how to love someone properly

Indonesia
September 21, 2011 11:58pm CST
I just want to ask, how to love someone properly? if he didn't pay attention for you and stick on his egoism, are you still love him and willing to sacrifice for him, or you tell him that you didn't like his character and give him a moment to change and if he can not change, you will leave him? (thanks for your answer)
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@jaiho2009 (39084)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Loving someone doesn't has any rules or standards to attain to make it proper. Love can be render without acknowledgement from the other person. In your case, if he sticks with his ego, better leave him and find someone who is worth for your love. Never waste your time,effort loving someone who only love himself. Hope you will find the right answer in your heart. have a good day
• India
22 Sep 11
I agree with you jai but sometimes it is hard to leave and move on . I don't know what it can be termed - love or madness ? All those neglect , misbehaviour , ego clashes and so on fail to make us react and take decision . We stay glued to dreams and reality seems a stranger .
• Indonesia
23 Sep 11
I'm in doubt right now.. I wish I could make right decision, thanks for your advice..
@naseemkum (1804)
• India
22 Sep 11
If we can find ego in love what is the purpose of loving . I wil try to express my feeling towards her. If she not allows and not understands and suits my character i cant get her finally put an end to my love. Love is not making compromise or convincing its just an feeling of understanding.
• Indonesia
23 Sep 11
love is understand each other, I understand him but he don't understand me.. it's not a love?
@rollylolly (2706)
• India
22 Sep 11
Hi reiny ! Love has no fixed definition and there is also fixed way of loving someone . If you truly love someone you will never feel like leaving him but always try to adjust with him . I know it is wrong to tolerate when someone who is hurting you or audacious in his dealing . If things don't change you should move on . But if the love is too strong sometimes makes you dull and you fail to react . Trust me , it happens .
• Indonesia
23 Sep 11
I have tried to adjust, even be patient, sometimes I think what's wrong with me, might the problem is not him but me, I tried to fix myself but he still stick on his selfish, sometimes it's annoy me.. so I thought to give him a punishment, if he didn't change, might I will leave him..
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
For me there's no such way of loving someone properly. .As long as you love him, you give him the time and willing to sacrifice . .but if a guy doesn't pay attention to you., i guess its time for you to live because you are just wasting your time . .find a guy that pays attention to you and willing to do sacrifice just for you . . Good Luck. .:)
• Indonesia
23 Sep 11
well.. I hope I could love him sincerely, love is not only one to sacrifice, but understand each other right?
@lampar (7597)
• United States
22 Sep 11
YOU have to be a nuthead to still love him and willing to sacrifice for him if he didn't pay attention for you anymore. Leave him as soon as you can and let's him live within his own egoism and shadow. Not waste anymore of your time on him and give your love to your pet could possibly give you a better outcome in your future.
• Indonesia
23 Sep 11
some of my friends said the same, I just give him a second chance.. wait him to change and I think it's a proccess of love, thanks for your advise however leave him to give him a punishment is needed.