How people for get their pain after they reach their destination ?

@siri26 (331)
India
October 26, 2011 11:55pm CST
Actually it's too sad that people forget the pain they crossed and making fun out of a person who is sailing in the same boat. How people make fun out of a person who is back of them when they are at their worst phase of life? It's not necessary to help the person who who helped you need to help them back . But it too harsh to hurt them when they are at their worst phase of life. How come people say that they are enjoying their fruit of life because of someone and on the other hand how they can hurt those same people? How people lose their conscience and just saying sorry and making the same mistake again and again? It's not very easy a person who is in depressive state to face the situation like this. This is where people lose their hope and start hating people. Don't make them like that. Possible make them feel better or else leave them but don't ever ever hurt them .
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@chiyosan (30206)
• Philippines
27 Oct 11
As I have been in a very bad situationmyself... I have never made fun of people who are going through a rough time. I am always sensitive about what people are going through in their lives. I am specifically very cautious at what i say, or do especially around them. I know how it feels to be in pain, to be hurting and no one understood your feelings.. and for this I am always ready to hear out those people who needed my help.
@siri26 (331)
• India
27 Oct 11
Yup. that's right. The person who knows real pan will not hurt others
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
27 Oct 11
Yes it is true, people laugh on other's failure. 'Though it is really wrong because we only drag them down into frustration and hurts even more. This is why some people gets depressed and start to feel hatred towards some people. You are right the least we can do for them is to feel them better by listening to their problems and making them feel that we are with them and we feel their pain. These simple things will surely boost up their confidence and believes that they will somehow overcome the bad situation they were in.
@siri26 (331)
• India
27 Oct 11
Yup. that's enough we need to create an impression that we are there for them. That makes wonders. But why people don't understand these small and sensitive issues? And on the other way they try to hurt people who are already depressed.
@umabharti (3976)
• India
27 Oct 11
Iron Pans - Pans used thousands of years ago
It happens my friend.Though we pass our childhood hard times and when we are kids we do feel much angry on some things done by others or elders. When we grow up we do the same to the kids. So dont u think that we do forget our pain in the past and try to hurt someohter who sails in the same boat. Actually they are not enjoying the fruit friend they are just behaving to show off in that way. As pain are there in every part of life. Hate is something is there friend where there is no love and care it arrives. Hope does get lost and even blossoms.
@siri26 (331)
• India
27 Oct 11
If it's childhood may be for our good people may behave like that. We may not be able to understand that . But after we grow up we will come to know why they did like that and we accept the truth. But frankly speaking I never hurt the people who are already in pain or which I crossed the same. Because I know How I suffered when it happened to me. I won't say every one should like me but we should not hurt people. That's humanity. We are not animals or brainless to do that sort of cruel things
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@rameshchow (5284)
• India
28 Oct 11
If there is no pain, then there is no strong attitude. Pain is the strong tablet to achieve our goal, confidence is the strong tablet to help for it.
@Rosa26 (2620)
• United States
28 Oct 11
I like a verse in the bible that says, smile with those who are smiling and cry with those who are crying, meaning that we have to feel the pain of the others instead of make fun about the others when they are in prove,I know that after all the storms come the calm, and the learning message because all the things that happen in our life is to learn, so in the future we won't do the same errors. So I believe in help the others when they are in that kind of situation, it is like when we are doing exercises and trainer sees that we are almost giving up, so he comes and beging to encourage us and tell us how good we have being doing, that it is not time to quit, that we are almost reaching our goal, and those messages keep us going on.