romantic that you really like a girl but is shy to talk to her it sounds almost like a movie, but get to know her and let her know that she is attractive, and when you find out the questions you want to know then you will know where to go from there and what steps you should take.
@waflay (2727)
• Nairobi, Kenya
24 Aug 11
You cannot keep this a secret forever so just put yourself together,start some sort of a casual conversation.Then if she accepts to talk to you,there is the chance ask her what her name is.Remember nothing is hard if you take some effort that will help you to get closer to her.
• China
24 Aug 11
lol,u really tell a old story.This kind of story ofen happens in life.The only thing i can tell u is girls like boys brave and romantic.
@jricky1 (6808)
• China
24 Aug 11
Just be active,you should communicate with her so as to make her pay more attention on you.Just ask her whether she had boyfriend,if you do like her,you should work hard to get to know more abou t her and know how she feels about you,good luck.