Life Is Gone...

Life8118 - One of the dearest Mylotters.
Philippines
October 20, 2011 9:54pm CST
Oh you have all probably hear about it. She's gone and her latest discussion as a farewell word was rated as the highest discussion. Unfortunately, I doubt if she will ever read them or will ever have the chance to read them at all because when I check on her profile, it was already deleted. I feel so sad because LIFE8118 was one of the best lotters I have met here and for several times she has given me a push when I needed one. She is one of those I hold dear in my heart and it makes me sad that she deleted her account here in purpose... I wonder why but I know that she did that because it was the right thing and the best thing for her to do. I will truly miss her. Goodbye,my dear Life!
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31 responses
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
That's so sad to hear. Well my condolences to the family of LIFE8118.
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• Philippines
22 Oct 11
shes still alive my dear rmendoza. Go read it again...perhaps, read the entire discussion.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
@Sreekala and Danitykane Pardon the guy for he doesn't know what he is talking about err, what we are talking about. I am just glad that Life isn't what he think she is. At least, that is our consolation for this response by him. And I'm glad you, two, bothered to read the whole discussion and some of the comments here because you will be putting acid to my wound if your responses would say you agree with Rmendoza. :-(
• United States
21 Oct 11
Yes it was very shocking and sad to read her Goodbye discussion. I will miss her and always think of her as she was such a sweet girl. I am hoping it is a farewell and not a goodbye, I hope to run into her some day in the future.
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• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Hello, Hardworkinggurl. I know because I have seen you responded to a lot of her discussions. She is one amazing lady. I don't know her that much and even some of her post do not give much about her personal life but the way she interacted and presented her ideas gave me a very clear impression that she is a very sensible and sensitive woman.Caring and yes, sweet. It is sad that she decided to leave us. We can only say a little prayer that wherever she goes and whatever she does she will always be well and protected. I hope her goodbye means see you later.:(
• Indonesia
21 Oct 11
Hi Eurekafemme, Oh My God I have interacted with life8118 in one of her discussions and she was a great topic starter, she comment back to every responses and I kinda enjoy the discussion with her. I dont join a lot here and I have answered several topic discussions only but how do I remember her very well is because the way she comment back on the responses, she was a great role model to newbie like me. I think she doesnt know me, but I like her and her discussions :( and I will miss her as well as u do.
23 Oct 11
It is a terrible things.when losted my relatives,I will feel the life is very weak.the life is attacted by accidents , disease or natural disaster,we have any way to sole it.so when our body are health,we should enjoy everyday,respecting every one,taking care of your family and yourself.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
@ Fashiofever Yes, dear, that is her trademark that's why she is very popular here and has a lot of admirers. When you are interacting with her you can expect a bout of wits. She's not only great but also kindhearted. So sad that she had to leave... I also look up to her as a model and I wish I have her wits and her patience to accommodate her respondents without fail. Ah, I'm pretty sure that lots of Mylot users will also agree to you and me about Life8118.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
@Hardworking It is not that kind of loss I am feeling right now. My dear friend Life, who was a member of this site decided to leave or delete her account. I am sad and most of the lotters who knew her because she is one of those users we admire because of her sensitivity and kindness. And yes, it is a terrible thing to feel when you knew that someone close to you , at least, in your heart, you'll not get to see again... But, I'm glad that she is well and not in the morbid situation you have shared here. Have a great day. :-)
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
22 Oct 11
I'm sorry. Did she got tired of MyLot? I don't think I'll be leaving here anytime soon, it's so much fun.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Hello, Katie. honestly, I have no clue. But some of our common friends believed that it has something to do with the PMs . I couldn't be sure though and Life is no longer here to clarify this. Yeah, Life, like you had so much fun here, too. She was very active here until the last minute. But, still she decided to leave. I hope to see more of you, Katie. Have a great day always.
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Oh,friend sorry to hear that.I do not know why she deleted,and she did not tell any at you what reason she deleted? Well,we do not know,we wih to met and know her personally but we can't since just here in my lot.. Only God knows where she at now,and hope you are well okay.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Hello there, Befrindwithme. I have no clue why she left Mylot for good. We are not really friends on personal basis but only here in Mylot. She was one of the lotters here who I admire and look up to because the way she treated her respondents and the way she posted her discussions. Informative as always and very sensible. She has that kind of personality that you'd want to often interact with her. Yup, only God knows where she is and why she did have to leave... Thank you for dropping a line ,dear. It is much appreciated.
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• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Do you know the reason why she purposely deleted her account? Maybe the reason is very significant. I just hope she's okay. I feel sorry for you because you've lost a friend here on mylot. But that's okay, you'll find more friends here.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Hello, Clearwater. Life is a friend here but not really a personal friend , if you know what I mean. I came to know her only because of Mylot and our continuous interaction here. But, other than that I have no clue of her life beyond the borders of Mylot. But , still, I feel bad knowing that she had left the site. During my interactions with her (mostly moments that I was so down) she gave me words of wisdom and enlightenment, she even tried to lift my down spirit. Sigh... needless to elaborate that Life is one big part of my Mylot life that even extended to the boundaries of my personal offline life.. Yes, she left because she believed it was the right thing for her to do. And we can only wish her happiness and well being. Sure thing, my dear, I will find more beautiful friends here. I have still a lot of them here but Life 8118 is Life8118. No one can ever replaced her here that's why I am missing her presence here. Thank you for responding, clearwater. Have a great day.:-)
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
21 Oct 11
Hi, I have been able to interact with her recently and i did add her as friend. But I really wonder what make one person who enjoys a lot in My Lot leave the site. Well, there could have been some serious reasons which made her quit but i always wish Life8118 all the very happiness and good luck in her life outside My lot too.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Life is very active her and she was one of those lotters who is paying extra careful to every discussion and response and comments she make. She has a lot of sensible things going on her head. And her decision to leave Mylot, I believe, has been thought of very well and it is the most sensible thing for her to do. She has her good reasons for sure. It is just her leaving is too sudden and she's almost a dear friend to me... I will miss her truly.
@myfb2009 (8304)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 11
Hi Eureka, it is sad to read and respond to Life's last discussion recently. Although i only get to know her recently but really shocked as why she purposely deleted her account. She is one of the great mylotters in this site, whom always giving very interesting answers whenever she respond to any discussions. But, i think she deleted her account is for her own good. Hope she is always doing fine in her offline life.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Hello, Myfb. Yup, that was the discussion I saw and just like you I was shocked. I tried checking her profile hoping she has linger for awhile but true to her words, she immediately deleted her account... I feel so sad because Life was one of those great lotters who gave me sensible advise and uplifted my spirits during those times when I needed some enlightenment.. Life is very generous when it comes to sharing her wisdom and thoughts. She can make you feel like you are one important person that your thoughts and feelings should be given with utmost attention. .. A dear friend of mine here, gave me a clue but I'm not sure if it was really the reason or not. Yes, let's just hope and pray that Life is doing well in her offline life. I know she is.
• United States
21 Oct 11
I am sorry for you that your friend will not be on here anymore. Maybe she will reach you another way. I hope everything was okay. You never know in this crazy mixed up world what could be going on with anyone. I wish you and her blessings.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Chrystaltears, hello. Life is not a personal friend, I haven't met her in person and I knew little about who she really was . I only came to know her because of Mylot. She was an active member here and she was one of those mylot users that I admire. She is a very kind woman and very sensible as well as sensitive with whoever she was interacting with here. I'm pretty sure that a lot of Mylot users who came to know here will speak nothing but good about her. It is sad that the probability of seeing or meeting her one day is not so great. But I can only be thankful for her generous thoughts and sensible advise when I needed one...
@livecenter (1138)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 11
@eurekafemme: I am sorry for your lost. Indeed losing a friend that good is sure a really sad thing. These days, it is not easy to find a friend that is really there when we needed it. Cheer up, because perhaps that is the best thing to do for her.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Hello Livecenter. :-) Life is not really a personal friend , I only came to know her through Mylot but our constant interaction made me feel like she's one person i can call my friend here. She is a very kind woman and through the things that I've been through she gave me courage and words of wisdom. She was one of the Mylotters a lot of us here respects and admires. Yes, it is sad that she decided to leave us. And still sadder that I haven't had the chance to know her more beyond the border of Mylot.
@toosix (81)
21 Oct 11
Anonymous Life is too short to let it pass you by.We only have one shot at this and then it's gone.I hope you all have a blessed day.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Hello, Toosix. Life is too short, indeed, my dear. But the LIFE I am referring here who was gone is another Mylot user who for some reason decided to delete his account. You are still 'young' as a member here so I'm pretty sure that you have no longewr interacted with her. She's one of the nice people here in Mylot. Have a blessed day, too.:-)
@Rosa26 (2620)
• United States
21 Oct 11
I am sorry to hear you lost a friend, maybe she was here for a lot of years and got tired, or maybe she doesn't have enough time now to be online, whatever was the reason, I feel sad that I didn't had the chance to see her profile and respond one of her discussions. I hope you fine more friends as good as her.
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
She did not say why she was leaving Mylot. Maybe, you are right. But it was a personal decision. Life was one of the good 'friends' I have here. We hardly interact with each other but when we do, it is always a pleasure for me because she's one witty , sensible woman. Very kind and frank, too. I have nothing but good words for her. That's why it is making me sad that I can no longer interact and hear her thoughts. that's for sure, I'll find more good friends here still. Matter of fact I still have a couple left here. I hope you, too.
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@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
2 Nov 11
I'm sorry to hear that you lost a friend dear to your heart due to her account deactivating in mylot. but I am sure, mylot is not the only way to keep in touch. ^_^ and you have new friends that who knows will be dear to your heart.
@kyrararen (601)
• Indonesia
2 Nov 11
I am sorry to hear that you lost your friend dear to your heart. but mylot isn't the only way to keep in touch. besides, you gain new friends that who knows will also be dear to your heart.:)
@inertia4 (27395)
• United States
25 Oct 11
People do strange things. It could be any number of reasons why she decided to leave here at MyLot. Maybe she got sick, Maybe she got tired of it, Maybe she just did not want to do it anymore and maybe she found something else that she now makes a living with. Anything is a possibility. Try not to be upset. If she was that good a friend, you should have gotten her real email address and kept in touch with her. Thats way you could have continued talking to her from time to time.
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 11
I commenting on a few of Life responses and I feel that Life is a good person. Sad, when long standing member here deleted their accounts, but of course they must have a very serious matter that they want to delete their accounts.
@rajaiv0810 (1013)
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
Oh really? But why? I believe I had responded to some of her posts before but never really had an interaction to become friends. But somehow in mylot even though if you don't really talk or sometimes you don't even respond to the discussion but by reading to the people's posts you become familiar to them. I hope that she will have more productive things to do at this time. I wish her happiness.
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
For me yes if you know about Jehovah God promised in the future then you know it more and you don't worry of the happened of them when they gone in the bible John 5:28-29 there us a resurrection if the paradise will rule ion this earth.
24 Oct 11
hi:) I respond to her discussion too so many times before, and I could say that she have a nice discussion and she replied all the responses, so I also feel sad that she's now gone here on mylot, I hope she get back using other account soon. anyway whatever her reason is, I hope it's for her good.
@vanities (11343)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Oct 11
I haven't read the post yet, can you give me the url of it? Just curious on her and would like to know more.