When guys become overly dramatic and misses you...

Philippines
November 14, 2011 2:46am CST
So I have this guy friend and we keep on texting everyday which is actually fun yet tiresome sometimes. Lately, I have been keeping myself busy with things like MyLot and etc that I don't text or reply the way I did before. Last night, he told me that he misses me. This was my reaction again - o_O and in my head, I was asking myself, "Why on Earth would he miss me when we are always texting although my texts got lesser but we're still texting? Duh!" So I asked him why and he didn't reply. Grrr... Then the next morning, he told me that he's sulking because of me and I'm like are you serious and then he said that he seriously missed me. I honestly don't know why he's like that. We're just good friends. He's acting strange lately. Are guys really like that? What's the reason why they act like that? Weird. o_O
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12 responses
@SIMPLYD (81357)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
That's because he wants you to be his girl. He just cannot tell you straight to the face.
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I can't become his girl that easily. He has too work for it. Although, he did confess his feelings already but I still can't accept them. He just broke up with his ex. He is still unstable. I don't want to end up the rebound girl. o_O
@SIMPLYD (81357)
• Philippines
21 Nov 11
That's true my friend. He has to prove to you that indeed he is over his relationship with his Ex. Nobody wants love on rebound.
• Philippines
21 Nov 11
I told him that already SIMPLYD. I'm glad he respects my decision. I don't want to be the replacement for his ex. Besides, I'm happy being single. ^_^
15 Nov 11
In my opinion ,he fell in love with you . When you keep on texting everday , he may thought that u like him and he love you too. Then ,when you busy ,he will uneasy and try to get your attention . There's the reason I think. HOPE YOU CAN ENJOY THIS .
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Thanks for your opinion. Yes, he did admit that he likes me and that not replying him like before was new to him since I acted AIDS (As If Doing Something). Hahahahh!! But he knows that I want nothing more but only friendship. ^_^
19 Nov 11
Well ,I think you should keep a little distance with him . And may be you can talk about your prince charming , be sure that the guy is not fit what you want . He will realize that he is not the kind of man you do not like.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
That guy again huh? LOL. It seems to me that this guy's a drama king. He's behaving like a child sulking because of that. Though you could always take his word for it and then ignore XD You over-think sometimes you know. I'll imagine i'm this guy... I would say I miss you... because i got no one else to text with. And you as someone i like, being unable to reply to me makes me very lonely. I said i miss you to get your attention, but it only made you skeptical and uncomfortable. I'm sulking because you don't feel the same way i do. you don't miss me like i have missed you. Now, more than ever, you have proved to me that you don't have the tiniest bit of interest towards me. it's depressing. i just broke up with my ex, it didn't end too well, but i can say it has ended and i feel a little better. when i was having trouble with my ex, you were there for me to comfort me as a friend. but now, you are not just an ordinary friend to me anymore. you are more than that. i wonder if i could make you fall for me too? but it seems... you don't miss me. you don't feel anything special. maybe everything i have done to let you know i like was for naught. Ah... did that help you somewhat, Bmelody? eheheheh
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
Yes Aja, that guy again. Lolz. He is a drama king. He just dethroned me when it comes to drama. I am not over thinking. I am being objective and factual here. I find it weird you know. Everything is so sudden and I don't want to end a rebound. Duh! Thanks for the POV. It somehow helped. I think have to confront him soon. Happy Mylotting and GOD BLESS ^_^
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
now that i've re read this, it actually is funny. yep, he dethroned you!
@jagjit273 (1740)
• India
18 Nov 11
I think you have some one who misses you too much that's why you are showing attitude towards him.When A Guy doesn't give you much attention then you girls run after for him and when he started following you or started caring for you then you show him attitude, Like You are too much busy.That is not only the problem with you,Almost every second girl has this problem.As I have been through this situation before. Have a Nice day
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I feel sorry for your previous experience. I am actually being nice to him because I was still there to support him even if his others sided with his ex n etc.. What can you expect? He is being too sudden that he has feelings n etc.. Too bad for him because I cannot like him the way he likes me. He just broke up and now, confesses he likes me? I think he is too unstable for now. I don't want to end up being the rebound you know. -_-
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Maybe, that guy friend has special feelings for you. It's not ordinary for a guy to miss you that much unless he has felt something special towards you. Why don't you ask him the real reason why he's acting that strange.
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I already talked to him and he said yes, he likes me but I can't like him the way he likes me. I just want us to stay friends. ^_^
@boyuancy (1709)
• India
17 Nov 11
I used to have this friend and I used to do the same. When she wouldn't reply I used to get over dramatic and say I would never like to talk to her again but in the next few seconds I would be back with a "I'm sorry" message. Some guys are like that and get attached easily and may think of you as a good friend (Maybe even more). So you decide for yourself.
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Lolz. You made me laugh. So it's normal for guys to be over dramatic? Hahahah!!! I'll take that as a yes. Probably it's because I was the only one who was there when he broke up with his ex. Now, he's starting to hit on me and I don't like that. Geez! I don't want to end up a rebound. I just want us to be friends. ^_^
@enelym001 (8333)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
Maybe the guy likes you... He should say it since you're already asking him. It can also be you're the only person he text with and is now so bored that there is no one texting him back. Well I guess you should ask him.
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I already asked him and he said he likes me but I still thing that he is unstable because he just broke up with his ex. Yes, I am usually the only person he text with after he and her ex broke up. I think he is bored too.
@WakeUpKitty (8706)
• Netherlands
14 Nov 11
Do like me.. ignore. I have the same, it's nice if someone is thinking about you but there are times I get so tired from it as well. So don't respond at once if someone is texting you and you are not in the mood. And if you don't want these kind of discussions about really missing or not.. don't ask too much questions. Yes! Guys are really like that but women can be exactly the same.
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I am trying to ignore but I still find it hard. I feel obliged to reply and I hate it. I keep telling him before that we are not obliged to text at one another but he keeps on texting. To make it worst, I am the type of person who do unto others what others do unto you. It's getting tiresome now a days so I sometimes don't reply but I sometimes feel bad about it. Indeed both men and women can be overly dramatic and sensitive. ^_^
@jaiho2009 (39013)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
Well, you should be thankful. Most guys are not romantic and sweet. I like my man to be very extra caring and romantic too, but he is not. He has his own ways of showing and making me feel how much he loves me...but not really romantic (duh)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Well I am thankful to have him as a friend. It is indeed rare to find romantic and sweet guys. I think most of us want a guy who is caring n etc. But most guys now have a unique way of saying I LOVE YOU. It's usually through actions if I am not mistaken. I still think that words are important because actions can be misleading. ^_^
@chiyosan (30203)
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
I have never experienced a guy like him. even friends have not turned into drama kings or prince to me even if we haven't chatted or haven't met for a long time... i guess its different strokes for different folks. just, don't overanalyze his actions and only he knows what his intentions are.
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I have not either until he came. I did tell him that he is starting to become a Drama King and dethrone me from my throne. Probably I am also over analyzing things. Maybe I should just accept things as it is. Thanks for the advice ^_^
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
Hello bewitchingmelody, it seems that the guy likes you. When someone misses you for an hour wherein you do not reply on him, then he might feel missing you. This is only my experience as I was on that situation too. When I get close to someone else, I usually missed her like every hour, I really do not know hahaha. It seems that I really just want to express what I feel for her. Anyway, go back to your discussion, since you told that you keep texting him everyday, then that answers your question. If you text him everyday, it became a routine on his part that you always text him. So, if you failed to respond or text him, that would be a big thing for him and it would make him miss you. The lesson here is that you should not make the person really attached with you hehehe. Happy mylotting and GOD bless.
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
Hahahah! You really got hit by cupid I guess. and I think it was a hard hit. Yes, it is a routine I guess but we can't be like this forever. I also have other things and responsibilities to do. We're just friendss. If he wants to be promoted then I'll give him the bestfriend spot. Hahahah... I'm so mean but I can't help it. I have my reasons why I should keep my distance. Thanks for the advice. I'll keep that in mind. Likewise, Happy Mylotting and GOD BLESS you ^_^
@Fireheart (683)
• India
14 Nov 11
These sort of signs are the result of falling in love with you. Normally guys dont message unless and otherwise he is interested in it. perhaps maybe only its a friendship but i gotta say you must know what he really thinks, hey maybe he likes you too much, what about phone calls, does he calls too often or just only texting. did he give any clue that he loves you or flirts too much to you.
• Philippines
14 Nov 11
Ugh, I don't know and I'm going to confront him soon. He had a crush on me before. I don't know now. But I think he's overacting too much. I still find it weird.