don`t blame the time
September 27, 2011 6:53pm CST
don`t blame the time don`t blame the situation don`t blame another people blame yourself if you are fail... blame yourself if you are coward.. blame yourself if you are not success... why many people is not brave for admitting that they are not perfect?? why they must blame another people when they are fail??
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28 Sep 11
That is good advice. Blaming others and not taking responsibility for our mistakes will never teach us anything of any value. As an example in my own life, I recall breaking up from my boyfriend many years ago because he treated me very badly. As I sat there crying wondering why I kept on meeting nasty men I had to face the fact that, although these guys were not nice I was not completely blameless and that I was treated negatively because I allowed it to happen and that I was going to always meet creeps; the idea was stop giving them my number! Those were the lessons for me.
28 Sep 11
hello, wow! you really make me realize things is not easy. Well, I do all of it but I am really sorry for it because I know that it is wrong and I have nothing to do but to accept it. I always made a big mistakes and I know that it is my fault because I never think twice or more than before doing that actions. right? I know I am not perfect but I am scared to say that I am a big failure. I really admit it now. And maybe I wont do things again because I learned from it.
28 Sep 11
Normally i dont had the habit of blaming others because i blame myself for faults done by others. I had more inferiority complex so i always blame myself for the faults done by me. Even if i supposed to blame others i blame in my mind itself i dont like to blame them face to face.
7 May 12
We are responsible for our own actions. Thus, we should not blame others for not being successful and not being able to achieve our goals in life because it is only us and us alone can make it possible. Time, situation, other people, weather or the place are only factors of our success, we are the core to that success, if only we just make it happen.
3 Oct 11
Hi adhyz: I think that's the attitude my friend, to take our responsibilities from our actions. And even if sometimes we feel the need to find an excuse, we don't make any progress by blaming other from the things we don't do or for the mistakes we've done. When we assume our responsibility we grow up and we gain experience. ALVARO
30 Sep 11
I agree. Whenever things fail or don't turn out the way we expected, we tend to push our blame on everything, everywhere, everybody except for ourselves. When we made a mistake, we should look to ourselves first, determine where did it go wrong before we make an accusation to some innocent parties who are not even involved. It's a pity majority of us are selfish, refusing to admit our own mistakes, for it takes great courage to own up.
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28 Sep 11
It's not good to blame others because if you blame one person, you've to blame all the rest connected to that person or to that incedent. It's a cycle. When something bad happens, find out the cause and look for a solution, preferably collaboratively so that the solution is obtained quicker. It's always been a human habit to blame other (except themselves) when things go wrong, not realising that sometimes things just happen unexpectedly and no one is to be blamed. People who blame other are to a certain extent, cowards, because they're afraid to admit their mistakes..!!