I miss him

Philippines
August 27, 2011 12:00am CST
It's been 1 year 2 months of being in a long distance relationship and we are having a hard time. Last day he told he can't sleep due to missing me so much, I sometimes feel that way. I always dream of us and sometimes woke up in the middle of the night wondering of my empty heart. Mylotters, what's the best thing to do in this situation. When you miss someone and you can't do anything about it..It's pretty hard for me.Have you experienced this one?How did you survive?
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14 responses
@jazzyrae (1747)
• United States
27 Aug 11
Yes I have experience this my boyfriend over 3 hours away for a year to make matters worse my mom banned me from talking to him ( so we secretly dated ) we live together now have you tried skypeing eachother?????? Just communicate and visit eachother as much as possible
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• Philippines
27 Aug 11
oh, 3 hours away is not bad at all. We're miles away and we can't see each other. you truly love him for making things possible for both of you. I hoe your mother will soon accept the one you adore.Thanks for the respond.
@jazzyrae (1747)
• United States
27 Aug 11
we im not holding my breath for my mom to like him she wouldn't even go to my graduation because i moved in with him but i hope everything goes great for you guys
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• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Oh, you're staying together now? That must be so so so bad for your mom, she surely feel sad now. Just try to talk to her now. fix things up.Whatever happens she is still your mom.
@hmkoct5 (2067)
• United States
27 Aug 11
Yes, I did experience this. I was engaged to a man who joined the Navy. He was gone for many months at a time. There were times that I thought I would die of a broken heart. I just tried to keep myself busy. I would also write him letters. Writing the letters made me feel like I was talking to him. This was before the time of internet and cell phones. I had to wait months to talk to him. It was very difficult, but love prevailed.
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• Philippines
27 Aug 11
that's really love! Thank you for sharing this one. Are you married now? Be happy always..
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@hmkoct5 (2067)
• United States
9 Sep 11
I am married, but not to him. That relationship didn't last. But, that was many years ago.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
27 Aug 11
That is the hard time for those who misses their love one specially when you are in a long distance relationship. I am also experienced the same thing as you and i hate to feel that coz my enemy is myself. I have nothing to do but to think of him and almost wanted to fly to him. Well the best thing to do to kill that stupid feelings although we know the he still loves us is to get busy and always at crowd i mean keep on socializing so that you will pass the time missing him until the right time he come home. Keep busy my friend...
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• Philippines
31 Aug 11
yes, i'm a bit busy now. And socializing is a good idea too. I'm making myself busy here in mylot. This site is helping me so much. I just think mlot copes up my stres and missing him syndrome. thanks for the response.
• China
27 Aug 11
Hi, nurseclare. I have not walked in your shoes .But i think it must be rather tough to be apart from who you fall in love with . No offence .However , i have seen many lovers break up for long distance . Many of them believe that they can be loyal to each other as long as they talk on MSN or send E-mails . Yet , the reality is totally different from their dream . With the lure of hot boys or girls , they began to change their faith gradually . So if you wanna continue the relationship with your boyfriend, you had better go to him .
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• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Going into the place he works is not a good idea. Married couple are only allowed to meet. And the one you've mentioned is different from ours. We trust in God and we know we can make thing possible. We're going so well now. Our everyday communication is good. I thank GOD for everything.
• Philippines
27 Aug 11
This is really a difficult situation. It is really hard to experience this especially when you are in love with a person so much that it feels succumbing to be far away from them for too long. By the way, how far is he from you? In my case, when things are like this, constant communication is key to make your relationship stronger. Emails, chats, webcams, or messages through mobile phones, exchanges of pictures are really helpful for you not to miss this person that much. Hope you guys would see each other soon. And when it happens, spend some precious quality time.
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• Philippines
31 Aug 11
Both of you are right. I love your response my_january and stowyk. I hope we could see him. We're thousand miles apart. Thanks for the response mylotters.
@CSR2007 (63)
27 Aug 11
Forgive my asking, are you married? If yes, please forget him as possible as you can. You cann't live happy under his shadow, he is the past, and your husband is the present, so who is more important, balance it, cherish the presnet. If not, you are still sigle, why not pursue him to end you endless pains.
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• Philippines
27 Aug 11
how come you asked if I AM MARRIED?did you take a lok at my picture ?do i look old to get married? I am blissfully single CSR. We will tie the knot Gids time. In God's will. Thanks for the respond.
@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
27 Aug 11
hello, This is sound really difficult because you know what? I have a boyfriend and I still miss him every time and every minute when we separate. I dont know why?But since everyday we see each other I am still missing him. I think you better make yourself busy and dont think of him and dont be alone because you will still remember him.alright?
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• Philippines
27 Aug 11
Oh at least you guys are close and you can see him more often that i do. I only se him in skype but i can't touch him! I wanna kiss him! You suggest i won't think of him?i can't do that..He's always in my mind..yea, i will be busy here in mylot so I can't over think of him. thanks for the respond...
• India
27 Aug 11
Love is part of the life and heart of the life ...missing someone kills our sleep at the night time .. i bet i am right but i hope i should be wrong ..because sleep is also important in life ..if u miss him u can have chat through sms or phone call or chat on Skype :-) make the long distance into short distance ... Get Married ..or you have to keep thinking of the person , u need to remember the voice of him which has melted ur heart ... when u lay on ur bed .. close ur eye .. be blank for 5 minutes and start remember from the day first how he has been ur friend than into love ... while thinking these you should close ur eye and ur hands on ur stomach and see the magic ;-) it has helped when i was in love .. The Power of missing someone special make it as ur strong point Don`t make the Missing love ur Weakness u may loose Everything.. Becarefull ;-)
30 Aug 11
TotaLLy Agree....the Power of missing someOne speciaL make as uR strong point... Make the Most of your time While He is not around,, Let HIM be your inspiration whatEver you do and someHow it makes you CLOSER to each other...and WHEN time comes that his coming Home in your ARMS,, WHIsh everthing wiLL FALL into PLACE.
@KrauseHome (35035)
• United States
9 Sep 11
Personally if you are a Praying person, I would be praying about this one and asking God what is Best and if he is meant to be for you, then in time things will happen, and if not than let it be and be willing to move on. But sounds like you need to be able to really decide what is Best for you and this situation and let your mind tell you what is best without having others influence you. Because in reality this is your situation. And should be well thought out so 10 yrs. from now you will not be thinking "What If."
@toniganzon (49899)
• Philippines
7 Sep 11
I love you and miss you so much it hurts. That was told me by someone who used to love me so much. We couldn't do anything at all but just wait and be patient. HOld on a little longer. Just continue to keep in touch with each other. There are so many ways you can try to be together virtually. Soon the sacrifices will pay off.
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
nothing is impossible if you trust god pray to him and ask guidance that you can survive your feelings. Let your tears wash away its normal
@beingwell (3627)
• Thailand
28 Aug 11
The best thing to do is pray. LDR either strengthens a relationship or breaks it. I had my own share of this and thank God that it helped our love for each other stronger. For now my dear, my advise for you is to pray for the same. True love conquers all. No distance nor time can ever separate you. So...just keep the faith and you'll be fine.
@HeartROB (434)
• Philippines
28 Aug 11
That is pretty hard my friend. If you really love each other then you can both wait till the time comes when you two are able to meet each other. The question there is that, you two will still be able to see each other right? Maybe not instanly, but someday? And if that chance is still possible. Then patience is the key. Dont worry, you are a nurse, Patience is the Key characteristic of a nurse. It would be easy for you(I hope). Sayings says that In time you will be able to reap out the fruits of your hard labor.
• Indonesia
27 Aug 11
I've experienced. I still maintain good communication between i and my girl. maintaining communication is absolutely necessary to live a relationship / dating long distance. Today it would not be difficult to communicate because it has a lot of support facilities. Can the phone, sms, even use Video Call are now emerging. So, using this facility as possible. apart from that I also made a clear commitment to my girl. Where was this relationship really is. Whether this relationship is a relationship is a serious relationship or just fooling around. If this is a serious relationship means i and she both vowed to be a faithful spouse. in order to create a sense of relief and trust.