Who commissioned people to judge when to be fertile?

United States
November 12, 2011 2:09am CST
If a person who is 18 years old gets pregnant and has no money, but is a great parent to their child then it is wrong? It's not about only money. Being able to be a young parent is also about being mentally and emotionally prepared. It is better to have children when we are young rather than at 30 years old or older. The older you are the more difficult it is to bear children. A female's body is made to be fertile in her early years, not when she is older. It's called re-producing the population. So why would a person tell a young parent they shouldn't have had their family start at 22 years old? I can't understand why people think, they can judge someone for what they do in this life. If you want to control your life and wait until YOU are older to have children, then that is YOUR problem; but don't go walking around telling others who are prepared to do so early not to just because you did.
1 person likes this
3 responses
@wongchoiyee (6537)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 11
I am still single and 30 years old. I feel regret for not getting married at early age. Someone likes me but I reject him.
1 person likes this
• United States
12 Nov 11
That's too bad. May I ask why you did reject him?
@dragon54u (31298)
• United States
12 Nov 11
Don't worry if you haven't found the right one yet. I didn't have my first child until I was 33--I have two healthy grown sons and they're the best thing that every happened to me! You have plenty of time if you're only 30 to find the right person to start a family with.
@vexxus (706)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
there's no wrong or bad, at starting a family, whether they were too young or too old as long as they are not that irresponsible in taking care of their family.
• United States
12 Nov 11
Responsibility goes a long way
12 Nov 11
i think that it doesn't matter whatever is your age when you get pregnant..but the most important is you know how to be a good mother to your kids..
• United States
12 Nov 11
and being a good mother comes from natural instinct, especially, if you are raised correctly to be mature enough by the age of consent.