LOVE love love love...

Philippines
October 30, 2011 8:40am CST
i fell in love with this girl.. at first sight.. yes we talked.. small talks but just that.. how could i get her to be interested in me? im having a hard time talking to a really pretty girl. whenever i think of her it makes me feel that im way out of her league, she's rich, really damn beautiful,smart... and me.. im just an ordinary guy. tell me people. give me some advice. please?
10 responses
@SIMPLYD (88618)
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
Keep your love to yourself first. Develop a nice friendship with her first. Through that you will be able to let her know your true self and you with herself too. Also, just be yourself. I tell you, love that develops from friendship is really a beautiful one.
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
really? why is that? from experience? tell me about it. love develops from friendship is really something beautiful?
@SIMPLYD (88618)
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
Yes, i speak through experience. My husband and i started as just friends and office mates. And it bloomed into love.
• United Arab Emirates
30 Oct 11
Hi kibinkibin love is not to be forced. if you already have small talks then that is the start of a good friendship. the basic thing when you are interested in a person is knowing her. what she likes and the things that catches her fancy. do not try to just impress her. be naturally concerned. just be yourself. just show how you really feel about her and you would know if she is interested in you if she talks to you as well and will say yes to your invitations. show her genuine sincere intentions and you will be on the right track. Don't be intimidated by her looks, and what she has. if your intentions are pure- then you are more than a jewel!
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
well i dont want to be left in the friend zone either..
• United Arab Emirates
30 Oct 11
Do you know that women has very sharp instinct? they can see and sense if you are sincere and capable to love and care for them they would always choose a man who is loving and kind in nature. once you get to know her better then you can tell her that you wanted more than friendship. slowly but surely (as the cliche goes)good luck and well wishes to you. =)
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
don't have any pretensions. Show her what and who you really are , Don't just try to impress her by silly things which is too annoying for girls. Act as normal as you can and most of all you should be true o her. Don't be so obvious but let her feel that she is a special girl for you .
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
should i tell her? That i like her?
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
Like what you said , you are caught by love-at-first-sight, and you are not that close enough, if you tell that this early she will feel that your too fast . Just try to catch her attention every time, make her laugh and be showy . Let her just feel it for now, and maybe when yo are that close, then you could open up your feelings to her. In this way you will both take time in knowing each other.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
Just be natural and dont act too much and obviously you like her. Girls like those men who are polite simple and gentle also caring and natural. First let her be your friend and don't let her know you like her. Dont be in a hurry. Build friendship and trust with each other then if you think she likes you that is the time you start to tell what you feel toward her. And please try to know if she has no boyfriend. Ok and goodluck to you..
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
THANK you for the advice! yes i wanna be natural.. that's really hard to do though HAHA i'm always a clumsy in front of her,, which makes me feel bad..
• United States
31 Oct 11
I know what you are going through I used to be the same way, women love confidence and they like to be complemented, not necesarily tell her she's pretty and stuff like that but go with her flow and let your moods complement each other. If she is having a bad day ask her if she wants to talk about that bad day if she says yes then talk is she says no then try to get her mind off of the bad day she just had, you feel me, little thing like that will get her interested in you. And there are two types of rich women, the ones that were given everything and the ones that earned everything you have to figure out which one is she. Just remember not to come on strong and don't let her see you sweat, hope this helps man.
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
thanks! i got all your points. but im sweating a lot naturally hahaha! even if i'm not nervous haha , what do you mean not to come on strong? and one more thing, how would i make the conversation last? sometimes , or usually im running out of ideas on what to ask her, tell her. and make her talk you know. how do i do that?
@Aja103654 (5654)
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
JUST BE YOU! Girls like boys who are confident and natural. It's awkward for them if they notice you doing things that don't come naturally to you. There are many guys out there who have been in the same situation. Don't get intimidated by how pretty this girl is, see her as a person, talk to her like you normally would to a friend. And be sincere! This is the most important thing to remember! Good luck! ^_^
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
im confident and natural when i'm NOT around with someone im in love with..Good point too looking at her as a normal person, i'll treat her well.
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
31 Oct 11
How beautiful! I love stories of love at first sight. Dear just be yourself, even though you might want this girl so much now even if you got into a relationship she might be disappointed if you do not be what you showed to be so it's time to hope she likes you for you, if she doesn't, it doesn't matter how much you are in love now, that will go away and you'll find the right girl. Be your self. You could woo her too, of course. Don't be friends for too long but tryt o be friends for a little while, so it could be easy to ask her out. But when you go out, then you'll have to try to kiss her or she'll begin to see you like someone that she can count that will be waiting for her.
• Philippines
31 Oct 11
awww... so your saying i should kiss her already? at our first date??? hahahaha! i dont want to get slapped by her on the face..good point, i'll be myself just like everyone is suggesting..but isnt it better to be someone that can be counted on? rather than me being someone that can't be counted on? does that lead me to the friend zone?
@thatgirl13 (7306)
• South Korea
30 Oct 11
I would say you just be yourself. I would rather fall in love with a real and down to earth person than someone who pretends to be someone he is not. So be true to yourself, sincere to your feelings and everything will be fine. There is no guarantee she will fall in love with you if you be yourself but the chances are higher than when you try to be someone you are not. Good luck.
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
then be myself? thats all? and be sincere with my feelings. heck i can do that.. thanks 4 the advice!
@Riead68 (51)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 11
WOW!!!!! its really complicated for the practical life. No prob. you can prove your self thats you are capable for her. talk but dnt talk too much. let her to feel you. because in this world if you care too much he/she will never care for you. Dnt take it other other way. talk in a way that she will remember you all the day that means make some fun... Other leave on the god. may god bless you.
• Philippines
30 Oct 11
thanks hahaha!!!!!!! i'll do it! i'll make it work!
@bjc66bjc (6745)
• United States
31 Oct 11
Kib Kib Kib...well of course you should follow your feelings...suppose u don't and she get away...you wiil forever wonder "what if"...If she carried on a conversation with you before means she is not totally turned off by you.. beauty, rich and smart dosen't means she is happy in her life....try it 'GO FOR IT"...realizing you are moving forward with your feelings not necessary her's...GOOD LUCK!!!!!