trouble with a friends.
November 6, 2011 1:30am CST
i have one friend that really annoying. here is the story, one day, i tell him about a girl that i like. i tell so much thing about that girl,and she just saying yes and understand. and after several day, i try to say my love to the girl. the girl accepting me as her boyfriend. but after this, the problem come. my friend spread a gossip that i like her. unfortunately, the characteristic that i told to her is like her. she is too confident to say that i like her. it really disturb my relationship with my grilfriend.
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10 Nov 11
You confided in your friend, and she shouldnt have betrayed that confidence. If I were you, i would start to seriously question the loyalty of this friend, coz quite honestly, that leads to a trust issue....I would start to wonder what other secrets that i have revealed to her, that she has gone talking about. Until you are certain that this was just a slip of the mouth, i would stop telling her what is going on in my life.
6 Nov 11
It sounds like your friend is scared of losing your friendship. Either that or she actually likes you and is jealous. Either way, your best bet is just to ask her why she did it (in a friendly way - you want her to tell you the truth, not get upset). Then you can reassure her that she's not going to lose you as a friend just because you're in a relationship. Of course, if she actually like you in that way, it might be a bit more difficult...!
11 Nov 11
yes, you friend might have probably like you for all these years and she has been keeping that to you. now that you have a girlfriend then she is threatened that she might lose you. that is why she is spreading this gossip now. i hope your friend stops that. and the only thing that you do that is to clear things out with your girlfriend as she might be affected with the gossip and clear things out with your friend. God bless on you deliar!