Do u love arguements?

@naseemkum (1803)
India
August 24, 2011 12:36am CST
I love to do arguements about my favorite topic. I wont allow others to compromise in such things that i can do. I wil make arguements continuously to get succeed but sometimes it hurts my opponent but that im happy when i wins arguement but later i feel why i hurt those fellow peoples as a truth i cant control my mouth at that time. I believe arguments wins the life and gets what we want. If we still keep mum we are supposed to do what we dont like. Do u think arguments are necessary in life. Do u argue often.
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@padu19 (1441)
• India
24 Aug 11
That was a good question! It depends whether I like arguments or not. If the person is purposely trying to hurt me or insult me, then I love giving it back to the person by arguing further. But there are some people who do not even know to argue properly. They start bluffing in the name of argument and expect us to admit their views. I hate arguing with such people. According to me, arguments should be healthy and it is possible only if both of the people involved in the argument are ready to admit the other person's view when he/she is correct.
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@naseemkum (1803)
• India
24 Aug 11
Padu its good comment that we like to argue with others at same time we accept others views also and try to say our point of view is right thanx for ur good comment
• Nigeria
24 Aug 11
Argument to me is not a big deal if what u are arguing about is worth it cause through some argument we can learn while some just argue blindly so it worth it depending on the subject of the argument.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
24 Aug 11
Yes it is important in arguments, that to accept honestly if other person is right. Thats how the argument goes healthy!
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
Arguments is what avoid the most! I really don't like arguments since I am not used to it. The reason in that is from my childhood when my father scolded us and he don't want us to argue with him. We did or we did not do it we still be punish. And if we argue with him the punishment will worst. That's why I grow up with fear in argument.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
24 Aug 11
Do you feel arguments will help you enlighten yourself?
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
24 Aug 11
Certainly not but i loose some things when dont argue to get back. So i think better argue to get our best
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 Aug 11
All the best.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
25 Aug 11
i hate confrontation i say what i have to say and iam done.some people can argue by themselves.
@Awinds (2468)
• United States
24 Aug 11
In contrast, I see arguments as not such a bad thing. First let me say that I am not a people pleasing person. I know where my lines are and I refuse to go past those lines. However I try to avoid arguments if possible. Arguments are not a way to win at life. Arguments are a way to make life more difficult. An augmentative person is often very selfish. They want their own way and don't care about the other person's feelings or preferences. We are social creatures and in any social situation compassion and an ability to compromise is essential. Otherwise society would fall apart into a violent condition in which everyone was out for themselves. That would not be a fun world to live in. There are other ways to get what we want. More honest ways that don't involve hurting people. Arguments can not be avoided in life but arguments but one should not seek after arguing.
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@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
24 Aug 11
In life i think it would be impossible to live your life without at least on argument. I mean i dont like arguing but if i am 100% sure i am right and someone is telling me that i am wrong i am going to argue. I also do admit when i am drivin to the point of an argument i am always happy to win it is kinda like winning a game a little bit. As i said before arguing is completly normal
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
29 Aug 11
Hmmm idk
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
24 Aug 11
Thanx for ur comments friends that be sure wil u argue if ur going to lose a victory over ur opponent. Or losing is better than arguing with a person
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
24 Aug 11
Well I would not arguments are wrong. I like to have healthy arguments which helps to come to an conclusion by both. But when it is meant to hurt some one, then arguments can be kept controlled. As it hurts someone, arguments will not be benefited.
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
I don't like arguments, even though I know I am right I don't like others to be offended, If I can stay out of it I'll do my best to stay out of it..
@polaris77 (2040)
• Bacau, Romania
24 Aug 11
I usually don't like to get engaged in arguments,and sometimes I prefer to give up supporting an idea even if I think I'm right,but there are also moments when I stand up for my ideas,it all depends on my mood at that moments.It's definitely good to speak up and defeat our points of view if we consider that we're right,but there are also moments when it's good to stop;I would rather do that than risk destroying relationships with other people because of an argument.That's the reason why I sometimes prefer to be the first to cease an argument.
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
Well, I do think arguing is a very negative word. I'd prefer a discussion anytime instead of an argument. Also, my taste for an argument or discussion will be based on the person you are having it with. I especially hate to argue with close minded people as it is surely that the argument or discussion won't go anywhere because they wouldn't listen. But if the person you are arguing or discussing with is open minded and you yourself is open minded, it surely will be a pleasant argument or discussion. Both parties will surely learn from each other towards a healthy discussion.
@francesca5 (1344)
24 Aug 11
it depends on the argument, and the other person in the argument. sometimes an argument that is a debate about something, where both people get to put their opinions, and there is no nastiness, can be quite enjoyable. but other arguments aren't quite so pleasant. i once had a friend who married someone who used to like arguing, and he always claimed he was playing devil's advocate, but sometimes he would say something so ridiculous, and then refuse to give ground, no matter how absurd his original viewpoint, that it just got very boring. but sometimes arguments are necessary, sometimes they can be enjoyable, and sometimes they are a complete waste of time. it just depends.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
For me, it's healthy to have arguments especially when it exercises your views and opinions on certain topic of your interest as long as it's professionally discussed. Not to carry it on personally that would result to unreasonable fights. Nice discussion. Happy myLotting!
• India
24 Aug 11
Hahah nice discussion ...well its all depend on situation if i m touched to point and its hurting me then ill argument with anyone ..i have one quality if i found that i am wrong then i quit argument ..but i only argument to solve the problem ..otherwise not for any ego matter.hmmm well some of my known argument just for take center of attraction thats and i stricktly dont like this..if someone try to hurt me by argument with and the person is wrong then i argument till the last breath of mine but mostly i argument on that topics that i learn exactly
• India
24 Aug 11
People have different opinions tht is why arguments occurs... and to argue is to try to change a persons view.. so for me it depends on how much time i have and how much is it worth it to argue with that person about a topic that interests me... and yeah i argue often ;) ..
• India
24 Aug 11
i argue depending upon the situation in which iam ,it is fooloshness to argue for every small things.it depends on the seriousness of the situation.how we behave etc.but finally i love arguements some times when they are funny not hurting anyone.sometimes good and sometimes bad.
@alquizar (480)
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
I think it really depends on the arguement.Some people loves to argue some big or even small things.As much as possible I want to avoid arguments because It will just worsen the problem and it will not help me as as an individual.
@thetis74 (1525)
24 Aug 11
I wold avoid arguments as much as possible because I don't like to have enemies. But when I am being attacked and needs to defend myself then I would start to argue. It isn't a good feeling when you hurt someone. But as long as I am not the one starting it, then I have nothing to be guilty of.
• Philippines
24 Aug 11
i love arguing as much as you do but i dont think we are in it for the same reason. i wouldnt argue for the plain sake of wanting to prove myself right, though at some point that might be the case but not all of it. i would want to see an argument as a healthy exchange of ideas for the purpose of learning everything that affects a certain subject especially the why's of it. we just dont speak for our part, we also have to listen and analyze what the other end has to say. it is not intended to drain my arguing buddy's energy and have him just give up because of senseless arguments rather it is to make points clear to come up with conclusions agreeable to the parties involved- even if that means me losing the argument, if they really made very good points. it is meant to enrich our knowledge and even create a great relationship with people we are having positive arguments with.