Thumbs Up to all the faithfuls

@Harold_ks (1674)
September 22, 2011 1:30am CST
I salute those people who are faithful in love. I admire the way they control their mind and heart. Being able to avoid all the temptations, that is simply amazing. Being able to accept the flaws and negatives of their partner, that is really true love. That is what I considered a talent and really a great asset. If you happen to find a person like that, you are very lucky. Those who easily fall out of love are weak. Those who easily turn off by the flaws of their partner are fake. Those who can easily dump their current love just because they found a better one will never attain contentment. Are you one of the faithfuls? I’m glad I am one of the lucky ones, having a faithful partner. Thumbs Up to all the faithfuls.
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• United States
22 Sep 11
I consider myself really lucky to find a guy as faithful as my boyfriend. Nowadays, it's rare to find a guy that is so willing to be with one girl for the rest of his life, especially at a young age. My boyfriend is one of the special ones that really goes above and beyond with being loyal to me. I think that in true love, all you need is the one you love and they'll always be enough for you, even through the thick and thin. Hurting this person is out of the question because you would never even dream of doing something to hurt them like that. I can wholeheartedly say that my boyfriend is the one and I know he's never going to do anything to mess up our relationship and I'll always be thankful for that.
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@Harold_ks (1674)
22 Sep 11
Hi courtknee525! You really won a jackpot for having a boyfriend so faithful. It’s really very rare to find a guy like that. But for him to be like that, it only means you are special. And for having a partner so special, like the love of my life, 100% love is mostly the least amount of love you wanted to give her, and there’s really no more space to even think of a third party. Well, I’m really happy for you and your boyfriend and may you be together forever. Thank you for your response. Have a nice day!
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• United States
22 Sep 11
He truly is one in a million and he means everything to me. Thank you, I think we're going to be together a very long time..we always talk about someday getting married and being with each other forever. I'm glad that you have a wonderful relationship as well, it's reassuring to know that there's still true love out there in the world
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• United States
22 Sep 11
My husband and I talked about it before we were married and vowed never to cheat on each other. It tears marriages apart and destroys trust. That goes for all relationships not just married couples. We are honest about things and it makes our relationship stronger.
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@Harold_ks (1674)
22 Sep 11
Hi lindaharding627! I'm so happy to know that you have had a successful love relationship. It just shows how much you love each other. And since you've been faithful to each other, no doubt that your relationship is tight and will even get stronger for the coming years. Thank you for sharing your story and may you and your family always have a lovely day.
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@yfchin83 (127)
• Malaysia
22 Sep 11
I'm faithful towards my partner although I do admire other guys from time to time. Though I'm faithful to my partner, sometimes I can't accept the flaws in my partner, or the differences in the way of handling things, especially when I'm having my temperamental mood. Does that means I'm fake? But I do love him and hate it when he can't be there for me. My partner on the other hand, is a very understanding guy, loves me with all his heart, tolerates and gives me the best he can. I consider myself very lucky for having him in my life.
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@Harold_ks (1674)
22 Sep 11
Hi yfchin83! Admiring other people is just normal coz as being faithful, we know our limitations and we will not act things beyond our boundaries. Accepting flaws of our partners takes time but it must not be the cause of breaking up. With two different people getting together, differences cannot be avoided but it’s the love that will bind them despite of their differences. You are very lucky to have a very loving partner. Treasure it. Thank you for your response.
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@waflay (2602)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Sep 11
Having a faithful partner is something to be proud of and cherish because it's a sure accomplishment of love.Faithfulness helps partners to develop trust in one another and s survival in their relationship.
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@Harold_ks (1674)
22 Sep 11
Hi waflay! You are definitely right. We should really be proud for having a faithful partner coz it means we found the right one. You can almost assure that your relationship will go a long away. Trust will surely be built since partners have faith for each other and their relationship. Thank you for your response.
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@khat009 (62)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
i don't think so there are still people who are faithful...haha.sorry for being pessimistic..but i think in some point in your relationship a person get tempted...just an opinion..i don't believe in fairy tales nor a happily ever after..hehe..
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@Harold_ks (1674)
22 Sep 11
Hi! First of all, thank you for deciding to post in my discussion. Well, sometimes, it’s really hard to believe that there are still faithful individuals out there especially in guys, especially nowadays that guy’s nature of being polygamous seems to be more active and happened more often. But we should not generalize coz there are always still exceptions. Maybe we haven’t met one yet but if we will be patient, we can still be successful to find one. Yes, no doubt that we can encounter temptations, but if you really love your partner, you won’t fall on that trap. And believe me, there are faithful people around. I hope you also find one. Good luck and take care.
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@Netsbridge (3243)
• United States
22 Sep 11
Faithfulness in anything is good. The Bible condemns those who would not remain faithful to vows or those they have obligation to care for. Unlike the Pat Robertsons who believe people do not have to remain true and faithful to the sick whom they made vows to, faithfulness is a good trait and godly.
@dorenski (41)
23 Sep 11
Being faithful is really tough especially with all the temptations and being human we have weaknesses but I totally agree that being faithful needs work also and prevention for me is the best option. You have to avoid first scenarios that would put your strength to test, better stay away from places that can offer temptations so you avoid tempting yourself. Betrayal of trust is one of the most painful thing yon can do to a love one.
@mythociate (13338)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
23 Sep 11
I agree, faithfulness in humans would be a wonderful thing. Too bad there ARE NO such humans. I include myself in that, but not by any choice of mine. See, I require 'faith' (the substance of things unseen ... belief without proof). If someone truly faithful heard my story, she would-either have married me long ago -or have been striving to convince the right girl to woo- and marry me (I don't know how she would know when to have started ... she probably just would've been 'born that way' ... hmmm, "Born This Way," maybe Stefani "Lady Gaga" Germanotta was--all this time-- ... naaaaaaaaaaaaah ).