wonderful lover

Indonesia
October 19, 2011 8:39am CST
Why is there a couple - which should all live it, arguing and demeaning each other, looking for errors? Mutual anger and hate is not a good way of life and happiness. Let us choose to forgive with a sincere and cordial, and continue to celebrate the life of goodness and sacrifice one another. Let us not be concerned with being right top of error and sorrow of our hearts lover. Life is to be happy, not to hurt each other. You're a complement in which he is less, and you are bracing ourself for him, when he was weak. Be beautiful, wonderful lover.
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@aquacan (216)
• China
20 Oct 11
Recently my friend broke up with her boyfriend, which made her heart broken. So I was thinking, what's the meaning of having a lover if you two can't have a good time. Since you decide to be together, why can't you maintain a balaced and peaceful life? Love should bring us happiness. And love involves forgiveness.
• Indonesia
20 Oct 11
love is not about together, but about understanding. love is not about happines, sometime we feel hurt to know what is love. how can you say you love someone if you won't understand about him/her?
@aquacan (216)
• China
20 Oct 11
It takes time for lovers to know about each other. That process is long and tough. That is why people feel hurt to know what is love.Some could not bare it so they broke up. But those who have gone through thick and thin, would melt away all the misundetstanding at last and I believe love will bring them a happy ending^_^
• China
20 Oct 11
You said it, henki. Life is short. It is not wise for people to quarrel with whom they love. I will never have a fight with my girlfriend or wife if i have one. Instead, i will make the most use of the time i share with her and love her with my life.
• Indonesia
21 Oct 11
hmmm, do you have married? or girl friend?
• Philippines
20 Oct 11
I actually never understood couples who stayed together even if they fight a lot. I have a friend like that in college. I actually never considered befriending the guy, because I always see my friend crying. I always believed that relationships should make your life happy, or happier. And if someone or something does the opposite, why would you even stay? right? Don't take me the wrong way. I know couples argue from time to time, that is normal (I'm married, so I know that). But there should always be a limit so that you don't hurt each other too much.
• Indonesia
20 Oct 11
some couples likes to argue, that normal. sa long as they needed it. some couple. still stay together even they fight a lot, because they believe, if they can change it, or minimal, for their children.
@vikku2001 (258)
• India
19 Oct 11
Hello henki I think love doesn't mean always be in the same way as in your lover.There are many situations come when both have different views and they have their opinion.But it is true that they can solve it with peace and love.But arguing on that is not hate.It is just the way is life that there where is fight, there is love.We never fight in that way to others than whom we love and care.We think they are ours so we can say whatever we like.But sometimes things get complicated that is to be simplified carefully and in loving way.
• Indonesia
19 Oct 11
you right buddy, but, it about husband and wife. what about you think?.
• Philippines
19 Oct 11
This happens when the couple is not compatible partners. Even those who are listening in, cannot understand why the husband got angry at a simple remark of the wife. This is because, the husband perceives the thing that the wife was talking about at a different plane. This is the reason why it is important that the man and the woman know each other enough so as to establish their level of compatibility. Each one will have to be honest about their thinking, their words, and their acts. Showing their true selves to each other while they are still dating, is of utmost importance. Since if they cannot agree on the things that they have to deal with while they are still dating points to their being non compatible to each other. They best part ways than proceed with getting married.
• Indonesia
19 Oct 11
well, before we get maried, we have many time to know our pair. we have do it, but when we maried, we do like we don't know who is our pair. strange, but that always happen.