Am I right? For strong relationship understanding and trust is necessary

India
August 29, 2011 2:55am CST
I observed many of the relations break not only between husband and wife but also in between other family members because they not understand the feelings of each other. Even in between friends the trust is must otherwise friendship will be break now everyone know life is short. So we all should understand the feelings of each other with our family members or friends.. Trust is also play the most important role for strong relations because may be the third party will say anything about your family members but you should not believed on that third party and before taking any decision you should ask to your family member about that. Because in the world jealous people are more than innocent and they cant see us if we are happy with our family.. Share your view what you think really this is true or other points is also necessary for strong relationship.
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@surekharathi (14134)
• India
29 Aug 11
Hello dear fantabulus what a nice username. You are absolutely right without trust and understanding no relationship will be for long time. Doubt is the main part of breaking the relationship not only in between husband wife but also among any family members trust is must.. Wow.. you are new comer but doing well best luck
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• India
1 Sep 11
Thanks surekha to tell clear you like only my user name haha.... I am joking dont take tension I am also married. You are right trust is the first step of strong relationship doubt is the main part of breaking the relationship thanks to share your view.
@waflay (2717)
• Nairobi, Kenya
29 Aug 11
You are right as understanding and trust are a basis for a strong relationship.To be able to sail through in a relationship,one should tolerate the partner's views and feelings with a goal to get to know why one's partner thinks of this or that.Then in a relationship being open to your partner is important because it leaves no room for doubts.
@Triple0 (1907)
• Australia
29 Aug 11
You're indeed correct! I agree with you! A relationship is dysfunctional if there is no trust between the partners. If you get a third party involved then you'll just make the situation even worse. Always place your trust in your partner.
• India
29 Aug 11
where is and how are you my friend waflay since long time I have not seen you. you are Triple you are absolutely right third party is involved then relationship may be break if trust is not there.
• India
30 Aug 11
good morning wafly and triple You are right if third party involved not only in between husband wife but also among family members then the situation will worse. So I hate third party interfere in my family..
@dpk262006 (56105)
• Delhi, India
31 Aug 11
Hi there! I entirely agree with your contention that lack of trust could destroy a good relationship. Mutual trust between partners is imperative and so is the case between friends. I fully trust my partner and dear friends and expect that they would trust me in the same manner. We need to have more patience and understanding to understand each other and we should keep in mind that everyone is not like us. Good post.
• India
1 Sep 11
Thanks dpk to accept my thoughts. Wooo nice to meet you because you trust on your partner the same as me I also trust on my partner and partner is the best person in the world for me ahah... thanks to tell good post dear
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@dpk262006 (56105)
• Delhi, India
1 Sep 11
If we start disbelieving our respective partners, life will become difficult and disturbing. Trust is must between partners.
• India
29 Aug 11
I totally agree with u that trust and understandings is a must for any good relationship.Rather than beleiving on other people we should trust our own family members first.Even i would say to maintain a good relationship we should even say and express our feeling to our beloved ones to make them realize how much they r important in our life,it will not only make them feel happy,it will also make our relationship more strong.
• Pakistan
29 Aug 11
Plus compromise works miraculously, of course.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
29 Aug 11
Every relationship deserves understanding and trust. we lose too much without that foundation to build on. Having these two things in a relationships can only make it stronger as time goes on. without it, the relationship can soon crumble and leave us with nothing but regrets.
• Pakistan
29 Aug 11
Agreed to great extent yet 'COMPROMISE' plays a vital role in continuing with a relationship or contact. There must be compromising attitude if one, both or all the concerned ones are, in any way, willing to keep up with the relationship.
@tigeraunt (6331)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
hi fantabulous, a relationship is always a two way affair. it wouldnt work with only just one nurturing and taking care of the relationship. trust plays a very important role. if you need peace at home, you should trust your partner. ann
• Pakistan
29 Aug 11
Agreed wholeheartedly.
@Olleenz (3400)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 11
It easy to make relationship but to make it strong ..... you need both of them (specially on trust). Not just in family relationship but also for other relationship. I give you one extreme example why need both of them: Do you know that we can make relationship animal(not all of them of course)? If we want to make relationship with them, you need to gain their trust. Just like in the circus, it's impossible to make animal follow your instruction if you don't gain they trust.
• India
30 Aug 11
Yes you are right olleenz not only for family relations but other relations also needs trust and understanding thanks to explain your view..Great example and thanks for it.
29 Aug 11
Hi fantabulus, Yes, understanding and trust is necessary to build strong relationships, especially between husband and wife, family and friends. If any third party comes in and start to weave malicious story about a member of the family, family members will begin to doubt each other. If they have a strong bond of trust and understanding, they will hold a family council, gather together and discuss about the matter. They will discuss the cause of the problem and find ways to solve that problem. No family member is left out to solve the problem by himself. It's a 'one for all, all for one' situation. Everybody is involved to solve the problem. That is good and harmonious relationship built on trust and understanding.
• India
30 Aug 11
Hello prosperity good morning Great response wow! I like it but wait till 2 days for best response according to rule. thanks to explain your thought in good manner.
• Bangladesh
29 Aug 11
Yap,you are right buddy.There is no alternative of trust to have a sound relationship.Trust is really important for all type of relationship.If we do not have trust on relatives,then we can not say it is relation. Understanding is really necessary for marriage or live together life.One more thing is commitment.We have to be committed to your partner to have a great relationship. Another thing is that respect,we should have respect to each other in all views,works and ideas and these can help to build a good relationship.
• India
30 Aug 11
Thanks to accept my view yes without trust no relationship. I think you have good experience thanks dabaangle
@akp100 (13328)
• India
29 Aug 11
Hi Surely both are important for long and strong relationship. Without understanding relationship will be like bind. And without trust there will be no relationship. So I agree both are important.
• India
30 Aug 11
Good morning akp Woooo great thought I think you have good experience thanks to accept my view...
• Australia
30 Aug 11
As well as understanding and trust, I think too, honesty plays a big roll.
@derek_a (10902)
30 Aug 11
To make a strong relationship in my experience needs trust and truth from each partners. Sometimes it can be difficult as the truth may not be something you want to hear, but it still remains the truth and it is best to give it, or it can lead to complications further along the way. My wife and I tell the truth as we know it and in my opinion our relationship is very solid. It has not always been easy and sometimes very uncomfortable, but I prefer to hear truth and give it. _Derek
@htodizzo (31)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
The world is made up of almost perfect. It is nothing but near misses and necessary compromises. - Charmed That's all I can say about relationship. It's too hard to understand someone you don't trust. :) I'm gonna add RESPECT and ACCEPTANCE for stronger relationship. In order for you to understand, trust and love someone, you should respect and accept em' for what and who they are.
• United States
30 Aug 11
You are 100% correct. One of the main reasons I fell for my guy was that he understood me. he would listen and he understood me and in return I understood him! We became friends way before we became lovers. The trust was there. It Had to be there. I also agree when it comes to family relations. I have this new friend that is in a feud with her sister. They both don't understand each other. It is so sad. It isn't too hard to sit down and shut up and let a person open up So you can understand them! But many never do!
@isloooboy (1741)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
Truth is simple, but understanding is complex. The tremendous, essential realities lay in front of our eyes at every moment. But our eyes are shut, and our heads are twisted away. We live on the surface, perceiving reflections and images, reacting to events, striving to make sense. The simple and obvious reality lies outside of us and inside of us, but it is elusive. As we advance, it retreats. Our perception itself distorts what we see. The tools we have at our disposal are blunt. Understanding is a simple, universal, and under-utilized capacity, which we all have. There is no continuity between ignorance and understanding. Ignorance is the domination of a single truth, which subjugates all others. It holds tight to its minimal and narrow conceptions. Understanding liberates from bondage to appearances. It breaks shells, reveals secrets, creates possibilities. A single inspiration is a resolution of an enigma, and knits together the torn fabric of our experience.
• United States
30 Aug 11
Hi fantabulus! Yes without trust sadly there is no real relationship. It can't truly be love if we do not trust. While sometimes things happen with some relationships, without the trust it can ultimately destroy the love and relationship with one another. One can say they not trust their partner and I am not sure how that can last long term.
• United States
29 Aug 11
I agree 100% without understanding and trust is the most important things in any relationship. But that being said you as a part of any relationship have to be trustworthy and understanding in return. You have to show the other person in your relationships that you trust and can be trusted. If you can do that then no matter what is said or done you will always have one person who is on your side and there for you.
@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
29 Aug 11
It is hard (I do think impossible) always to understand what is going on in other people's mind and heart. We all are a combination of education, life style, character, in combinaton with life experiences, age and gender. Also nearly nobody is completely open and honest. I don't think there is any need to understand everybody completely. There is nothing wrong about being different. But.. this only works if you accept this fact. What is trust? Not everybody has the same opinion about trust, it's the same with loyalty. In every relation you should not only give but also take. There has to be a balance and if you consider yourself to be close to someone, you should ask yourself what is really important. The world might be full with jealous people who envy you or like to break you, but this will never happen if you won't let that happen.
29 Aug 11
people need to spend time with each other to make a relation loving. people need to be spend more time in their families to make it a healthy one. Trust is important too and that cannot come with out love
@ARShams (82)
• Pakistan
29 Aug 11
I agree with you on this point that for strong relationship understanding and trust are necessary. Besides that, if I would be allowed to add, I would surely say that in this regard more important has been found is 'COMPROMISE'.