torn between a man and a cousin

Bulgaria
November 4, 2011 2:49am CST
I will tell you in what situation I found myself and no escape. The guest came to my first cousin, a man I had nothing portiv but then I do not know what happened and he said that if you want to stay a family not to invite home. I have a feeling that the mother had said something and he wants it now. I do not know what to do if you were in my position what would you do. I do not want to offend anyone and I find it very difficult.
3 responses
• India
4 Nov 11
Yes. Even I am not understanding what happened exactly. Who said not to invite any family to whom and why?
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• Bulgaria
4 Nov 11
friend so now I'll explain. My first guest came a cousin but my husband does not want it at home now and told me to tell you to go if not I can get out. I do not know what to do how to approach and not offend anyone. Thank you. nice day!
• New Zealand
4 Nov 11
I have no idea what your talking about. you dont make sense
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• Bulgaria
4 Nov 11
clearly you have not understood me. I'll briefly explain my guest is a cousin but my husband told me if I want it to stay home and forget about it and I think that my mother in law so it adjusts. I wanted to ask in this situation how would you react. what would you do to explain how a cousin to go without it and without insult to ruin his family. povognete I hope you understand me. Thank you. nice day!
• India
4 Nov 11
In a relationship with a family members it may difficult to ask them anything directly as you may think that they will about you in a negative manner. But try to ask them why they told it, and the reasons for it. You can talk to them in private or send someone else to ask them not showing them that you told to ask about it.
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• Bulgaria
4 Nov 11
eah a lot to say it correctly. should be taken with these relationships I have nothing bad either against or cousin to my mother in law but why is it I do not know. at times I think that is as good as in bad things happen to him. if those who are assertive and make bad not keep quiet much better than good and kind. if they drill everywhere and we do not. Many thanks for answers and advice. nice day!