Cheating... Would you tell?

United States
November 16, 2011 2:49am CST
Hello. Recently I found that my fiance's cousin cheated on his wife and they have two kids together. He cheated with the new girl at a party at my house. It's not only like one night stand or just a fling. They are in a relationship. I am friends with the wife and I really want to tell her but my fiance said not to because it's his family and we are not in the right place to say anything. I think it's really not fair to the wife who is clueless about this whole thing. So what would you do and why?
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@sk66rc (4263)
• United States
16 Nov 11
One of the things I can't stand is cheating... Men who can't keep it in their pants or women who can't seem to keep their knees together really bother me... Why did they get in a relationship in the first place if they just wanna run around? What's the point? It's just my opinion but I would say something if I were you... It'll only get worse if things get dragged out longer...
• United States
16 Nov 11
Yes, it is really bothersome. If a person is not ready to commit, they should really just have fun, then get married and have children or what not when they are ready to settle down. Sometimes marriage isn't just for anyone especially if the commitment won't be there. Thanks for your thoughts..
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@tessa9 (1086)
• Philippines
16 Nov 11
I think you should say it to her but do this with an evidence. She might get a little defensive and maybe even get angry with you but if you have proof then there is no doubt about it. I think it is wrong to meddle on other couples relationship but situations like this needs to stop, at least for their child sake.
• United States
16 Nov 11
Yes, one of the reasons I wanted to tell her is for them to start thinking about how to handle this situation with the children. And yes, she might get a little defensive. I imagined myself in her situation and I think I would be asking for evidence too and how would I know if it's gossip or rumors. Thanks for your opinion!