November 1, 2011 10:56pm CST
Dear MyLotter, Could you please help me with my problem? Today, I realised that my achievement is not enough. I was unhappy with myself and my everything. I feel what I have done or got was useless, no point. I just wanna quit from everything. I am working now but I think I have to much problem to deal with. I got new job offer, but I was not also ready to receive it. I thought that I was a failure man. I don't wanna work because I'm tired of working, or my life. Please give some advice. Thanks
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2 Nov 11
Hi! I think your blessed compared to a lot of people who are jobless.So take care of what you have .Life is always not easy,problems are normal,take it as a challenge rather than be discourage. Just think of other people who are jobless,no job offers and are not able to work. I hope you realize what you have. Just be strong and surround your self with people that can help and support you. :D
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2 Nov 11
Life does not present us with a glimpse of the journeys ahead, so when our lives take an unexpected turn, the emotional pain that it leaves us can create feelings of anger, fear, shame or hopelessness. Whether the origin of the pain was within or outside of our control, I believe that God allows it to serve a purpose. Some try to avoid the pain all together, fearing the inevitable suffering and grief, while others abort the process only to find themselves spending their lives rehearsing the same patterns. This unresolved hurt eventually leads to a life of "invisible scars," which spirals into a cycle of unproductive thinking and broken relationships. Do you have goals? Is there something to would like to reach? write down what you want, if it is physical take a picture of that, if it is interior, feed your goal reading, articles about the topic in your lefe you want develop. Motivation is the reason we do what we do. It is what drives us to accomplish a task or goal and it is what keeps us working towards that destination. you can use when you want to accomplish you goals is to reward yourself. Rewards can make almost anyone motivated to work on a task. After you have finished reaching that goal, reward yourself if your goal was losse weight buy you a new pair of pants. Visualizing your goal will help you see what you want to accomplish and will help keep you motivated without bogging you down. Digg in you I know you will find something that you want to do or develop.
2 Nov 11
Your post are very helpful. I should have thought and done at least your comments. Your post has opened my eyes. I shouldn't blame myself and now I felt relieved that's because you reminded me how to appreciate reward in what we've achieved. Thank
2 Nov 11
Hello what happened? In the previous discussion you started you told that you are getting a new job. Now if you are tired of working online --it may be because you get paid at levels fixed and it may not match your expectations--stop working online. relax. read some books. In fact if you want to earn more you should come online only when you are interested.
2 Nov 11
There are challenges and barriers that comes along all in life and unless you are ready to face those problems and moves on, its is hard to reach your dream. Don't give up on what you are doing. Problems are parts of our daily struggle, you just need that determination and drive and sooner you will leap those fruits.