my wife is pregnant, 5 weeks old

@wulania (1528)
Indonesia
November 16, 2011 1:07am CST
i married 6 months ago and now my wife is pregnant, 5 weeks old. i dont know how to be a good father, how to care a pregnant wife. anybody may share the experinece about it?
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14 responses
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
congratulations for you wulania...it`s good news i think...you need more be patient with your wife if her request is really weird for your opinion..in our country, it was said "Ngidam"..
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
thank you bro. we wish the best. have you a kid???
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@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
iam unmarried wulania..
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
why, just get someone and ask her to be your wife, starting a new family, a new life, having baby.
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
16 Nov 11
Hi, congratulations. As rightly said in the first response, she need more attention, care and a proper diet. She need to be very careful in the initial stages. Ask your doctor to provide the dos' and don't note and read on the net for more information. Wishing you all the best.. and your wife, a happy pregnancy..
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
yea, after knowing that my wife is pregnant, i feel something new in my heart. and my wife al changed
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
16 Nov 11
hi friend, your heartbeat will be more once you hold your baby for the first time! I'm a mother of 2 (now aged 14 & 10) and i remember well my husband's glowing face at the nursing home. Its good since you are with your mother in law, she can help your wife with all tips. Make sure she is not under stress during this time.
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
haha, so my herat will beat harder than now. i will be waiting for my baby next year. i hope everything will run well
@arnoldream (1332)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
congratulation! things you should not do to her are, starve her, gives her stress, leave her alone for a year, and most important thing that you should not do above all this list is don't make another woman pregnant...hahaha...just kidding friend..just do what you must do to make her happy and that's good enough for her..
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
yeah, she eats more now, maybe greedy, hahaha. i will nevr leave her alone. fortunately i work as teacher, thus i dont need to move anywhere. and we live with our mother in law
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
she eats more not only for her..but for your kids..so just be patient..
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
yes she eats not oy for herself, but for the baby too. thus she eat more because she needs more nutrition
@sunli123 (540)
• China
16 Nov 11
Well, I'd like to say congratulations to you, wulania. However, I am single and have no experience on caring about baby. However, I believe that you will absolutely be a good father, and you'll know everything after he/she is born. Best wishes for you and your wife and your baby~
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
get married soon. getting married took me to new life, trust me
@sunli123 (540)
• China
17 Nov 11
OK, I will get married when I meet the right person.
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
yes, just get marri, find someone, starting new life, having a cute baby. i think taht is everyband wants. having real life
@Mashnn (4503)
16 Nov 11
Congratulations. A pregnant woman need affection, love and appreciation. What you can do is to her give the support, help and understanding during those swing moods that she may experience. Take part in things like taking her to prenatal checkup, shopping for the baby and spending quality time with her. These are a few things that can make the woman feel loved and appreciated.
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
thank you for ur adive. iam trying to be a good husband and i will be a good father then. i have no experinece caring baby
@Mashnn (4503)
16 Nov 11
It is not hard, just take it easy and do your part and surely you will success.
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
i hope so. it is hard time for me
@marguicha (78451)
• Chile
5 Dec 11
Noone knows exactly how to be a good father and there´s no book that serves for each and every father. Whatever you do, do it with all your love. and love your child as he/she is, not expecting for the child to "change". Noone really changes, but we all grow up. Our role as parents is to teach them with our example and love. It´s not an easy job and it´s frustrating many times. But we must go on, as it is a life long job.
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 11
yeah. i will do the best
17 Nov 11
Congratulations. Worry not lots of us have been there. You will learn. Experience is a wonderful and very exciting teacher
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
19 Nov 11
yes you may say it again. experience is the best teacher. once we have, we will never forget it anymore. i just want to be good afhet and i am tryng to be a good husband first
@aprilsong (1886)
• China
17 Nov 11
First, congratulations on you. Well, there are lots of things you can do to be a good father and husband:try to do more housework, especially those heavy ones. women just pregnant maybe nervous and feel uncomfortable, so you should try to comfort your wife and think on her side. of course, maybe because of some reaction, her temper maybe become a little bad, it requires you to be more considerate. Being parents is not easy. To be a good father, you got lots of knowledge to learn. Well, you should start from now on. Actually, even how to take your baby in arms needs some knowledge. I have learned a lot from the experience from bringing up my son. You know, even a little mistake can lead to big problem in a baby. so you can't be more careful in taking care of baby. i remember clearly that my son got heat rash because we didn't put correct amount of clothes on him. Last, wish you have a healthy baby!
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
yes, i see. but i am not accustomed yet to do housework, like washing, cooking, cleaning the house etc. now the time has come for me. a pregnant woman is easly sick. my wife is easy to get cold when bad weather come or the air is cold. i hope we can be happy family. but now i am not a good husband, coz my wife does evertything for me
@youless (85318)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Nov 11
This is very good for you to think about this issue. It shows that you are a considerate and responsible man. According to my experience, pregnant women sometimes will lose temper or make a fuss. At that time you shall be patient to it and try to make her happy. You have to understand that she will have a big change after she is pregnant. So you have to try to be nice to her. When you have time, go to have a walk with her everyday. It is not only good for the baby, but also her. A pregnant woman shall have a good mood. I love China
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 11
yeas, this very very good. a very happy news. i am zero experinece baout carin pregnat woman, but life must go and just go ahead, find new life, fulfilling life. after one baby, the next will come
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
Congrats. I hope you are being a father. I am not a father yet. Good Luck
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
why, i think becoming a father and having a family is a great thing in our life. if we have no family, no spouse, no kids, the world is too silent, not noisy. we must something to make our life be better
@julianmac (397)
• Malaysia
16 Nov 11
Hi wulania, My heartiest congratulations to you. Becoming a dad is one of the best things that can happen to a man. A newborn is a pure inspiration and there are no words in the dictionary to explain that magical feeling. No worries. It's not as difficult as it sounds. It will come to you spontaneously. Guys are prepared for it. It's just that we don't realize it till the day we held our bundle of joy in our hands. Always assure your wife that you'll always be there for her in time of need. Make sure she eats healthy. Entertain her in whatever way you can. Avid long journeys in the first trimester. Good wishes to both of you.
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
yeah it beats my heart harder. actually i am not well prepaed to be a father, but life must go one, and just go ahead now
@surekharathi (14134)
• India
16 Nov 11
Congrats friend and dont try for abortion because child is God gift and God give you a child as blessings. Dont worry you will be prove you are a good father. Love your wife and care of her.
@wulania (1528)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
i will never do that. abortion is illegal in my counrty and baby is god's bless. i am so lad now, so does my wife
@indahfth (11173)
• Indonesia
23 Dec 11
Congratulations on your wife's pregnancy. You just need to love, and attention to your wife. When I was pregnant, I want to feel comfortable. So create a comfortable atmosphere for your wife. Caution is necessary, by pregnant women. You can certainly become good husband and good father.
@ShyBear88 (16865)
• United States
2 Dec 11
Well congratulations daddy. Well as a women and a mom that has Bren pregnant the best advice is to do as she wants. When she wants you to go out and gr her something at 3am the go get it or you'll have to de with the mood swings. The father part it fall into places when the baby is born. I suggestion taking birthing class it help both of you. Part of bein a parent is not knowing what to do and learning on your own what does and doesn't work at all.