don`t blame the time

During this time, I always blame myself, when I experience failure, and lack of success. But, I was advised by several people, for not too much, blame myself. Many people say, I have to learn, from mistakes I've done.

I strongly agree with you... the thing is that no one accept their mistakes no one wanna face their weaknesses so they blame others but ever we accept our weaknesses success will comes by its self....

That is good advice. Blaming others and not taking responsibility for our mistakes will never teach us anything of any value. As an example in my own life, I recall breaking up from my boyfriend many years ago because he treated me very badly. As I sat there crying wondering why I kept on meeting nasty men I had to face the fact that, although these guys were not nice I was not completely blameless and that I was treated negatively because I allowed it to happen and that I was going to always meet creeps; the idea was stop giving them my number! Those were the lessons for me.

well... i guess you are picturing me it just we are human who need to make sure our self that we are not the center of any bad things that happen to our life. we need a black sheep

I would say I am right, if I believe I am right, though others say I'm wrong. But, if I am wrong, I certainly will admit, if I am wrong. I am not afraid, blaming myself, if I am wrong.

the statements are really nice and everyone should follow it. people are really lazy and they want to earn money just by sitting at home without any hard work.

Alot of people just like to point the finger at others and not take responsibility for their own actions.

Never concentrate on Blame. Concentrate on RESULTS!!!!! You will become successful much quicker.

We are responsible for our own actions. Thus, we should not blame others for not being successful and not being able to achieve our goals in life because it is only us and us alone can make it possible. Time, situation, other people, weather or the place are only factors of our success, we are the core to that success, if only we just make it happen.

Nice quotes! Taking responsability it's half way to fixing the problem because we won't loose time blaming someone else. It's hard to accept, maybe it's the ego talking but everything in our lives are our fault.

like some maxim "mite over the sea seem clear, but elephant close with you can't see it" (i don't know how to write it in english).

hello, wow! you really make me realize things is not easy. Well, I do all of it but I am really sorry for it because I know that it is wrong and I have nothing to do but to accept it. I always made a big mistakes and I know that it is my fault because I never think twice or more than before doing that actions. right? I know I am not perfect but I am scared to say that I am a big failure. I really admit it now. And maybe I wont do things again because I learned from it.

Normally i dont had the habit of blaming others because i blame myself for faults done by others. I had more inferiority complex so i always blame myself for the faults done by me. Even if i supposed to blame others i blame in my mind itself i dont like to blame them face to face.

Maybe that is the human nature called the face power.Everyone want to do well and gain others posstive comment and avert the negative comment.So the blame is a common excuse to do so.

Hi adhyz: I think that's the attitude my friend, to take our responsibilities from our actions. And even if sometimes we feel the need to find an excuse, we don't make any progress by blaming other from the things we don't do or for the mistakes we've done. When we assume our responsibility we grow up and we gain experience. ALVARO

I agree. Whenever things fail or don't turn out the way we expected, we tend to push our blame on everything, everywhere, everybody except for ourselves. When we made a mistake, we should look to ourselves first, determine where did it go wrong before we make an accusation to some innocent parties who are not even involved. It's a pity majority of us are selfish, refusing to admit our own mistakes, for it takes great courage to own up.

It's not good to blame others because if you blame one person, you've to blame all the rest connected to that person or to that incedent. It's a cycle. When something bad happens, find out the cause and look for a solution, preferably collaboratively so that the solution is obtained quicker. It's always been a human habit to blame other (except themselves) when things go wrong, not realising that sometimes things just happen unexpectedly and no one is to be blamed. People who blame other are to a certain extent, cowards, because they're afraid to admit their mistakes..!!