Can a boy and a girl be just friends after they break-up or??
November 20, 2006 2:36pm CST
Well the following happened to me... I was going around with this gal and we were in fact in love with eachother, but one fine day there was this turn of events and her ex-boyfriend came back into her life and she got back to him, but we still are good friends and all that but this has caused a lot to weaken in our friendship!! What i want to know is can we be just friends and nothing else... what all does it take?? Does it take a lot of selflessness from one's side and thats it?!! Is it worth while doing what am trying to do, to still be there for her in her tough times if she needs me ?? Is this too much i am bringing upon myself..?
2 people like this
• United States
21 Nov 06
You are bringing a lot of stress upon yourself. I think you need time away from her to get your own life back together again. If your relationship with her was meant to be, it will still happen. You don't owe her anything. My stepson was going to get married. Right before the wedding his fiancee told him that her son's father was back and she wanted to be with him. My stepson should have learned something from that, but he didn't. The other guy took off again, and my stepson stepped back into her life and married her. They had one child, but his wife didn't keep house, didn't want to work, neglected the children. He ended up divorcing her. He'd have done better just to move on after the first time she left him for someone else.