Could you only love 1 person?

@Jacruz25 (1124)
Philippines
October 21, 2011 1:21pm CST
In your entire life is it possible to love only one person? We of course first experience love when we were still a teenager then time passes and for sure love also fades then we encounter another person and fall in love and so on and so forth. The point there is that in our entire life it is completely impossible to only love one person. You maybe thinking that you only love one person and that is your husband/wife but even before you got married there is surely someone you first fell in love with.
11 responses
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
Loving yourself is already loving one person. What about the rest of the world? :)
@Jacruz25 (1124)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
It's a different kind of love. You don't seem to get it.
• Romania
23 Oct 11
I think you can love more than one person but not at the same time. But in this case it will not be that "true love" we are looking for. You can love two people in different ways and I am not talking about the love we have for our parents. It's about loving our partner, the one we are in a relationship.
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
23 Oct 11
I think it's impossible. Love just happens and all the time, I know I can love romantically always one person, I never happened to be loving two at the same time or if I was for example torn in two options to date I just had to give a time to know wich one of the two guys I really wanted. Now to love it will always be a place for someone new, a new friend, someone that helped me wich makes gratittude to become love...There are people that helped me that I don't see in like almost a decade and I think about them almost everyday, I'm preatty sure it's love because I feel that warmth and all, feeling they are sometimes more of my family than some relatives could be.
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
yes,i agree..but we feel different kind of love to the people around us..like the love we feel to our parents,this love is different to the love we feel to our brothers, even to our friends, and the love we give to our pets. we feel this (love) affection differently to the people who make our own world turn.:)
@Triple0 (1907)
• Australia
22 Oct 11
That's right, as we grow up from kids to adults, in our various stages of our lives, we will experience love for a person and often we may face rejection. But it's all part of life, there will always be ups and downs. Some relationships works while others don't. I reckon that as a teenager or a kid, you wouldn't exactly understand love all that well, the thing you'll feel is attraction and some kids think it's love. That attraction develops into a relationship but you always find teens breaking up and moving on quite quickly. I guess some teens feel insecure if they don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Once you're an adult, you don't mind anymore and prefer to be single for some time. But love is hard to find, that's why it may take time to find the one true person who you will love and loves you back.
@ralphs (209)
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
yes because many people in the world have first love,last love. like they have a first girlfriend/boyfriend and they love it so much. they want to married their gf/bf, because they feel that its a husband/wife material. they don't need to have another girlfriend/boyfriend. having one love is so great because no hassle you don't have to lie because you don't want your love to caught you cheating, and having another girlfriend/boyfriend like a two timer you know GOD is watching your moves. so better be faithful to one you love. its your responsibility. if you're love vanish to someone just say it, don't be a cheater and a liar, its a mistake. remember doing a good thing have good karma, doing a bad thing have bad karma. be faithful.
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
I will marry one,but i cant promise to love only one because sometimes we have want and like to others. And make relationship and after all break up again and then love others again.. But i will surely love and marry one.And not like marry,divorce,and married again..I will have to set a good example,.God watching me,and sin to love otheres and marry even you are already married.
@mantis36 (4237)
• Philippines
21 Oct 11
the is the reason why career first before love because when we are professional someday by finishing school study first then find a stable traditional business plus a passive internet business then love is like a rain that you can't stop... it will comes to you no matter if you don't.... but if you choose love before career, and someday you'll find a professional partner, it is bad to disregard the original and choose the professional, because you are a professional on that time.... the common reason is.... if i will not marry her/him, then i think my life is more than Dec. 21, 2012, and i'm feel its the end..... but for every port report.... there is a good partner always there waiting for us when we are stable in life soon.... if we are professional and our partner to be is also a professional someday, a 101 percent true to love only 1 person.... To the parents out there, i know that Money is important because if low budget then the fork, spoon, cup, and plate are all flying saucers that multiply to many when hit the wall of the house....
@GemmaR (8526)
21 Oct 11
I think that you can love many people in different ways during the course of your life, but it can be a little confusing with regards to working out who you love in which way. I think that you can only truly love one person, however not all of us can be in love with the person of our dreams, but a lot of us won't realise that we haven't found that person because of the simple fact that we're not all that sure whether our feelings are the strongest that they can possibly be. You should only love one person romantically at any one time, though.
• Romania
21 Oct 11
Hi, Jacruz25 If you want to have many loves make yourself a sheik. Sheik may have many wifes and many kids. But in this big world, exist many kinds of love. You could love yor son, your wife, your dog, your mom... The true love, when 2 persons really love each other, the love last whole life.
@vasumathi (438)
• India
21 Oct 11
It is a true fact that we may get attracted towards different people in our life. but according to me, Love can be only towards one person