How to Be Positive

China
October 20, 2011 10:54pm CST
Being positive is very important.When you are positive in your mission inside,that positive rays will reflect not only on your face but also in what you do and you are going to tackle whatever difficult situations,however tough it may be.That's the power of positive thinking. So, how to be positive?
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@rollylolly (2847)
• India
21 Oct 11
It depends entirely on oneself . If I am confident and determined to think positive in any situation and stay calm no one can make me sad . I get my strength from God . I am always in good company and when I see a friend gloomy I make it a point to make him/her smile . I know and believe whatever happens is predestined by God and it is for our good so I am happy and think positive always . If you are happy you can make others happy too .
• China
21 Oct 11
You have your individual characteristics.Being positive is a character in one's own mind.It makes us strong to deal with problems we meet.
@airkulet (2705)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
It is hard to be positive when you are facing with problems. Although you can control it, being negative in the problems is so easy to manifest. Forget the problems and don't worry about it. All the problems will go eventually, negativity will not help solve the problem but it will add on it if we can't contain it. Smile, laugh, talk to anyone, help somebody and count all your blessings, and you will come to realize that there's a lot of things and blessings to give thanks to. When you do this you wont notice that you are already in the positive state.
• China
21 Oct 11
Being positive is a state of mind.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
IT is good to be positive always in thinking coz it reflects to our life.. most especially in our daily life. here i give some tips for you that will help us to think positively... "FEW TIPS TO HELP YOU DEVELOP POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING" Always use only positive words while thinking and while talking. Use words such as, 'I can', 'I am able', 'it is possible', 'it can be done', etc. Allow into your awareness only feelings of happiness, strength and success. Try to disregard and ignore negative thoughts. Refuse to think such thoughts, and substitute them with constructive happy thoughts. In your conversation use words that evoke feelings and mental images of strength, happiness and success. Before starting with any plan or action, visualize clearly in your mind its successful outcome. If you visualize with concentration and faith, you will be amazed at the results. Read at least one page of inspiring book every day. Watch movies that make you feel happy. Minimize the time you listen to the news and read the papers. Associate yourself with people who think positively. Always sit and walk with your back straight. This will strengthen your confidence and inner strength. Walk, swim or engage in some other physical activity. This helps to develop a more positive attitude. We can try this everyday in life..
• China
21 Oct 11
Thank you so much for your tips!I believe every mylotter will enjoy that.I will try my best taking it into activity.
@marty3888 (2359)
• United States
21 Oct 11
There are both good good things and bad things that happen to everyone. You have to make a choice: dwell on the good things instead of bad. There's one more reason, other than health benefits. If you think about it, most of the time, when people are negative, they turn out to be wrong. Me and my girlfriend were trying to find a house in 2002, around September. three houses in a row that we were interested, no matter how fast we got there, when we did, it was already bought. She mad a comment we won't find a house til NEXT christmas. She was wrong, a few weeks later we found one. When I lost my job, she said no one's going to hire you, there are no desk jobs. She was wrong about that. My mom was like that, too. I just love being positive.
• China
21 Oct 11
You ary right.Things are changing.We need positive thinking to face all the conditions.Just be positive and opportunities are around the corner.
@megamatt (14327)
• United States
26 Oct 11
I think that a great deal of positivity is going to help us deal a little bit better with the negativity in life. I really think that those who surround themselves with all of the negativity are not going to really be able to deal with it all that well. There are just going to be many times where people are going to really find themselves rather crippled. It is rather frustrating to say the very least to deal with but it is something that needs to be dealt with. Are there going to be negative things in life? Yes, unfortunately, but we cannot allow ourselves to get ruled by the negativity. Otherwise we will are going to really be pushed down to a reality that is all rather negativity to say the very least. So I try and remain positive. Look at all of the things that are great in the world. Sit back and enjoy life when I can, to give me strength in the areas that are going to be harder to enjoy.
• Philippines
24 Oct 11
To be positive, you have to start with the mind. Condition yourself that everything will be okay. Everything will be under control. After setting your mind to that kind of mindset, you can know start in doing stuffs that you are planning to do. With that, everything will surely be okay. Having a positive outlook really helps.
@koneho12 (165)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Life is compose of ups and downs "Challenges as we call it". Staying positive despite this fact is kind a amazing but it is the reality. Have a smiling face, treasure each day of life. Take every challenges as an opportunity to grow and most of all have faith in God.
@vasumathi (438)
• India
21 Oct 11
Being positive keeps a person more active and energetic. Nothing is impossible. If you want get anything in your life, think that you can get it definetly
• United States
21 Oct 11
I totally agree with you. I think that the positive energy we put out, comes back to us. I also believe negative energy comes back to us, so it's important to put out and attract the positive! I've been trying a lot of envisioning lately. If you envision what you want to happen, instead of what you don't want to happen, it's been proven that things will turn out to be positive! Since you're putting out the energy of the positive results you want, those positive results will most likely come back to you! I also believe in prayer, that definitely helps me stay positive. Faith is such a huge thing in staying positive!
@derveni (35)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
being positive or being hopeful. it's the best thing we can do in order to survive this cruel world.
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
I know how really important it is to be positive and how essential it is in our life but being positive ALL THE TIME may be not be that easy. There are times we are tested by situations or challenges everyday that I have to try really hard to stay positive no matter what. Sometimes I still feel negative but i try to do things that will make be feel better.
@naomi321 (48)
• China
21 Oct 11
hello,the question you asked is just what i want to know. we come from the same place and have the same problem.though we here are newcomers,we can help each other.it not only practice our english but also make friends with people from different contries.if we want to be positive,we should spare the time to be here everyday.read ,answer ,write and so on ,you can do anyone you like.
• Australia
21 Oct 11
I think just relaxing, and not taking everything so seriously is one of the best ways to be happy, everything doesn't have to be so serious !
@ralphs (209)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
always think positive, yes you're true it will reflect to your face it will enlighten you, if you woke up early morning with positive outlook everyday you can make positive whatever the situation you will encounter. and don't forget to pray.
@Triple0 (1907)
• Australia
21 Oct 11
I personally find it really difficult to be positive, I envy those people, especially my friends who don't have a care in the world. Even though they may have some issues of their own, you can never tell or they simply just brush if off and not let it take over. I'm very vulnerable to my pessimistic thinking, once a bad thought passes my mind, I suddenly just become depressed but I never show it on my face. Usually it's temporary and comes and go as long as I don't think about it. I try to find something positive each day, even something really small to bring me up and feel happy that I'm here. But in my group of friends, everyone is happy and no one has issues to be sad over about. I just over think things a little too much.
@EdnaReyes (2628)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
We often hear and read this line, be positive and you'll succeed. But the question is how it is to be positive? Positive means away from negative thoughts and always on the brighter side, but how one can be? I think it is dependent on how one see life. How one see things and how one acts accordingly. One thing can be positively looked at by some but some may not see it that way. It's our choice and judgement!