what to do if all your friends somehow all gone?

Philippines
October 30, 2011 2:07am CST
Good day dear fellow mylotters, My life now is not happy and healthy, as I am facing a lot of thinking and problems. That due to a small and abrupt decision that I did, almost all was put into mess. I was trying to get in touch in one of my so many friends to at least help me to fix things. As I cannot do this all by myself. I need a helping hand and a sound of advice from any one of my friends. However, as I try to contact them, its like, the messages that I am sending has just gone into the bin. I received no reply, no text messages, no calls, nothing at all. As they are all gone. None of them bothers to answer me. What to do. Perhaps, life is really like this. That I just need to undergo to this process for me to learn and realize what type of person my friends are and so as me.
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7 responses
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
In times of trouble,it's the best time to measure how true our friends are. Somehow I am lucky to have friends who never left me in times of troubles. They are always there and I don't need to say a word for they what I need. We are close to each other that we can feel what our friends feel. I hope your friends will come to you and give help without you asking them' Have a great weekend
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
@ sunny, Yes she is very lucky and vice versa
@LittleMel (14055)
• Canada
12 Aug 12
in my younger years this happened a lot to me so I learned to only rely on myself I do have friends, very few as I am very selective but I only came to them when every effort I make to solve a problem didn't work otherwise we pretty much live our own lives friends, like lovers, don't stay that way forever there will be a time they leave you or stab you in the back so you will always need to find a way to deal with things yourself regardless how hard it is
• India
12 Aug 12
Hi friend, sorry to hear about this, why are you bothering about the persons who don't bother about you? just forget about this friends and find out the real ones, don't worry for this and divert your self with other good things. Make a lot of good friends and have fun with them. All the best and my wishes to you to find real friends
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
12 Aug 12
hi, actually its really hard when we dont have friends,because no one could help us in our problem but still our family is there to help us too,but its still we need to have at least one good and real friend.
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
hi aira, This is sad in times like this you can see who is your real friends There was time I felt like I need to chase them and I did once but I don't do it again, at least I learn my lesson whom I trust and not. Hope you will feel better and find true friends. happy mylotting
@Seisho7 (172)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 11
why gone ?? if someday my friends all gone I must looking what is my mistakes. If there is no mistakes the problem is your friend. Friend with people who will accept you as it is (y)
@WakeUpKitty (8707)
• Netherlands
30 Oct 11
Well since your life looks like a mess and it's time to clean up anyway you know now that your friends are no friends at all. Good news and the best of all is you can have a brand new start. If you believe it or not you are able to do all or most of it alone. Also there is no need to do everything at the same time. Make a list of things that you need to do, things that you have to change. What is priority (what to do first) what can wait a bit longer? Make a scedule of your day when to wake up, what to do at what time and for how long. Also build in some relaxation time (read a book, watch a movie, go out for a walk). As soon as sorrows/things to do pop up on your mind write them down. And before you go to bed be happy with every little thing you were able to solve or fix or you cleaned up. You are stronger as you think and you will make new friends as well.