confused so much

If I were you I would reappear for those NCLEX exams whatever they mean. But what is important here is that you must like being a nurse and if that is the case what are you waiting for. Go for your exams and come out with flying colours and then you will have jobs knocking at your door.

Hi! Choose what makes you happy. Nurses this days are really having a hard time finding jobs that is related to their field.Life must go on.Just be positive.

So are u trying for a public sector that is government job and seeing that u get settled firmly or else are u trying your self in a private sector,as you will be getting good income and there will be upgradation all the time.Which IT course are doing at present.

I do feel your pain. I have undergone several phases of rejection in my life. Do not ever give up. If nursing is what you really love then go for it. So what if you will be working in a tertiary private hospital the important thing is that you have work and you are serving the sick. Just continue showing love to your father. He might have pin his hopes too high in your career to give them a better life ( which to my opinion is something that I will not impose on my daughter).

I'm 33 and yet i am thinking of getting another course. When you decide to do something, it's not because of the financial gain that you can get from it. Is it really something that you'd like to do? Because no matter how hard we try in achieving something but it's not what our heart really longs for, it should still be too difficult. Decide what you really want to do in your life. Make a plan, seek for God's help if you believe in him. If you are comfortable with it, then go for it. If you have doubts, i think it's not something that's for you. Good luck!

It is a common knowledge that most Parents do influence their children's decision making towards a career path that needs to be taken,unfortunately in some cases it is rather imposed and forced upon with much disregard to child's interests,wishes and well being.....I can never understand the logic of such behavior.so is the action that a lot of children do,trying their hardest to please their Parents. We live in a society where our elders are to be treated with utmost respect,to be followed,to look up to with high regard,to emulate and everything else that comes with age,experiences in life,wisdom and them having the know it all mentality. As for us children we always feel like as if we are stuck between a rock and a hard place,confused and not knowing what to do or say,to disagree is out of question for it may hurt their feelings and be viewed as an ingrate disrespectful child. Have a heart to heart talk with your Father,tell him all your worries,plans and aspiration in life...I know that it's easier said than done,but you're not getting any younger and to go through life having regrets and thoughts of the what ifs,the what could have been is the worst possible feeling one can have... If you have the means to do the things you wanna do go for it,but it looks like you still live with your Parents and unemployed at the moment. How about going Abroad?work for a year or two save money and then pursue whatever it is that will make you happy. LIFE'S too short,living your life miserably will make it even shorter.

hi kaeirole if you are licensed you have had a lot of training and y ou should do some more studying and see if you can pass thee nclex exams , this must be something in the Philippines as I am not familiar with it here in the US.If you can take those exams over' again I would really study and try for that,it might help the busted relationship with your father,he is really no helping you with his attitude I would also apply to many other hospitals were I you..I would stick to nursing first as its a shame to waste your training.I am going to pray for you that you get to take those exams over and pass them with flying colors.

hi there kairole and welcome to mylot. i am a nurse too and it took me 2 years to get into a hospital. it is really very difficult because of the competition and the small number of hospitals. i suggest you choose a career path that you really love so that you will enjoy it.

You know that i had a ahrd time answering you this when we had our seriosu talk but all i can say is everything happens for a reason. And i will pray for you.jUST TAKE THINGS SLOW, I know God HAS GReat plans for you.Just follow your heart, what makes you really happy then follow it..Godbless karole

We all know the meaning of "follow your heart". Without passion and enthusiathm, we are not able to devote all the effort to our career. In my mind, this has nothing to do with your age. We can get started any time we are ready. Now the only thing for you to do is to make clear what is your interest and what you wonna spend your whole life on. If you really are determined to chase what you love, I think any obstacle wouldn't be a problem.