To all Mylot mother, I need some advice

hi dominique25 my daughter was really like your baby when she was yet at that age. She can cry the whole day when I was away. She's now a teen-ager. During those times when she was yet a baby, we really had a difficulty on where to leave her during work. Fortunately, my husband lost his job again. So he did not accept offer for job just to take care of the baby. That was really difficult. But for now, you baby will become used to her grannies. Just don't hurry she will soon get used to them. You need to relax your mind don't think so much of your baby while working.

hi there. i am not a mother but i am a father. and i work at nights and sometimes i work out of town. my son is 5 years old already but when he was an infant he is awake all night waiting for me. when i tex message my wife that i am headed home our child will sleep. at first i did not believe what my wife was telling me but she video taped the events at home when i go to work. and if i dont work he will be sleeping at night and not be crying. he wont give us hard time. my first advice is dont sleep with your child. if she gets to comfy with that she will sure be giving the people with her a hard time. when you need to go out without her leave your blouse or shirt that you took of. i mean the one you wear that say. leave it near her. she would be smelling that and think you are just around. bring toys that she wants and enjoys like a mobile or something with music. i hope this work. i am sure there are a lot of moms there would be happy to help you... and dads too.

I know this all to well. And it is a heartbreaking thing to see your child so upset. Some children are like this. And its great that you are looking into finding these times to be more pleasant. Its a huge demand on you to feel like you are the only one that she is comfortable around. Its so tiring on moms. I do however recommend that you continue to work on this with the ones that are willing to help out. Try out first by maybe bringing the person whom is willing to help over. Have them sit with you. As your baby feels your comfort with them around then maybe she will feel more at peace when they are around. Then have them feed her while you continue to talk in the room so she can hear you. Only come and comfort her a few times and then work to longer periods of allowing the other person to help her. Have them change her, play with her, read her a book. Take her outside etc....whatever else you do with her each day. Also an important part of this is to make leaving a quick and consistent routine. Assure her you will return and gradually increase the times that you are out. I would recommend actually going somewhere tho. Its hard to hear your baby cry and not go to her. But as long as you know all her needs are met and she is content initially then she will learn that you do come back and it will become easier for you both.

Hi ! I also have a daughter and she will be 2 years old next month. I think another reason why baby act like that is because we are always thinking of them that much when we are away from them, although it's very natural. Some elders says that when we are not around we should not think of our child that much because they will be affected. They also said, before you leave the house, leave your child the used dress you wear and make it their blanket, at least they will smell your scents. I don't know if it has any scientific basis but I followed their suggestions when my child is still a baby.