how you choose your friends????

India
October 29, 2011 5:42am CST
everyone has their own way of choosing friends.Some just make an impression about them by looking at their body language or their style of dressing....and many!!!!so what's your style of choosing your friends???????
5 responses
• United States
29 Oct 11
That's a good question! Hmm...I don't really think, in my case anyway, that I "choose" my friends per se. The really close friends that I have I was just sort of drawn to. Like somebody else before me mentioned (sorry I don't remember your name) there's just a spark. Something happens and there's just chemistry between two people, whether it be physical, emotional, or spiritual. The really special friends come from that sort of chemistry. I have a few friends that I'm very close to and they are so completely different from one another. There's no way I could pick any one thing that made me "choose" them. There was just a spark that lit the flame of friendship :)
• India
30 Oct 11
yeah you don't exactly need to "choose" anyone as a friend.But when you get to know some bad stuff about them then there actually comes a point of "option" as to choose or leave them.So that's the whole concept of "choosing".Thank you for your reply.
@jugsjugs (13045)
29 Oct 11
The kind of person i chose as a friend, would be a person that is kind, true, honest and never pokes holes in other people.A person that is not two faced is the best kind of friend i would say.A person that treats you the same way as you do them.
• India
30 Oct 11
hmm ya that's a good thing....as you never know when your friends turn backstabbers.Better to be away from them.And choose friends with good mind set.Anyways Thanks for your reply.
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
I don't really choose friends. As long as I know we get along with each other and we like being with each other, then he/she is officially my friend. If I know a person doesn't like me, I don't make an effort to make him/her like me. As long as a person likes me, he/she is my friend and I cannot choose who will like me to be their friend.
• India
30 Oct 11
hmmm yeah!!!!!!! a good response though.Thank you for your response.
• Philippines
29 Oct 11
well, mine's pretty easy. i hang with someone who i have fun with. its kind of like looking for your perfect boyfriend or girlfriend. i look for some kind of 'spark' when im talking to someone. and when i felt that spark, then id probably spend my time more on you.
• India
29 Oct 11
oh thats a cool response i guess!!!!!!!good hope you have many many sparking friends in your life!!!!!
• India
29 Oct 11
hi m my style of choosing friends , is their behavior towards others. If at all from net or other social networking things, i choose from mode of talking and their smartness in impressing others..
• India
29 Oct 11
hmm!!!!!!!yeah!!!!!thats a cool thing that you need to look at their behaviour!!!!!but now in this networking world you would definitely look out their talking style but in most cases i dont think this is gonna long last!!!!!