How to be Happy when you're surrounded with Big Problems?

August 24, 2011 9:58am CST
I have here a letter from a friend who wants my advice, she said: Dear..., I know that problems are normally there but how come that in my working place, I could experience big problems everyday? How could I feel be happy with all these mess around me? The following are examples: Day 1 Monday- I gave a wrong schedule to all the staff and they all got troubles with their clients because I send them the wrong one.After that, our boss reprimanded me for how many hours. Day 2 Tuesday- I have a wrong call to an agency and our company was scolded for the careless employee like me. I am busted again, so another painful swearing I've heard from him. Day 3 Wednesday-Today,...still waiting for what I might broke up! What can I do with this problem, kindly help me work through with this because I haven't experience such clumsy thing before. Thank you!
4 responses
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
Problems is always there but it depend upon how you handle that problem. If problem comes you just say "All is Well" and you will have the courage to face them. My friend told me a quote he said "Don't problem your problem Let your problem problem you". I always laugh when he always said that. But maybe it will help!
25 Aug 11
LOL... I like that quote "don't problem your problem but let your problem problem you," it makes sense after all. Yes I've heard that phrase also in a movie the Three Idiots they said it always that "All is Well." Thank you silver_sharkbait. I hope all things will turn right for my friend.
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
Your welcome bash! Glad you like the quote. LOL
@chiyosan (29389)
• Philippines
25 Aug 11
I think what she experienced was more like stuffs that we can avoid. day 1, she could have not sent the wrong ones when she is careful to check the schedule before sending them. day 2 that too, she could have checked the name of the agency, etc before putting the call on. I think she is clumsy now because she is bothered... what is she thinking about, what is she worried about that is making her less careful of the things she does at work...
25 Aug 11
Yes chiyosan,this may be avoided and extra focus with eye single to the work is the best thing to do to avoid it again.Thank you for that point.
@Fireheart (683)
• India
24 Aug 11
I think its her own fault in first place to say, she should be careful specially if she is working is a business company people are bound to face this sort of problem but this sort is unheard of, i think some one put a curse on her, like blackmagic sort of thing, better watch out, a curse can be deadly specially if it is cursed by someone who knows black magic well.
25 Aug 11
Wow, that sounds spooky! Really? Is that really possible? If that would be true, then where should we look for a cure or any solution to that?
@moneywinner (1866)
• Brazil
24 Aug 11
Honestly, for what you wrote, it seems that the problems only happened because of her. So, if she doesn't want to have so many problems, she should pay more attention to her job. I guess that the first thing we need to do when we have busy life, we need to organize everything, so, no time will be worthless. If we organize our schedule, we are going to find time to work and to have fun. But, always remember that the time for fun is really for fun, forget about the job and the problems and enjoy the life.
25 Aug 11
You have the point there moneywinner, yet sometimes she said even she's doing things more carefully but still there's some kind of circumstances which are inevitable. Though there were things beyond our control but how come on her part she's struggling a lot in overcoming that. I don't really know what to do with her, she's always sobbing like a kid because of another trouble she made at work.