When You Feel EMPTY and ALONE

Philippines
September 25, 2011 6:44am CST
Hi mylotters, There are moment in our life that even how blessed and happy we are we feel we are alone and empty for a reason we don't know. I don't want to be dramatic one but this pass few days even how much I tried I felt this and I am not happy about it some friends tried to cheer me up but it did not last maybe because I am missing many people now a days and I want to go back with my old track but it is impossible now . Hope everyone is doing well Have a Blessed Sunday
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26 responses
@surekharathi (14134)
• India
25 Sep 11
You are right my sis some time we feel very sad and alone even the lots of people around us but we feel alone. We dont want to meet with anyone and not want to share anything with anyone. But why you feel this I think whenever you will feel this you should join mylot and read the discussions and enjoy it or share your feelings or problems in mylot.
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi surekha, I can say mylot is a big help to me whenever I felt this It is a good place to vent glad that you are here thanks for the response happy mylotting
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@samafayla33 (1857)
• United States
25 Sep 11
Even when you feel empy and alone, there are always going to be people around you regardless of your situation. Think possible ways around your sadness, keep hydrated, keep your thoughts positive and don't think about the same old track, think about a new track. Try to push yourself away from the old track with a way you want it to be and then make it happy, don't worry about others, they'll be happy once you have reached your goals.
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi samafayla, This old track is the real me and I am missing it Well this feeling will be gone soon I hope so thanks for the response happy mylotting
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• United States
25 Sep 11
What's your old track, I'd like to listen to it if you don't mind?
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi samafayla, I can't share it right now hope you do understand thanks for the offer
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@mtrguanlao (5527)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Hi friend! You are a true human being friend,that's the only thing you are feeling now..being human. Sometimes,we can't understand and explain why despite all the blessings we are having now,we feel it's still incomplete. Most of the time I feel the same my friend as I always miss one important person in my life,my hubby. Hubby is very kind to tell me that I should just read the Bible and I will know what I am missing. I guess God has spoken to me and now everything seems easy for me and I can easily accept what's missing. Just hold on to Him my friend and everything will seem to be complete. Take care! Missing you and jai!
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi mtr, I miss you too..............hope to bond with you again soon Yeah I am human after all kisses to crystal happy mylotting
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Hi bhaby! I know we will bond again,maybe next month or in November but when our meeting with our fellow mylotters will push through,for sure I am there! I'll kiss Crystal for you! Have a nice sleep my friend!
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
yeah I hope so maybe we can drop by at your place and bring some snacks so there will be no hassle for you to travel
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@tigeraunt (6331)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi bhaby, i guess it happens to anyone. especially to people who are about to have their menopause no am not saying you are near that stage. i just wanted you to laugh. best way is to be with happy people. dont sulk. keep talking to people, and you will forget why you feel empty and sad. ann
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi tigeraunt, There is no people to talk to Besides I don't want to disturb them because of this feelings of mine thanks for the response meet you soon
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@tigeraunt (6331)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hey cheer up. remember tomorrow is monday and there will be a lot of things coming your way. be positive and think more of the happy things u will find tomorrow, and tuesday and wednesday, etc. professor said you talk to each other. he has been a good listener to me. am sure he is too, to you. so smile. ann
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
thank you baba will message me like he always do even how busy he is he never forget his daughters
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@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
26 Sep 11
Nothing in life will ever be impossilbe sweetie. Just take your time and relax. Missing someone normally make one feel that way. Remember all of us change and its hard sometimes to find the old you, but it's not impossible.
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• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi dear, I am relaxed now Dear had some Spa yesterday with friends missing you happy mylotting
@saphrina (31744)
• South Africa
28 Sep 11
Good to hear you are relaxed now. Now, where's the vodka?
@dpk262006 (49023)
• Delhi, India
25 Sep 11
Hi Bhabhy! Remember that every day can not be Sunday. Each day would be different in our life. So take the life as it comes. It is up to you whether you want to feel happy or feel depressed. Indulge in something which gives your joy and pleasure. Feeling sad and empty does not help or serve any purpose. All the best. :-)
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi dpk, Yeah everyday is not the same I hope tomorrow will be better for me Actually I hate it when I miss someone I am like this thanks for the response happy mylotting
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@dpk262006 (49023)
• Delhi, India
26 Sep 11
Hope you are feeling better now and that emptiness would have vanished.
@jaiho2009 (36768)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Well...you are only confused who among the four guys is worth loving for
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• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi jai, Hahaha! that will be the last reason and it is impossible Maybe I am missing May miss yah
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Yes we are sometimes in this situations even we are almost complete in our needs. There is always lack in us and almost dont know where to find that happiness. But i am sure that we can find this one to Jesus. Because He is perfect and He will give you all you need and the lack in your life He will patch it for sure. He is a true friend and complete happiness in our life. I assure you this thing.
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• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi mods, Of course I know he will always be there for me no matte what thanks for the response happy mylotting
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
25 Sep 11
Feel alone and empty or hollow is a very pessimistic mood which may drag one to more depression.Many times it need no sufficient reasons for such mood. Engage in entertainments with friends who have considerations about one's depressed mood may produce better results.
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi mohkanari, I hope it will not give me depression Well the weather changes my moods thanks for the response happy mylotting
@Graceekwenx (3167)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
Hi Bhaby... Are you single? I struggle with this feeling too. I go out with friends, chat with my virtual friends but still.. this feeling bites me. I dont want to think that i can only be happy if i meet the one meant for me. I was told that if you find happiness from others, it wont last. Happiness starts from within. I also believe in the Law of Attraction, lonely people ends up with other lonely people as well and i dont think that would be healthy. What do you think?
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi grace, Funny you are the second person who asked me that but I think it is not the reason I am a jolly person it's just now a days I felt this and I really hate it maybe I need something new thanks for the response happy mylotting
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@obe212003 (2302)
• Philippines
25 Sep 11
once in awhile feeling empty only makes us human, but i hope it is just a passing thing and not a permanent one as it could be categorized as 'severe depression'. if you're missing people, then why don't give them a call and surely you feel better and hopefully rekindling the past would put a smile on you face.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 11
hi obe, I lost contact with that person a year ago I tried but I don't have a luck well I hope it will not turn into severe depression. thanks for the response happy mylotting
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• China
26 Sep 11
Right,whoever can't find the lost time and the previous.thus,we should value now and try to do something you want.Sometimes,it feels really alone and empty due to you have the more free time.you can enjoy other activities in your spare time.Besides,time is like water flying and never go back.it is significant to do the valuable in the limited time.Enjoy yourself!
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi 1348652497, That is true as of now I am trying to live my life tot the fullest but somehow even how much I enjoyed it there are times I felt this. thanks for the response happy mylotting
• China
28 Sep 11
Valuing today and making preparing for tomorrow,yesterday is a history.Come on!friend.
@1hopefulman (13701)
• Canada
26 Sep 11
One should never feel empty and alone! There is a reason why one gets those feelings. If one feels empty then he can fill the emptiness. If one feels alone then he needs to correct something as no one is ever alone. How can one be alone in a world with billions op people and billions of spirits. He is out of tune. He needs to reconnect as he has been disconnected. All the best!
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi 1hopefulman, Even me I don't know why I felt this way thanks fro the response happy mylotting
@1hopefulman (13701)
• Canada
29 Sep 11
If we work at bringing more and more positive things into our lives then we grow in happiness. That has been my experience. All the best!
• United States
26 Sep 11
I'm sorry to hear about your sadness. I don't know how to make you feel better . all I can say is know that there are many here that support you And that I hope you will feel better real soon.
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi sarah, I am thankful that mylot is here and of course the members who gave me advice and wishing me to feel better thanks for the response happy mylotting
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• United States
28 Sep 11
You are feeling better? Fantastic! Take Care.
@bounce58 (17555)
• Canada
10 Oct 11
This is one of the reasons why I try to keep myself and my mind always busy. I don't like to have a lull wherein I could dwell on things and let my insecurities creep in. There are some frustrations in life we all try to keep hidden. And once in a while, when we are alone with our thoughts, we think of these and we are left feeling 'empty and alone'.
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
hi bounce, Even how busy I am still I feel this weird but can't help it Well I feel better now thanks for the response happy mylotting
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
i experienced that sometimes too, i call it my down days. i think it is normal to feel it once in a while. there are things in the past that we missed and there are things that we wish to do or have. although sometimes, we just feel empty and lonely without knowing why. the thing is we are human enough to feel it. whenever i feel lonely or down, i just reminisce about my past while listening to my favorite songs. it is soothing to feel it once in a while, for we learned from it. and after we overcome it, we are more strong and ready to face life and reality once again.
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
hi churchill, Reminiscing help but sometimes there are memories that should kept and not I know this feelings will pass thanks for the response happy mylotting
@chiyosan (29393)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
I have always had this feeling. Maybe because i do not understand what life is really all about. I do not know what my purpose is, what and why i was here for and i do feel i am empty, alone because it always happen that i am by myself, i feel that i have no importance, and that i am not doing anything good... though i feel exhausted trying to prove that i have worth! =( i don't know its just a very weird feeling
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
hi chiyosan, Each of us has a purpose since we are human we felt this Even me I can't explain why should I feel this way thanks for the response happy mylotting
@neildc (16901)
• Philippines
27 Sep 11
there are times that i also feel empty and alone. even how complete i should be with my wife and my children. when problems come and they come in bulk. and you don't know where or who you will call for help.
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
hi neil, It is true even you have a bunch of friends still you don't know how or what to do Hope Zay is doing well anyway missing him and ate pat happy mylotting
• United States
26 Sep 11
Unfortunately all of us go through those days, sometimes we get cheered up and sometimes we just want to be left alone and think things out for ourselves. Atleast you have friends that worry about you and don't want to see you any type of pain. I do however hope you pass what it is you are going through, stay positive and think that you will overcome it.
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
hi fabsprecious, I feel good now though I still feel this sometimes thanks for the response happy mylotting
@Rosa26 (2620)
• United States
26 Sep 11
Hey Bhaby! When I feel like that I try to pray and ask the Lord to open my eyes to see all the blesses that I have around and understand that we always have more blesses than problems in our life, and you will see all the lacks of the others and compare with your actual situation, you will see how bless you are, don't worry even Jesus Christ had this kind of moment when he felt as bad and lonely that he wanted to quit of destiny and asked his father "Father if are willing please take this cup of suffering away from me yet. I want your will to be done, not mine". Everybody can feel like that one day but don't worry everything is going to be better. "Life isn't simple but the beauty, of it is, you can always start over.It'll get easier"
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi Rosa, Of course I do pray and I have my own way of talking to him But there are times not all the times you can apply this thanks for the response happy mylotting