Having a hard time saying Sorry?

@ardoy0731 (6865)
Philippines
October 10, 2011 7:56pm CST
Sometimes we hurt other people without noticing it,there are also times that we don't really mean it but for other it is. There are also jokes that sometimes can hurt other. Are you having a hard time saying Sorry? Pride? Saying sorry to people you've hurt.To people who think that you've hurt them?
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@ores12 (53)
11 Oct 11
Yup saying sorry is pretty hard for me specially if you didn't know what you have done to that person. I remember the time when one of my friend got angry w/ me and I don't know why I did''nt even do anything to him just a simple hello and there he gets angry suddenly. I did say sorry but he kept ignoring me all the time. All he say is ............... So I decided to ignore him he doesnt deserve my sorry it just a simple talking then he got angry is he a friend or not?
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Its really hard to say sorry to a person if you don't know anything done wrong to hi/her.But sometimes we don't mean to hurt them or sometimes don't notice that we already hurt them.
@ores12 (53)
11 Oct 11
The problem with that guy is he's wrong he always follow the pride of her. He even don't know that he's hurting me too. I don't want any of my friends to get angry with me. So I am the first to say sorry even it is not my fault. But this this is too much the wrong one is him he even gets angry with his friend I think there is something wrong with him I wanted to help him but he keeps ignoring me. i wish someday he realzes his fault
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Eventually he will realize his fault in time maybe.
@ckciasigurl (1570)
• Vienna, Austria
11 Oct 11
hi ardoyo7331 for me it is not hard to say sorry because i can say that telling sorry to someone is it came from the heart , but sometimes in my boyfriend's case i am not telling sorry to him because i always fight him he he but to other people yes i tell sorry and sometimes even to my boyfriend...
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Nice to hear that its easy for. I think some are having a hard time to those people they love.Maybe Ashamed sometimes coz they've done something wrong.
• United States
11 Oct 11
If I do something it is not hard for me to say sorry. I find it very easy to do to make things right. I like making sure I don't do anything to have to say sorry to begin with but it happens. Life is that way.
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Good for you,its so easy for you.For others they having a hard to say it maybe because they are ashamed or having a hard to admit that they are wrong.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Some people really have a hard time saying sorry and admitting their mistakes due to pride and ego. There is nothing wrong saving our pride, but should be in the proper place and time. I always admit my fault and say sorry. It gives me peace and serenity than keeping in inside of me. It will not lessen the person I am anyway, but sometimes gain me respect from other people. Have a good day
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Pride has always a big factor of accepting mistakes and saying sorry. Admitting your mistake I think somehow is a way of saying sorry to person you've hurt.
@SIMPLYD (80398)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Sometimes, i offend some person with my frankness. I would usually notice that because they don't smile at all at me after that. When that happens, i would send them a text message and say i am sorry if i have hurt you with my words. Then, i would compensate the hurt by being extra loving to them the next time around.
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Sending sorry by means of text is a nice way to say sorry but I think it will be more acceptable if you say it in person.. Some also having a hard time saying it but instead they just show it.
• China
11 Oct 11
it's has been about 15 years since i made that mistake. that time i was in the elementary school, you know when kids at that age, we really didn't understand what was right. there were lots of bad jokes at that time, we made laugh at each other just for fun, and some of them i think now is dirty talk. i still remember that afternoon i talked to my mother with that dirty talk. then i realized it really hurt her. since that i never make jokes at anyone and started to care about others' feelings. just like Ellen says, be kind to one another.
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Its nice that at young age you already know to accept you mistake.Being kind to other is a nice trait that each of us should possess.
@joystick (1680)
11 Oct 11
Some people find it really hard to say sorry, while other people find it really hard to forgive.It sometimes is easier to forgive than to say sorry, some people never forget no matter who says sorry.I always say sorry and if it is something really bad i give flowers if it is a woman.
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
Yeah its sometimes easy to forgive than saying or vice versa.There are people who didn't accept that they are wrong. For other sometimes saying sorry is weakness.
@Adoniah (7515)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Saying that one is sorry, is one of the hardest things for humans to do. Part of it is pride I am sure, but a bit of it is insecurity. Some folks are afraid to say that they are sorry, because they worry about the reaction they will get from the offended. We could take lessons from out four legged friends...Did you ever notice that Dogs have no problem saying they are sorry? They will sidle up to you with those big sad eyes and lick your hand etc. Cats are a different story. They just pretend nothing ever happened... Are cats more human?
@ardoy0731 (6865)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
For others saying sorry is really hard to say,as like the song. There are also instances that the person really wanted to say it but there is awkwardness and hesitation.