Is your spouse your first love?

@wittynet (4421)
Philippines
November 23, 2011 5:19am CST
I am wondering if your wife or your husband is also your first love. I think this seldom happens.
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14 responses
@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
Mine is...My very first crush and my very first boyfriend turns out to be my husband..But sad to say,i am not his first..I am his 13th..They say number 13 is a bad luck but i think that doesn't work for me.. :-)
@vexxus (712)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
13 is not actually bad number, as a matter of fact there is some one I know make the number 13 his favorite and lucky number, and the number serves him best.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Wow! That's great! Tamirs, I agree with you. Number 13 or any number is not a bad luck to any of us. Life is a matter of choice. We can make good choices to make good results. Don't be sad. You were not his first because he didn't find you during the time that he's looking for his first. Where were you that time?
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Yes, vexxus. I agree with you. This reminds me of what our principal used to say. Life is a matter of choice. If we choose to believe that number 13 is a bad luck, it will. But if we believe that our future lies on what we do, not on bad luck, then, we'll make plans before doing anything to have good results.
24 Nov 11
Yes and we met on a coach on the way to Blackpool and that was that. It was a holiday romance and they don't last. It has only been 54 years up to now to we will have to see
24 Nov 11
I don't wonder you are confused. The "don't last" remark was a joke. I think this one is going to last and one reason is that despite my user name I am male and my partner is my wife and we have 4 children and 5 grandchildren. I am a male maid hence my picture and my wife puts up with it as do my whole family. And you think your confused
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Hello, maidangela7349. Wow! I like that holiday romance. It reminds me of someone. But I am a little bit confused. You said that your husband is also your first love but you also mentioned "they don't last." Are you pertaining to your relationship?
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Thank you for additional information, maidangela. Yes. I thought you're a she. And yes, I never thought it was a joke. Thank you again.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Nov 11
No...my partner is not my first love. I have first love but she is not my wife. It really seldom that our first love is the one we get married...
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Yes, aerous. As long as you love your wife and your wife loves you, there is no problem with that.
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
My husband is my 3rd boyfriend, my first two boyfriends were just product of growing up, those were the days of young and puppy loves...not serious indeed. Although I consider my husband the true love that I ever have.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Hello, junrapmian. That's good to know. Yes. Most of us have puppy love. I was also thinking that time when I had a crush on someone that he'll be my husband, my dream husband. But when I have come of age, I realized that he's not the man of my dreams.
@markphil (285)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
I don't actually have a spouse right now, but I could say that it would not be my first love at all because I have been in love before and broke me without any reason and that was really hurt.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
2 Dec 11
I am sorry to hear that, markphil. I know you'll find someone who is really for you, someone who will never hurt you.
23 Nov 11
My spouse is my first love. I think people love someone only once. They could like several times but they love once.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Mervealtug, that is amazing! Six years means a lot. You are reminding me of a love song where the woman says "Forever is not enough to love you more." This line I think also means she will love him forever. Not enough is a bit exaggeration.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
I think I should agree with you on that. We can never forget our first love, our one and only love. Your wife is very lucky. I think all women dream to marry their first love. Only a few have their dreams come true.
24 Nov 11
I agree your opinion.I have been in relationship for 6 years.He is my first love and he has a important role for my life.I will love him forever...
@Nigildas (169)
• India
23 Nov 11
Yes, it happens very rarely, but if it happens they are the luckiest couple in the world. One of my friend in college is such a couple his love blossomed in his 8th grade in school she was in he 7th grade. that is the time he first saw her and then he was always behind her at last with help of his friends he proposed her, then came the real problem, the girl has a elder brother he came to know abt this affair and he came in search of that boy to school and beaten him up. then the love continued through thick and thin and she studied in a girls college this fellow in a boys college at the final year they both spoke to their parents and faced some problems and finally joined hands now she is carrying a baby. They are a very good pair it is very rare that i see a pair like them.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Wow! What a very inspiring story! I admire the two of them for being so strong. They fought for their love. They are indeed for each other.
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
No his not...his actually my 6th boyfriend. lol. We met in college...I think it is seldom that people ends up with their first love.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
I agree with you. Not all of us will be with our first love forever. People change and sometimes, love as well.
@vexxus (712)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
My spouse is my 7th, the number I wish to settle down, I guess its a dream come true even though she's not my first and I am not her first.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Wow! Your wife must be very happy because out of the seven women, you chose her. I think it doesn't matter whether she's not your first, same with her, you're not her first. The most important thing here is your love for each other.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
23 Nov 11
any case that I know that first love really is as her male or female. but I think this is rare. if we want to try a little more than life and not be bound by our true love. like when you lean then begin to think why anyway. first love always remains only a memory and then find the person with whom we want to be together Oh, then do not make the same mistakes and love is nice. at least I think so because it happened to me. nice day!
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Yes, nezavisima. I agree with you. Making same mistakes is not healthy. We should learn from our mistakes but we should not repeat them.
@erba2011 (56)
• Hungary
23 Nov 11
Hello dear writer, I am a husband and a father lately and yes...my wife is my first love and i tell you everyday is new whole discovery with her.Amazing
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Wow! I am so happy for you, erba2011. My first love is already married. We never had any communication after college. It has been so many years now but I can't forget him.
@ShyBear88 (59282)
• Sterling, Virginia
23 Nov 11
My husband is my second love but he has been the only man that I have been sexually.
@345042441 (130)
• China
24 Nov 11
My husband is not my first love, neither am i his first one, but i think he is the person i love the most now.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Hello, 345042441! I am glad to know that. I bet you are contented and happy with your husband. I also think that your husband feels the same way.
• Philippines
23 Nov 11
right, it seldom happens. you have to experience loving and being loved by a person until you find the one you'll spend your whole life with.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
24 Nov 11
Yes, cowboynextdoor. My first love is already married. I was thinking before that we were really meant for each other but I was wrong. Maybe because there is really someone for me whom I haven't met yet.