How do you feel after falling out of love?

Jamaica
October 2, 2011 10:06pm CST
When we are in love some of us go crazy for the person. Then when it ends, whether we get hurt or if we just fall out of love, We regret many of the things we did. Do you feel regret about the tings you did while you were in love?
8 responses
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
i totally agree. when we are in love we just do things that we think would make our partners happy. maybe at some points we just over express it that it would make us look crazy but that's the beauty of falling in love and being in love. we may have quarreled but things are resolved. i hope i won't have any regrets with my relationship now cause so far i can't think of any acts that i may regret.
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
I am glad that you do not have any regrets. :)
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
thank you. i hope you too would not have any regrets. i think when we respect the person we truly love then there would be no regrets that would happen.
@besssia (94)
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
I don't regret the things I did when I'm in love. Maybe sooner or later, I will have a change of heart but then again, when I did those things, I was madly and truly in love so at that point, I wanted those things to happen and those made me happy. When the feeling is gone, I just smile recalling all the stupid thoughtless things I did recklessly with love. I can't go crying over a spilled milk you know. It's pointless. I take the lessons and leave.
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
That is very strong of you. Keep that strength my friend!
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
You too! Thanks for responding to me. :)
3 Oct 11
I personally regretted some things when my relationship ended and I "fell out of love." I had made some "life" choices that revolved around the other person. In the end, it wasn't worth it and a total waste of time. I regret the time and money invested into that person.
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
Yes those experience can be very painful. At least you have learned from the experience.
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
3 Oct 11
Yes!!! I had become crazy in love, i did everything for the sake of love. If love ends coz of falling out of it i never been regretful even a single thing i did or i have said. I have made crazy things for love and im just proud if it coz not everybody could ever do it. Also, through it i have learned many things.
• Jamaica
4 Oct 11
That is a very positive attitude to have eseulhan :)
@galileo2008 (1140)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
I guess it is just normal to feel bad after you break up with someone. It was a hard decision to make, and when I broke up with him, I felt very sad and got really frustrated because I thought I could not find anybody like him. But then again, I had to do it because it seems like we're not communicating like we used to. There's a feeling of desperation, it's heart-breaking, and you I felt really horrible of doing that. But now, looking back to what had happened, I think I made the right decision.
@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
when the day that i felt that i falling out of love..i keep on asking my self "do i really love him before"...
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
4 Oct 11
I am in a specific situation as this. I believe it was sure hard to make out what you were feeling. You realize one day that you already have lost your love for the person you once thought you will love for the rest of your days... I mean... It can really happen that you love each other and something happened and then you suddenly lost you love.
• India
4 Oct 11
love should be there in your heart and it shouldn't have any ends to it. if it ends then it is not love at all and you need not worry about it. dont regret for anything just go ahead and explore your life.