Will you retain your honesty even if you are already cheated?
By berting600
@berting600 (3453)
Philippines
September 21, 2011 2:52am CST
I will retain my honesty just for the sake of my children.I will never leave my family
so that I can still be the father of my children yet I will never talk to my wife anything concerning our relationship because by that moment she can realized the pain more than what she have done to our marriage.I do not care what other people might think about me as a martyr of my family but I do not wanted my children to become misguided by their mother because I wanted them to become strong in their attitudes towards life.
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2 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
21 Sep 11
I salute you for being so protective of your children and staying with a wife who cheated you. 
Actually, have you not ever talked with you wife about her cheating? Have she never asked for your forgiveness? Because if she hadn't and still continue cheating you, then you can file for a case and prove that, so you can have custody of your children and separate with her.
Letting your children stay if their mother is still like that will expose them to the bad character of their mother. Hence there is a need for you to get them and separate.
Actually, have you not ever talked with you wife about her cheating? Have she never asked for your forgiveness? Because if she hadn't and still continue cheating you, then you can file for a case and prove that, so you can have custody of your children and separate with her.
Letting your children stay if their mother is still like that will expose them to the bad character of their mother. Hence there is a need for you to get them and separate. 1 person likes this
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
We see each other everyday yet no words or conversations take place because I reserved my freedom of just be alone so that she could think about all her sins and mistakes before.If you excludes someone any communications, that is more painful than what she had done to the family especially to me.She is free to leave the house if she wanted to leave and I do not care for her as long as I take good care of my children.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
I am the one who leaves the house yet I bring all my children in my custody.We are now in a different house and still the position is that,she can still see the children but she can not bring them in her house.She can bring the children for a shopping or have fun but not in her house.I am still human to treat her like that but no communication.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
You know, I rarely hear stories like this from men. It's usually the wives or girlfriends who suffer consequences of being cheated. You are strong and definitely a great father.
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@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
Thank you for the compliment.I am just acting strong for the sake of the children so that their studies could not be affected by the outcome of our separation.
