I think my girlfriend is in MyLot

@choybel (5059)
Philippines
September 18, 2011 3:49am CST
Okay, I'm almost sure it was her but I have just chatted with her a while ago via Facebook and she denied that it was her. So here's the scoop. I was browsing through discussions and I don't really remember how but I stumbled upon a user named someone27, which was ordinary if you think about it, but when I saw her discussions started it just pointed out to us. So, I started thinking, 27 was our day and "someone" used to be my nickname in high school when I was playing Quake 2, which I told her. So, I went on to read her discussions and saw almost everything pointing out that it is indeed her and then she says it isn't her. Now, I'm all confused. I am going to talk to her later about this. I don't know. Right now, I'm just shocked and confused. Could this be her or just a really creepy incident? Why would she deny it if it is her indeed? I guess I have to find out soon.
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16 responses
• United States
18 Sep 11
Oh scary, Scary because if in fact it is not here, you are questioning your girl-friend. Not that it is wrong but that the thought crosses your mind. If in fact it is her, oh my why deny? At any rate you have nothing to hide so if indeed it is her she will see that you do enjoy your time here and there is absolutely nothing to fear. I hope it gets sorted soon, but I know if it were me, I would be wondering for a very long time, as to why the coincidence. Probably just that.
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
I don't usually doubt my girlfriend, but this one really just hit me. I mean, I hope you get where I am reacting from. If you get to read her discussion, and see how creepily similar this coincidence is, you might also start thinking. In a few hours, we will meet and read all this and then hopefully close this case once and for all. I will keep you guys posted. Thanks!
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@mysdianait (64064)
• Italy
18 Sep 11
So it is either her or it isn't, right? If it is her and she is denying it then you have problems, both of you If it isn't her and someone else completely but they are suing names which you can relate to then you have an even worse problem in my opinion. Someone who knows you both is meddling with you, a so-called 'friend' maybe?. I hope all works out well for you
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
Well, both of them denies it so I guess it's probably just one creepy coincidence. We are going to make something out of this, me and my girlfriend. I just hope nobody is screwing around with us.
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@thezone (9451)
• Ireland
18 Sep 11
I think we need Scooby Doo and the gang to get involved!
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@mysdianait (64064)
• Italy
18 Sep 11
Double rates on Sundays though
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@dream_ozn (1758)
• Singapore
18 Sep 11
Wow. This is really scary. I can't imagine my boyfriend being here in mylot and reading all my posts. It would be hell for me if he reads about all those I have said over here in Mylot. I hope mylot can be a private place for me. How about you? Have you said anything about your gf that she should not know or something that might lead to a fight? Hope you get your answer soon. If this person is really your gf, then i have no idea why she wants to deny. Perhaps she'll afraid that you'll say she checks on u?
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
18 Sep 11
yes, i like too the current platform of mylot...i don`t like if mylot pattern or platform was changed to be facebook model...i like no one of my friend or my close friend read some of my discussion
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
I once told her that, that myLot is my personal space. I mean I have nothing to hide here but I would appreciate it if she gave me this, and she got all the more curious. I told her if she really wanted to read, then go ahead, but I preferred and told her she just give this to me. In your case, you have to be prepared for possibilities. You'll never know, right?
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@dream_ozn (1758)
• Singapore
25 Sep 11
@adhyz82, i will never want mylot to be like FB. FB is FB and Mylot is Mylot. I never want mylot to adapt to the FB style of updating of status. one FB is enough! You mena you don't want any of your friends to read your discussions? @choybel You are right, i have to be prepared for possibilities. It is indeed a personal space and i'm really glad to hear that you have nothing to hide from your girlfriend. Should she read all your posts, nothing will happen too.But, it is different for me. As i have posted lost of things here that should my bf sees it, i'll be in big trouble. Maybe it's has to do with our relationship not really working very well now.
@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
18 Sep 11
Wow...that is confusing. Are there any trust issues going on between the two of you right now? I have known people to create ghost accounts so they could test their partners. It might be a good thing...she can see that you are on the up and up here. If I were in your position..I might be a little aggravated if I found it to be true...not because of the account...but I might have an issue with the denial part of it. Good luck and take care.
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
I don't think we have trust issues, I have never doubted her, except only this time, and still I am confident that she is saying the truth. I found no reason for her to go low and do all this. If this turns out to be a cruel joke, I will give her my piece. I just hope this is all one creepy coincidence.
@thezone (9451)
• Ireland
18 Sep 11
Shes spying on you!
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
The dreadful day has finally came...Gotta maneuver my way out... Nah, it turned out just to be one of those freak coincidence, or so I hope.
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@thezone (9451)
• Ireland
18 Sep 11
Good to here that choybel These things happen and when they do they can freak you out.
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@mysdianait (64064)
• Italy
18 Sep 11
Freak eh? hmmmmm
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
it really would depend on how detailed her posts are and how personal it is to you. if it's not really that detailed, it might really be someone else as she claims it. perhaps, it's just coincidence that you were able to relate to the post.Don't be paranoid. if in case, the girl is indeed her, perhaps she just don't want you to dig in to her other posts which may be that personal that's why she's trying to hide her true identity. maybe, she wanted mylot to be "her own virtual space" where she could tell everything and everything, no holds bar, without being personally known.
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@mysdianait (64064)
• Italy
18 Sep 11
But using that username which holds a lot of indications as to who she is would lead her to be discovered quite easily surely and then she would not be able to post in her own space Good to see you again!
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
wrong move on her part if she is indeed someone27. nice to be back mysdianait! i've been very busy lately. my kids are getting me preoccupied so there's not much time for mylotting. Anyway, it's nice to be back (they are both sleeping right now ) and it's nice seeing you here again mysD!
@mysdianait (64064)
• Italy
18 Sep 11
Ah! If they are sleeping then it's best that we don't bang on the keyboard while typing, or you will be gone again
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@cream97 (29169)
• United States
18 Sep 11
Hi, choybel. Wow it may be her. This is pretty scary. I think that you better find out if this is really your girlfriend. Just in case that this is her, be tender on what you may say about your relationship.
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@Hatley (164755)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Sep 11
cream it was her and I really think she is not doing herself any favors lying to him and trying to trap him as I read his discussion and he did not say he was going to have a relationship with another person he just wondered what it would have been like had he been in another relationship and in fact he said he would never do that. so she is not trusting him at all if she has to lie and sneak around on him.He seemed pretty honest to me but her l ying about being on here sounds like they are not going to have an easy time keeping their relationship going.
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
Hi cream, hi hatley! Well, it's not 100% clear yet but I am now confident that they are both different people and that this is just a creepy coincidence. I just hope it is, and not a cruel joke. She did deny it, and if it turns out that this is her then I really would hate the fact that she went to lie just for this. I trust her so I'll take her word. We will be meeting in a few hours and we will read all of this. I still feel the eeriness of this.
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@swirlz (3138)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
Well, you just lost yourself a referral then. That's the first thing that crossed my mind. Anyway, why would she hide it from you? Something's suspicious here. If she wanted to be in mylot, she would have asked you to invite her, wouldn't she? So, if she went behind your back that must mean she has a reason for not wanting you to know. I just hope this is just some sort of a trick of hers. Goodluck.
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@swirlz (3138)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
Okay, follow-up question. Does she know you're in mylot? Cause if she doesn't and she's here on her own and posting her problems away, maybe she is embarrassed that you found out? And that you know about the problems she had with you and sharing them to others?
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@Hatley (164755)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Sep 11
hi choybel could it be someone that knows you both and came on here to tease you and your girlfriend? I mean its really some coincidence that it all matches from your own life.sometimes people do play tricks and by using user names some keep themselves anonymous.I dougt if she loves you she would deny it if it indeed is her.More likely some friend to you both playing creepy games .
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@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
I really hope it's just one creepy coincidence. If this turns out to be a cruel joke, it won't go easy.
@keihimekawa (2010)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
Lol~ Are the discussions somewhat problematic? I mean does she say something or started discussions about having relationship trouble or anything? If that's the case, I really don't see why you need to be bothered with it. If the topics doesn't point out anything unusual, then simply drop it and let it be. I really don't see why you need to find out who "someone27" is. On the other hand, if the topics/discussions are somewhat problematic or issue-raising matters, then it's best to find out the truth. If it is indeed her, I don't see the point why she needs to deny it. Maybe someone is simply playing a trick on you. Joining myLot is something you don't need to hide, right? I think you need to check through her discussions first. Check on some of her posts or something then if something about the discussions turns you off, then start asking her about it. If not, then simply drop it.
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
hahahah i just read and responded to it my friend. Well isn't that interesting that it is her! Lol What made you say it is about you? You did that stuff she discussed there? but might not be you also right? you said you are loyal to your girlfriend..so whats the worry? hahaha anyways, trust your girlfriend. if it isn't her and so what if it is her? there is nothing to worry about right?
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@bingskee (5237)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
my first reaction to the title of the post, 'so what?" and did not even suspect that there are posts from someone27 who looked familiar to you. there is probably a deep reason why she stopped. it might truly be her. sadly, she was probably not discreet about posting details that are all too familiar. but if the posts are just topics that does not relate to you and to her, it will not be a problem. wonder what the discussions she posted are all about? is it demeaning or implying that there are problems with your relationship? i mean, that is if it was truly her.
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@Amanda81587 (3046)
• United States
18 Sep 11
It probably is her. If she has done this before then why wouldn't she do it again. Well i hope you have nothing to hide mylot is a great place to be no one starts relationships here lol
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
19 Sep 11
I know I have nothing to hide. I just wish she read everything I said on that specific discussion. She has never done anything like this before, so I don't think now is a good time and not like this.
• United States
19 Sep 11
Yah I think that something about the relationship of you two has been making her insecure lately. Is there something you did that made her not trust you lately? Or have you been acting weird. She feels insecure and it is your job to figure out why and fix it before it becomes a bigger problem for the both of you.
@wongchoiyee (7225)
• Malaysia
18 Sep 11
I think it is her and she has reason not admitting it. Why don't you let it go and sometime later find out if she has something else to do in mylot?
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
I will be tracking her for a while.
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• United States
18 Sep 11
Now that's creepy!
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
Well, you never knew. Girls has their own ways to track and discover what they want to discover. I responded to that topic and advice her to talk with her bf,or it might be you If you have that creepy feeling...follow your intuition,you maybe right...or maybe wrong
@choybel (5059)
• Philippines
18 Sep 11
The user, someone27 responded that she's not my girlfriend and my girlfriend, again denies it on text, so I believe them both. This is going to be a laugh. I am going to read this again with my girlfriend tomorrow and then we'll just be creeped out. This is really creepy, don't you think? Talk about coincidences.
@shaggin (36321)
• United States
19 Sep 11
It is possible that both of them are the same person and your girlfriend is lying. Maybe she wants to write on here but doesnt want you to know that its her because she is embarrassed or something. I have my profile picture of myself on here so there is no denying who I am. Some of the time I think maybe I should take my photo down so people in town wont be able to spot me as easily but oh well for now I guess.