I lost my sister in law...today... :(

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
September 27, 2011 10:14am CST
Life is really unpredictable. Only yesterday she was there. This morning she just hug my son after my son visited her. Yes,we are prepared for her departure anytime since she started her dialysis 2 years ago. But...I never thought it still a shocked when it happens in real.
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24 responses
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
2 Oct 11
I am very sorry for your loss. I understand how you feel. I have lost family members before and were terminal, but like you said it is always a shock when it happens. I think that is because we push that thought out of our mind and think that that person will always be around. Again, I am very sorry for your loss. We are all her for you.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
hello inertia, Sorry for my late response and thanks for the kind words :)
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
5 Oct 11
You're welcome jaiho2009. Don't worry about the late response, it wasn't really a late response.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 11
Sister Jai, i'm sorry to hear about your loss. I just got the time to gone through my email box and saw your this discussion. Hope you will be able to overcome your sadness. One of my ex-neighbor also loss her grandmother after she had gone through dialysis for 6 years.
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@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 11
Hope you do take care always too, Sis Jai. Have a nice weekend...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
dear sis, Thanks for your kind words dear and take care always
@KrauseHome (36449)
• United States
7 Oct 11
Sorry to hear of your loss, and praying for the family. I know many times even when someone is expected to die or pass on due to Medical reasons you are wanting to somehow believe that the Doctors are wrong and a cure can be found. But we need to remember and believe that they are in a better place since they were suffering so much and always wish for the Best from there.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
hello Tina, Sorry for my late response and thanks for your kind words :)
@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
28 Sep 11
It is really sad to hear about the demise of your sister in law . May her soul rest in peace and may God give strength to her family members to bear the loss.
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@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
29 Sep 11
We are all here to share your grief.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
Thanks for your sympathy
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
27 Sep 11
Hi sweetie. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I'm always here, okay.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Sep 11
dear saphy,
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Sep 11
I never thought it will give me a shock...I thought I am prepared.
@sjvg1976 (41134)
• Delhi, India
6 Oct 11
Hello Jaiho, I am sorry for the loss. Yes friend life is unpredicatable. Though we get prepared for the loss but when the person goes still we get shocked and sad and come to know how important was that person in our lives.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Oct 11
hello sjvg, Thanks for your response :)
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
My sincere condolences to you jaiho.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
hello secret, thanks dear
@Sreekala (34314)
• India
28 Sep 11
Dear sister, It is shocking even though you prepared for it for the last 2 years. Gather the courage dear, it is the reality and you have to face it. I wish, God can give you all the strength. Take care of you and all those around including kids.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
dear sis Yes,when reality comes,it is really a good shocked and pain like a knife stabbed in the core of our heart.
@1hopefulman (45125)
• Canada
29 Sep 11
My condolences!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
hello 1hope, Thanks for your sympathy
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Losing somebody in the family is really heart-breaking. I'm sorry about your loss. I have an aunt who is bed-ridden suffering from a terminal cancer of the liver. Seeing her and comparing to what she was before and what she has become because of her illness, you could start asking why is suffering permitted? There is no cure as the doctors have already talked to the immediate family. Only a miracle can heal her and the whole family is hoping to witness one.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
hello iris, Sorry to hear about your aunt :( it's really sad when someone we love suffers, it also give us pain watching them. :(
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
Hello der amiga, I'm sorry to hear that. It's been so long again when I last came. But here I am again, sending hugs and comfort.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
hello amiga, Thanks, you came right in time dear
• Mexico
3 Oct 11
Hi jaiho: I'm sorry my friend. It's a terrible experience to lose someone that is part of your family. I will bring my prays to you and your loved ones that are facing this sad experience. I hope you'll be ok. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
hello Alvaro, Thanks for your kind words my dear friend and you always come right in time :)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi jai, I know how painful it is I was sad when you texted me that she passed away for sure I always remember her as she is one of the person who appreciated my IBUS (rice cake) a lot. Wherever she is now I know that she is in good hands at least she have a rest now after a years of suffering from illness. my deepest sympathy
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Sep 11
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
I am very sorry for your loss. I pray that your sister-in-law will find everlasting peace with our Creator. Godspeed.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
hello miad, Sorry for my late response and thanks for your kind words :)
• Philippines
27 Sep 11
j, sorry for your loss. i guess it was her time to go. no matter how prepared we are for our loved one's departure, it can still be a shock and a sad loss once the inevitable looms. just be glad that her pain is over and she can be at peace. hugs sis. tc
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
wish i could say... i've been to london to visit the queen. but nah. just been very busy. and just got back from baguio. and then endured a couple of days of power interruption due to pedring. and now busy again for my month-end report before i head to bohol by the weekend and then cebu. so how are you dear?
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello sis, I miss you..where have you been
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
28 Sep 11
hi sis. so sorry to hear what happened to her. it really saddens everyone in the family when someone leaves. when someone that is very closed to you, it will be more painful to learn that it's his/her last goodbye.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello neil, It was kind of shock to us...
@voldrox (7191)
• India
27 Sep 11
I am sorry to hear that Jaiho.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello voldrox, Nice to see you again dear brother Thanks for the hug
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 11
May god bless her~ Sis will be okay, right?(^^)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello sis, Yes..she is resting now
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
27 Sep 11
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope god grants you and your family enough strength to face this Yes life is very unpredictable. We will never know who will be leaving us next. So the ideal thing to do would be to forgive everyone, hold no grudges and tell the ones you care that you love them.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello thatgirl, Thanks for your kind words
@gocsa666 (128)
• Hungary
27 Sep 11
I'm sorry for your loss.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Sep 11
hello gocsa, Thanks for the sympathy