When in need friends do notice! =)

@chiyosan (30184)
Philippines
November 14, 2011 6:34pm CST
Sometimes when we are in troubles, or is having a trial in our lives... our friends does sense something is wrong, right? They would really go out of their way to let us know that we are not alone, etc. Like one time i was feeling sad and all torned, a friend called me and asked me how i am.. that is when i felt how come she felt i am feeling sad and troubled... she told me she just thought she had to call me and ask how i was... God really does work in wonders... He sends people our way to let us feel that we are not alone! Have you had the same experience, or were you the person God sends to people, you feel that something is wrong and viola... indeed you are able to comfort someone... Thank you for sharing in advance!
2 responses
coffeebreak
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
15 Nov 11
My experience with friends is that as long as things are really good for me..they were my friends. Once things would go bad...they were no where to be found. I've been stabbed in the back by friends so many times. I have not had an experience as you mention. Sounds nice tho!
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
I am sure you just have not found the good kind of friends that you deserve. my brothers were like this too, friends in good time but they all left when he had to need their help. But not all friends or people are like that and i am sure they have thought about the instances where they left you and they might be feeling sorry for losing a friend like you too. Goodluck and i hope you do find good friends for keeps.
megamatt
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
15 Nov 11
If they are truly your friends, then they do notice. It is really staggering to see how much they will step up. Or at least give the best effort. As we all know, some people might not have the ability to really step up all that much due to their own circumstances not being the best. Still a few words of encouragement or a slight helping hand every now and then is appreciated. They're assurances that they'll do what they can. I think that it's not something that should be expected but it's just something that happens in a rather organic and natural manner. Friends are going to be something that are going to be there during the clutch. They won't turn away, but they might not be int he best position. Still they will do what they can. In the end, that is what friendship is going to be truly and completely about. It does bring a smile to my face.