I hate not be the first choice

United States
September 5, 2011 8:51pm CST
Did you see the movie "Something borrow"? The main character told her best friend that she hate to be not the first choice, because the man of her love didn't choose her at the first place. I can more or less relate to it. Although I am not her, and my situation is totally different from the movie script, in real life, I want to be the first choice of the woman I like too. A few years back, I met this girl, I thought that I can fall in love with her, and she will pick me as her first choice. In opposite, I wasn't. I just lately discovered that, she was more fond of another man rather than me. And I only be her friend from the beginning, and I just too stupid to realize it. Now, I am awake, I simply made a choice not to see her again, since I am not the first choice. Too shame on myself.
3 responses
• Philippines
6 Sep 11
for me im not hate whem im not the first choice because if we pursue that iam the first choice maybe he does not like me
@mensab (4208)
• Philippines
6 Sep 11
this is a precondition for love. i am not agreeable to this. unless we start very early with our partner, then we will be assured of his/her being the first choice. it is not fair to impose something for our partner, unless we also do it upon ourselves. i have abandoned this notion of being the first with my partner, because she won't be my first anyhow. it is just fair for both of us, as long as we love each other.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
6 Sep 11
We dont know who will be the first choice of our dream boy or girl and if we expect more that we are the first and it did not happen we hurt. Anyway that was just an expectation, so dont be so close and expect much from her or him in order not to be hurt. I am also dont want to expect from him. If he loves me and really want me to his life he will back and say Hello to me. If not come back well what shall i do? nothing but to forget him..