wait or find love?

@scheen (57)
Philippines
November 17, 2011 8:03pm CST
it's been a while since my last, sweet, and serious relationship to the girl i love. now, im longing for that feeling. single and looking? but wait, do we really need to look for love or just wait for it to come? other say that it's better to wait for love rather than find it. because if you'll just wait for it, its really meant for you. is this true? im kinda confuse.. hays...
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14 responses
@markphil (285)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
I always find love rather than to wait because sometimes, you can still find love in the middle of nowhere. You just need to have an effort for yourself and treasure the people around you to find this hidden true love.
@cherriefic (4690)
• Baguio, Philippines
19 Nov 11
Finding love is like a life quest for people. We all want to find the one. But based on experience, the only true love comes within you. No need to go and look for it. It will find you! :)
@SandeeE (346)
• United States
19 Nov 11
I say wait to find love. Actually I feel it's best to let love find you. Make friends, be friends, enjoy the person company and let love happen don't make it happen or look for it.
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I've always believed in the saying, "True Love Waits." I'd rather wait for the love of my life to come than find it. I don't want to be miserable and desperate when it comes to love. You see, when you look for Love and don't find it, you might end up disappointed or worst, give up on Love. There is a tendency that when you look for Love, you set up standards and criteria. There things can blind you and close the doors for Love to enter. Just wait for Love. Let love come and knock on your door. It always comes when you least expect it. But when it does, let Love fill your life and welcome it wholeheartedly because when it is meant to be, it really does. ^_^
@svjomboy (876)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
hello friend, true love will come at the right time,sometimes we thought that shes the right one but when you wake up in the morning you are not together, so better wait the right one and shes the right one for you. Goddluck...
• Romania
18 Nov 11
don't wait anything ,life is short my friend go out and do it have fun whit and belive you are the man , you write your destiny and is not just about faith and bla bla bla you have to step out your confort zone and willing to succed,because words without actions means nothing .you will feel love when you see it, about the one doesn't exist just a concept in my opinion , have fun you have to experience anything and when you want to have a relationship feel free do it , do anything make some new girlfriends, be honest whit them and choose one interesting discussion here ,have fun see you soon my friends .
@waya616 (149)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Love moves in mysterious ways. You don't look for love. Love will find you in the least expected way and when that happens go grab it, it's meant for you!
@boyuancy (1709)
• India
18 Nov 11
I would rather wait. Feelings stick to me for a very long time. If my first experience is a bad one I will start to think of love badly.
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
Take my advice, you wait for the right one! Let destiny do its job. Let fate find you and your 'the one'. Because I believe God already chose partners for us. Even those who are single-blessed person chose to be with God. So while waiting, enjoy yourself. Do the things you want to do.
@curmont (343)
• United States
18 Nov 11
I do believe that is only when we are not looking that we will find the true love of our life. When we go out in search of love we tend to try too hard and can end up looking in places that really just don't make any sense. If you go to a bar to meet women and usually you are not a heavy drinker and you don't really did this social scene then what do you think the odds are of meeting the woman of your dreams here. Just live your life and do the things you enjoy to do and you will find her perhaps in a place you never would have expected. She may be at your favorite internet cafe or juice bar, or maybe standing in line in front you at the rocky horror picture show but she will be there.
@sopigs (107)
• Indonesia
18 Nov 11
I think love will come on it's way. Sometimes, if we search for it, we never found it. But, when we don't search it, it comes. So i think, try to search it, but don't so focus in it. Because, you never know when, or where love will come to you.
@Rosa26 (2620)
• United States
18 Nov 11
I think that get to us when we are just tirwed of looking for it, or when we have just forget it, so don't worry don't rush it will come to you and to her at the same time. You cant go out looking for it...mainly because. YOU DON'T realize what it is you really want...until you find it. ...Love comes to you, both of you...whoever they may be... And when it strikes...its happens at the right time, place, with the right person... Often they are nothing like what you are looking for... but more than you could ever have asked for or wanted. Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. ~Eric Fromm
@AJsMom (157)
• Philippines
18 Nov 11
I think if you are still young, it is better to wait for the right one to come. There is no reason for you to hurry. But if you are getting older and think that you are truly prepared for the relationship then I guess you have to look for it. Maybe the time you have waited for is now. Perhaps the one meant for you is waiting for you. I think that is how it goes.
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
18 Nov 11
I think love usually happens when you least expect it, maybe when you go looking for it a look of desperation shows through and you could attract the wrong type but when you are not looking for it maybe fate takes over...