why do guys cheat???

@jeztrose (1405)
Philippines
September 5, 2011 3:54am CST
i am just curious on some guys who cheat their partner?i have a friend of mine who is very sweet,romantic and beautiful.. but sadly her boyfriend do cheat her not once but twice..they are in a 3 years relationship now,still together,and i caught his boyfriend with another girl again..i think my friend given him all the love and care that he neede but still he always find for a new one.. duh..! :(
2 responses
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
6 Sep 11
Why shouldn't they? Just kidding (not funny, I know). Anyway, I just don't like the way this question sounds. I mean, why does it have to specifically point out at the male species and not just be a general unisex question? Anyway, to answer your question, I think that some people cheat because they are not totally contented with what their partner has or offers, or sometimes they cheat just for the thrill of it. I don't exactly know why, but that's just what I would have reasons in mind if I were to cheat.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
6 Sep 11
sorry choy..i didn't mean that all guys are cheater,coz my guy is not that kind... hahah but well,, i think ur right but if you cheat does this mean that you dont love your partner??coz my this guy still sticks with my friend...
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
6 Sep 11
Hi Jen! I really didn't notice that it was you who started this discussion, or else I could have been friendlier. Sorry. So how's mylot and people here treating you? Anyway, well, I don't really know this guy so I can't speak for him, and I can't really agree that if a person cheats, he/she no longer loves the one he/she is with. Like I said, there could be just issues.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
7 Sep 11
ahahah lol..so now you know it's me...but then it's ok...well,i'm enjoying my time here trying to find more interesting topics and friends..thanks to you!.. hmmm back to our topic,i agree with you,we can't merely judge a person right away, but since my friend is involve i simply want to figure out why are some "people" do such thing to their partner when they say that they love them.. :(
@Triple0 (1907)
• Australia
5 Sep 11
Has your friend confronted her partner about his situation? Does she know? Because she really needs to break the relationship off, that guy is not worth it and your friend doesn't deserve such guy. Does your friend know why he's deliberately doing this to her? That guy is just using her, knowing how he can freely be with other women while your friend won't know. There are plenty of wonderful guys out there who are committed to a relationship. It's not like all guys like to cheat. She was really unlucky to pick up this guy.
@jeztrose (1405)
• Philippines
6 Sep 11
i think..Yes! they talk about it..but you know my friend is so inluv with this guy and cant let him go..but you know what,whenever they are together the guy is so sweet to her,and caring.. so it hink my friend cant let him go because of what this guy show her..and i dont know if my friend already accepted the fact that her guy cheated her..coz she had told me that it's fine that her guy do such thing..atleast she knows that in the end her guy sticks with her.. so sad fo my friend.. :(