Jaiho's - Misunderstood Love
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
September 1, 2011 7:23pm CST
My Misunderstood Love
Why am I so unlucky in love?
Am I holding love too tight that make it breathless and it dies?
Am I holding it too loose that I lost grip and someone can stole it before my eyes?
Am I too lax or over confident that I own love like a possession.
Am I too domineering that makes you feel less a man you are ?
Am I too caring that you lost your freedom?
Am I too passionate that you feels boring without fun, don’t I never knew humor at all?
Am I too honest that you doubted my words, you feel I am just pretending it all.
Am I too understanding to make you feel uneasy and make you feel worry.
Am I giving too much, giving it all that you can’t bear to take everything in reality.
Am I loving you with too much greatness that you feel I am cheating behind.
Am I giving you everything that made you feel you haven’t given a part of you?
Am I giving you a world of fantasy that gives you doubts if I am thinking with anxiety?
Or I haven’t done enough to make you feel how much you mean to me?
You maybe have doubts that I am just playing with your around.
Why can’t you listen to your heart?
I am sure you will find the answer to my MISUNDERSTOOD LOVE!
“I found love when I am ready to live my life alone and settled myself that I won’t love again. But you came into my life without any warning and I tell myself why not give it a try. I gamble again in this game called LOVE.
But…I don’t know if this time I can claim “love is mine forever”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UMcZI8pOjjA&feature=related
[b]perhaps love is like a window, perhaps an open door
it invites you to come closer
it wants to show you more[/b]
I claim that this is my original creation and not a copy pasted!
jaiho®
9/2/2001 8:21am PT (Friday)
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9 responses
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
hi jaiho,
I am misunderstood too...............they taught we already have a romantic relationship but they are the only one who knew it 
Well love is a gamble you will loose or you will win but we must know how to play the game
miss yah
Well love is a gamble you will loose or you will win but we must know how to play the game
miss yah
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
well,...maybe because you treat them with too much sweetness that they assume of romantic result...( poor guys)
anyway, why not not choose one?
I thought only Rummy and Poker were @bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
@ jaiho,
I am naturally sweet so the sweetness is coming out naturally
It's too complicated if I will choose one from them 
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 11
Hi Sister Jai, it is a pity if our love is being misunderstood. Hope you will be able to win this time, if love is consider as a gamble. Hope you don't feel disappointed if you don't win. Just keep staying positive and thinking positive, i am sure you will win in the end...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
hello sis,
I've laid all my card...win or lose 
No matter what, at least I won't regret a thing for not giving it all.
have a good day and thanks for always being here
sis,
jaiho®
No matter what, at least I won't regret a thing for not giving it all.
have a good day and thanks for always being here
sis,
jaiho®@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 11
Sis Jai, i am happy that at least you are brave to confront your future. Indeed, we should be that way to deal with every sort of problem in our daily life. I am trying to arrange as much time to online recently and trying to respond to as much discussions as possible. Hope you always have a happy day, too...
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Sep 11
HI Jai!
Again a superlative poem by you 
, which tells about intricacies of love and go deep into the meaning of love. I think love is a very complex emotions and it is not as easy as laughing or crying, it could only be felt within and difficult to define in words.
Again a superlative poem by you , which tells about intricacies of love and go deep into the meaning of love. I think love is a very complex emotions and it is not as easy as laughing or crying, it could only be felt within and difficult to define in words. @dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Sep 11
Rest assured I won't stop reading or will get tired reading your wonderful poems.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
hello dpk,
I know you will again say these words, I am very thankful for your support .
I hope you won't stop reading or get tired of following my posts
have a good day always 
jaiho®
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I hope you won't stop reading or get tired of following my posts
have a good day always
jaiho®
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
2 Sep 11
Just because of the illness of my son followed by mine then again with my son and it goes on dear.... and some other problems related with the same.
I have read your other posts too, to be very frank I don't know what to write there, not only with your posts but with many posts also, I am not getting words.. I hope my brain will start function soon...
...And what is wrong with you dear, your picture says you are in a pensive mood... I really wish and hope everything will be alright in your life very soon....
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
I hope and pray everything will be fine soon dear and that everyone is in good health
Thanks for your wishes my dear sis...I will be fine, and will be always
Thanks for your wishes my dear sis...I will be fine, and will be always @jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
dear sis Sree,
Nice to see you dear and why..what happened?
Sorry to hear about problem/s...your sis here is also facing some...
now my heart is not functioning well
have a good day dear sis and hope to see you active again
sis,
jaiho®
,
Nice to see you dear and why..what happened?
Sorry to hear about problem/s...your sis here is also facing some...
now my heart is not functioning well
have a good day dear sis and hope to see you active again
sis,
jaiho®1 person likes this
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
6 Sep 11
a gamble, a game, love? 
well, they say love comes in the most unexpected moment.
so why gamble when it will really comes. grab it when you feel it's love that comes in.
sorry dear, have to be here late and with not so good thought. [sad]
well, they say love comes in the most unexpected moment.
so why gamble when it will really comes. grab it when you feel it's love that comes in.
sorry dear, have to be here late and with not so good thought. [sad]1 person likes this
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
6 Sep 11
hello neil,
And what happened to my dear brother?
Losing the cassanova magic?
Forget gambling, I am broke right now
have a good day always dear bro and hugs to little zayzay
sis,
jaiho®
Forget gambling, I am broke right now
have a good day always dear bro and hugs to little zayzay
sis,
jaiho®
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
2 Sep 11
Hi di
I dont know much but here is what I think - I own love like a possession - is the culprit here. As long as there is a feeling of possessiveness, it does come with so many tags with it - you have to be this way, you have to do this, you have to think this and so many more... Many people forget that the one they love is another person and has an identity.
I always believe that love is nothing near possessiveness. It is something that should have zero expectations and zero limitations. I think true love means accepting the other person as s/he is - without any tags that need him/her to change for me or my love.
Your bro is quite still a kid and doesnt know much on this. But he has some good relationships only because of this thinking.(again this is what he thinks )
Di, I have sent you a PM (nothing related to the topic here.)
I dont know much but here is what I think - I own love like a possession - is the culprit here. As long as there is a feeling of possessiveness, it does come with so many tags with it - you have to be this way, you have to do this, you have to think this and so many more... Many people forget that the one they love is another person and has an identity.
I always believe that love is nothing near possessiveness. It is something that should have zero expectations and zero limitations. I think true love means accepting the other person as s/he is - without any tags that need him/her to change for me or my love.
Your bro is quite still a kid and doesnt know much on this. But he has some good relationships only because of this thinking.(again this is what he thinks )
Di, I have sent you a PM (nothing related to the topic here.)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
dear sids,
Expectation/s?
I never did...I never expect anything in return.
Don't take seriously dear....your di is just sharing her emotion/s here, or else, I might explode.
Yes, you are still a kid and doesn't know much about this,let your di suffer and pay the price of her love then...and I will be alright
I know you are always there and don't forget the elephant ride for the "maharini" (^_*)
Good day always....
di,
jaiho®
PM- responded (^_^)
Expectation/s?
I never did...I never expect anything in return.
Don't take seriously dear....your di is just sharing her emotion/s here, or else, I might explode.
Yes, you are still a kid and doesn't know much about this,let your di suffer and pay the price of her love then...and I will be alright
I know you are always there and don't forget the elephant ride for the "maharini" (^_*)
Good day always....
di,
jaiho®
PM- responded (^_^)@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
Don't worry dear...your di is a fighter...I can even fight with Stallone
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
hi jaiho,
how sad it is if love is misunderstood.
everything i say, is a gamble and i just hope you get lucky in the end.
a very nice day to you.
ann
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
hello Ann,
Gamble- I wish I will win this time
thanks for your response dear and have a good day to you always
jaiho®
thanks for your response dear and have a good day to you always
jaiho®
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
26 Feb 12
Jane beti
You are not unlucky first of all, as human being born on this earth, we have to follow a prelaid path, so you followed it
Yes love is an open door or window, with glass having reflective coating outside, so you can see all outside but none can see you!!!!
I again repeat you are genius, the talent in you will come out to lime light one day or other.
Hugs from Dada
You are not unlucky first of all, as human being born on this earth, we have to follow a prelaid path, so you followed it
Yes love is an open door or window, with glass having reflective coating outside, so you can see all outside but none can see you!!!!
I again repeat you are genius, the talent in you will come out to lime light one day or other.
Hugs from Dada
@ankitbhat (269)
• India
2 Sep 11
you seem to be a hardcore lover or the one who has been cheated in love or she hasnt got the kinda love she had always imagined so what is it
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
hello ankibhat,
I write/wrote from my heart.
I was cheated once.
Hardcore lover?..me?...I am unique on my own special way.
thanks for the response and have a good day
jaiho®
jaiho®