Affirmation in Love

Pakistan
September 29, 2011 1:57pm CST
Hi friends, i am thinking from a long time that affirmation is how much important in love. when you love someone then is it important that you should tell him or her your feelings? or is it possible that your beloved can get your feelings by your expressions, like an adverb is that, Heart has a path to go to another Heart, means yours feelings will automatically transfer to your beloved one. Please share your opinion about this.what is your point of view?
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@Rosa26 (2620)
• United States
29 Sep 11
I think everybody needs expressions of love. I prefer my husband tells me that he loves (like he does everyday)than that he prefer that I guest his feeling. I don't think that what is in heart is going to be transfer to my heart spontaneously if he doesn't show me his love. So talk to your lover about your feelings and express your love, that is healthy.
• Pakistan
29 Sep 11
so ros do you express your feelings? isn't it makes you valueless? or decreases your value?if you express your feeling again and again...
@Rosa26 (2620)
• United States
29 Sep 11
Oh no, my friend, if I say that I don't say to my husband and doesn't say to me "I love you" at least 4 time times a day, I would be lying to you, because we always express our love, of course not only by words and of course by actions like I do what he likes that I do, and he does what I like that he does. We always please each other.
@Rosa26 (2620)
• United States
30 Sep 11
Thanks friend for he BR.
@chiyosan (29438)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
they say love expressed is better than love said. but of course it is also important that you say the words to affirm the love you feel for your partner or for other person. sometimes people forget, we feel there is no love, we are not loved especially if we do not hear them from the people we want to hear them from.
• Pakistan
2 Oct 11
Yeah freind! I understood what you want to say. thanks buddy It's always too important to tell or express your love.....!!!!!
• Indonesia
29 Sep 11
hoho AGREE..... i will do not know he loves me if he not spoke it all... for me...im kind of person that really really like to show my feeling with words...if i like.i will say it...if i dont then i tell it...and really it is not make me feel valueless...because when i said it...make me happy...and when he hear it and feel happy...im being MORE happy... but my boyfriend dont like to show it with words...he just like to show it with kind of atitude or act...i though that is difficult one...bcause we have long distance... and it make us arguing each others sometime... huhuhu i miss him alot :(
• Pakistan
2 Oct 11
oooohhhh! hi kawaiinko i think you are right love expression is very important. when someone tells you that he/she loves you so much then you feel so precious about yourself.
• United States
2 Oct 11
Of course actions speak louder than words so it is important to SHOW your love. However, many people are reassured when you tell them. It makes them feel loved even more. They may know in their heart you love them but unless you tell them occasionally they may question your love.