I want to live my life happy....But..:(

Philippines
September 24, 2011 1:34pm CST
Yes i wish to live my life in a normal way again but it makes me hard now. The reason is "i still feel sad and my heart longing for him.." I want only to talk with him even we cant back to our love affair just to have peace with him and i know that we are still friends. That is the only thing i desire. And wishing to God. A reconciliation with him. Pls friends here i wish you could wish also my wish to God. " my wish is to have a reconciliation with him" just like that and then after, live my life normal. To make it clear "i am the one who did mistake that is why he broke me..." so i am praying like this,, Thank you all friends and happy to have you all here... Wish you all the best also,,
5 responses
@huilichan8 (1379)
• Singapore
24 Sep 11
Hv you tried to tell him you are sorry (since you said you were the one who had made a mistake)? Hv you tried telling him you want to reconcile with him? I don't know whether the mistake you made was a serious one. If it was and if it was a recent mistake, then maybe it'd be better to give him time to get over it. Then try to find a suitable time to talk to him. Let him know you are truly sorry. Let him know he means a lot to you. If he is determined not to be with you anymore, then I think it wld do you gd to let go of the relationship completely and move on so that you wld be ready for another relationship.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
I did all the possible things that made him good and to forgive me but it doesnt worked. I made a mistake and i explained to him how it had happen and why and i am not involved but for him it was a bid issue. And lately i gave him a choice between the mistakes and me but response does not come yet.. Anyway the most important to me is i told him what inside my heart. I leave him the decision if he comeback or not. But i always pray to God the reconciliation i wish, for peace of both. It is up to him if he want to continue or not what i need is i want him to talk with me and be friends again. thanks a lot to you and have a nice day
• Singapore
25 Sep 11
Since he has given you an answer yet, that means there is hope for reconciliation. Gd luck to you and hv a great wk ahead!:)
@stringer321 (3727)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
25 Sep 11
In my religion , "Yom kipur" is a special day of asking forgiveness for all of our own sins we made during the past year. We also don't eat and don't drink for 25 hours , we also don't work , don't play anything , we just think with ourselves what bad things we did , how we can correct our behavior. We pray for God to forgive us. This day is about to start in like two weeks from today. Did you look deep inside yourself and asked "Why did I do that to him ?" "Is there any thing I can fix inside me so it won't happen again ?" By the way , your ex-boyfriend is probabely hurt because he is afraid he cannot trust you. It says that he counts on people to act like he want and he doesn't understand that they are real people , and not robots , everyone makes mistakes and he has to be aware of that.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Yes all i want to happen is he understand the situation and think that i am just human the has commit mistakes and i am not perfect. Its okay with me if he didnt talk with for a week but now its almost a month he continue ignoring my messages and calls. I feel so much pain in this kind of treatment. we are almost 3years in relation this coming dec. and this is what he act. I dont know why maybe for him it was such a big issue. so i cant do nothing but to pray always for his forgiveness and reconciliation. I pray to God for this always.. Thank you and have a nice day..
• India
25 Sep 11
I don't know why you split up.but it was already happened.even its hard try to concentrate on other things.my advice is go to any childrens home,spend with those kids a little.there are many kids who want love from others.you will also be better.do this its my sincere advice.you need a change.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Thanks to your good advice and i love children too.. i think i need to move another place from time to time just to forget sometimes and my mind get rest for a while.. Thanks again and Godbless you!
@Tonsen (3)
• China
25 Sep 11
Maybe it's hard to forget,but please believe time can wash these things.Everthing will be OK!You can start a new live,fall in love with the one who love you more.Everything is a new one.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Yes i believe in you and i know time can wash away what had happen and if he think that i am in his heart too he will come again coz i leave the door open for him... thanks and have a nice day to you...
• India
27 Sep 11
don't worry about anything. just go ahead and lead your life. don't worry about the wrong doing you have done because no one is prefect in this world. rectify your mistakes and go ahead.