Texting an EX while drunk?
November 10, 2011 8:38am CST
This is just a conversation starter. You know the score. You've just had the worst break up of your life and you're drunk so you text your ex and can't remember doing it. This is one of those classic things which always results in embarrassment. I have seen so many of my friends do this on nights out... Please discuss your opinions and stories of how this has happened to friend or your own experiences and what happened afterwards! Thanks :D
13 Nov 11
I haven't experience this kind of situation. But i know someone who text his ex girlfriend just to take revenge of his new girlfriend because the guy got jealous when his girl is still texting her ex.He can't do this stuff when he is not drunk, so when he got drunk, he got the courage to do it. When the girlfriend saw this, she got mad, but the guy asked for forgiveness because he only do this to make her realize the mistake she had done. He told her that he love her so much and he doesn't want to lose her. And the girl cried, regret what he had done, and ask also for forgiveness. The next day the guy remember all the things he had done, just to take revenge. So I think, being drunk doesn't give you the reason to forget everything. And when you are drunk, you will have the courage to do anything you can't do when you are in our normal state of mind.
11 Nov 11
Those are funny stories, indeed! I don't go around with friends who drink so I rarely get to see drunk people texting their ex-es. One thing I'm sure about is that it will cause great embarrassment. It's possible that this person would text that he or she wants to go back and be lovers again with his or her ex or it could be that they argue and shout at their ex-es over the phone through calling. I'm glad i never had this experience!
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10 Nov 11
I think that people lose some of their social inhibitions when drunk or high. They'll be in a happy, relaxed mood, so they'll talk to most anyone and everyone. This has been the case for me. I can be shy and quiet, but when my inhibitions are removed, I enjoy being social with people. Before, I professed my love to about four guys in one night. It was really embarrassing. I remember apologizing to them and texting other friends at the same time because I knew I had embarrassed myself. Looking back, it was embarrassing, but it was also a funny memory. I think that people should control how much they imbibe, because the more that they imbibe, the more likely crazy things are inclined to happen.
10 Nov 11
I can't discuss about this since I was never drunk. Both my exes where.. so I am the one who was receiving the texts, emails or letters. Since they were drinking every day I don't believe they did not remember what they wrote. This is also something they can check in their cellphone or computer (don't think there are much people still writing a letter). So the only thing I can say is: no matter if you are drunk or not you are responsible for your own deeds. Don't use being drunk as an excuse since you are the one who decides to drink and to get drunk plus who texts.