Cheating

India
November 2, 2011 10:33pm CST
Which is more painful?????? Lover`s cheat or a best freind`s cheat??? for me it is a best freind`s cheat what is your opinion???? be frank my freind if any one got cheated tell me???????
6 responses
@junmae (1592)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
I experienced being cheated and betrayed by my best friend and it really hurts than being cheated by my lover. We treated our friends as family that's why for me it hurts more when a friend turns his/her back on you. We considered them as our confidant and somebody who always there when we are in bad times. They are the ones whom we always talk and hang out with.
• India
15 Nov 11
it is common my freind mostly whom we think is our best freind cheats us....... it is common
• Philippines
3 Nov 11
I must agree, your friend turning his or her back on you hurts more than your boyfriend or girlfriend cheating on you. True friends are relatively harder to find than a boyfriend or girlfriend. Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go, but true friends stay. They are part of your 'support system' together with your family. They have been somehow already a part of your family. And to be betrayed by someone whom you treated as family and whom you have trusted you wholeheartedly, that is depressing. But you know what hurts the most? If your boyfriend cheated with your best friend. Ah that is a life shocker.
• India
3 Nov 11
thanx for your comment mam yes you are right mam it is more hurtable that when our lover hurt our best freind than we have only one option that we must be with our best freind.... but when our best freind would hurt us or our lover then which side we would have to be??
• United States
3 Nov 11
Do you mean if a best friend goes behind your back and betrays you, versus a boyfriend/girlfriend doing it? I would agree that the best friend thing would hurt more. I think the boyfriend one would hurt more at first, since you'd feel rejected...But in the long run, losing a friend who has been there for you throughout everything would hurt ten times worse. It'd be the person you trust the most tearing you apart. With friends like that, who needs enemies. "I told God to protect me from my enemies, and I started losing friends." Everyone deserves better friends than that.
• India
3 Nov 11
You are true mam whenever a freind whom you think is your best freinds betrays or leave when you are in need than it hurts most....... and one more thing when our lover hurt us our freind would be there to handle our feeling but when our freind hurt us no one would be there to handle us........ so it is moe painful when our best freind hurt us..........
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
17 Nov 11
Much painful when your love cheated on you. But it extremely painful if your friend and your love does it to cheat on you. But if only friendship and does something to lie on you. There is no cheat on such ways
@soulist (2986)
• United States
13 Nov 11
I would have to say actually my boyfriend cheating on me would be more painful. I am sharing something special with him, I am sharing my life with him. Having him cheat on me would be like a slap in the face, as if everything we shared meant nothing.
• Philippines
3 Nov 11
i think both hurts... i mean its the trust that they broke not just your heart... its really hard to get back on your feet when this happens... i never forgives anybody that broke my trust... my friends used me. and now i just find out that they are all fake... my ex did cheat one me too with his ex... i guess they are happy together now...