Dating with multiple guy

Philippines
October 6, 2011 10:16pm CST
good day . .just wanna know your opinion regarding a single woman who will date a multiple guy. .like this, is it okay with a single girl who will date with a multiple guy in a week like 3 guys in a week . . thanks for all your response
7 responses
@345042441 (130)
• China
25 Nov 11
i dont think it is a good idea to date several guys at the same time. You should be loyal to your boyfriend once you fix the relationship with him. As you know, a person who pursue two rabbits at the same time will get neither one in the end.
@soulist (2986)
• United States
27 Nov 11
I agree I dont think the guys would appreciate being cheated like that and decide not a be with the one dating several mean. I mean if a girl who is dating several men, would she be okay with the guys also dating several women? Or would they want him to be only dating her.
@thatgirl13 (7306)
• South Korea
7 Oct 11
You mean three guys at the same time? If so then I really don't like that kind of people. We used to have one girl like that in our school and she used to date 3-4 guys at the same time. I didn't like her and felt bad for the guys she'd been playing with.
@soulist (2986)
• United States
27 Nov 11
I agree how can a girl who dates multiple guys give each guy the attention he deserves. I would feel bad about the guys who are getting cheated so to speak. I am a one man kind of girl and i think its better to date one guy at a time and get to know them better than dating several guys at the same time.
@romscabs (310)
• Philippines
7 Oct 11
I think it is better like that. At least she can chose who is the best of 3. It is just fair. Guys also date several girls, so why can't the girl do the same? If non of the 3 works, then at least you did your best. You can select the best if you date several men. Just do not surrender your flag yet until you found the best one.
• Philippines
7 Oct 11
thank you for the response . .you have the point on that like to be fair with the guys. .This is one way of choosing the best before i can really know them . .
@Genericbe (1378)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
There is no problem dating with multiple guy, the more when a person is under Single status. The more it favor the situations and events, and helps you find typically what really kind of Guy looking for. DATING a multiple guy does not mean you are the negative thinking of others may think. BUt, it is your freedom, as single person to have such chances to be get acquainted to different guys. This is one step as to ways how to choose a guy and this matter in form of SELECTION. This is your will, your freedom, in fact, this will help you sort things out easily. Who knows, one of them is the right one for you.. And, who wins your heart will be the one fitting your qualifications in having a partner. Good LUCK
• Netherlands
7 Oct 11
I think it's okay as long as you don't keep it a secret and don't ''play'' with the boys. I think it's better if they know, because they might think it's more serious than it is. If they know that you're dating three men at a time they know that they can date three woman at a time too, instead of spending all their time to you. Personally I wouldn't do it 'cause I'd feel a little bad.. though there's theoretic nothing wrong with it.
@besssia (94)
• Philippines
7 Oct 11
I see nothing wrong with socializing with different men. However, as a girl, in my opinion, it's kind of unbecoming to be seen with different men in just a matter of days. We may be in a modern world but still, we girls should take care of our reputation. We don't want other people thinking we change boyfriends in the same manner we change our clothes.
• Philippines
7 Oct 11
i think its better if you date a lot of guys. so that you could choose from one of them. because if your exclusively dating, maybe you'll miss out that one guy who is really meant for you. it's better if you meet a lot of guys, to know who's the best. lol i think there's nothing wrong if you're dating a lot of guys, as long as you're not hurting their feelings.