Walking In On Your Mate Cheating!!!!

United States
November 27, 2011 12:00pm CST
Advice Advice Advice!!!!! What would you do if you walked in on your mate cheating i mean you walk in an their having the time of there live's with another person f#$k the how would you feel part but what would your actions be???would you walk out??? would you go rip off the person your mate is cheating with an rip his/her head off or would you go after your mate with anger??? Advice Advice Advice!!!!!
2 people like this
11 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
Hi YoungTay! I hate cheaters! So if this thing happens to me, I would looked at them until they noticed me. Once they did notice me. I would asked them what do they think are they doing, of course I'd get angry. But I will not cry in front of them. I will give them a rough look And walked away. Well if that's my house then I would strangled the lady, take her clothes (of course they're supposed to be naked) I would asked them to leave my house naked
1 person likes this
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
they deserve to suffer... at least I'd help them cool down since they've been feeling hot the whole time they're doing it.
• United States
27 Nov 11
Hi Young! So I'll start off by saying that I hate drama and refuse to be part of it. With that being said, if I walked in out my husband with another woman I would make sure HE knew I was there. Once he noticed I would walk out and wait for him. THEN my temper would flare. I would be so hurt and heart broken if this happened to me. When I love someone, I love with all my heart and soul, not just part of it. Even through all the anger I'd wonder where I went wrong and what I could have done to avoid it. I'm pretty self conscious about these things. So I'm sure in the beginning I'd feel like it was all my fault.
1 person likes this
• United States
27 Nov 11
Hi cheating would NOT be your fault. You can't stop a cheater from cheating.. it's in their character. They like to cheat for the thrill of getting away with it, and they like making a fool of their spouse by doing it right under their noses. A woman trusts her husband to love her and only her and he is laughing behind her back cheating with another woman. The problem is picking the wrong man to begin with... it's nothing that you do that drives them to it.. they do it because they WANT to.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
28 Nov 11
First of all, I know that I would personally be very hurt. However, you weren't asking about feelings, but rather actions. So, I would make a scene and I would continue to scream at the woman that my husband had been with until she left my house, preferably within just a few seconds. Don't even take the time to put clothes on, just get the heck out of my house. As far as my reaction to my husband would go, I'd more than likely end up hitting him as well after the woman was gone.
@Gram13000 (443)
• United States
28 Nov 11
If anything your mate should get most of the blame. I really dont think its cool to attack the other guy if you dont know him. Because for all he knows she could have told him she was single. But if you know the dude yeah you can rip his head off but its she is the problem not the dude.
• United States
27 Nov 11
I'd be going after my spouse. I wouldn't bother with the one he is cheating with. He could have told her he wasn't married or something.. many folks go after the wrong person.. instead of going after their partner in life, they go after the one they think stole their mate. Not me.. I'd go after my husband, because HE is the one that disrespected our marriage by cheating... and he would be thrown out on his ear and his clothes thrown out after him. Then I would throw the woman out with her clothes behind her also.. I'd probably also tell her to see a doctor just out of pure meanness.
• United States
27 Nov 11
lol thats real
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
I will be angry ,if my partner having walk with and just see and i will be go and fight with the truth.. Or the man, i will be angry becuse they liar,or the girl have to fight with,.
@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
whew! such a horrible situation it would be. well i don't know what i am capable of in such situation but surely i will surely be angry as in super angry and perhaps its the biggest shock of my life and would never ever forgive such kind of act.
@ellie333 (21016)
27 Nov 11
This happened to a friend of mine - she walked in to find her partner in the bath naked with another woman - she went ballistic and started punching him and calling him all sorts of names, he lived above a pub and run into the barea with a towel wrapped round him screaming for help - nothing like a woman scorned eh! She ended up being arrested and kept in a police cell overnight - once a cheat always a cheat so she was well rid of him.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
28 Nov 11
Simple as i'm walking out . What is his fault ? What would anger help me anyway . Yes ofcourse i will be hell of pissed at the moment but what is done is done . I turn my back , she will hear one last sentance from me later - Get Out . And i will never see her in my life if i do i will just ignore her and thats it . People say cheating is because its something you did wrong , when she dont have the courage to talk things out and the choice to cheat is your own . There is not other exit from that kind of situation .
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
28 Nov 11
Now that's a situation no woman ever wants to be in! That's tough, if that happened to me, I have no idea what my reaction will be. It depends on the relationship, I would be very angry if he decides to cheat after like a 2 year relationship. If it was maybe a few weeks, then it's still fresh and it just explains how the guy is not interested in the relationship anymore but for a guy to cheat is just plain cruel. If the relationship isn't going well ,the guy should just say it, not go off with other women. If I saw my man cheating right in front of my eyes, I'd probably just stare and get pretty emotional. I'll walk out and then see if he follows me, if he doesn't. Then he was worthless from the very beginning. I'd break it up and I would never want to see him again. I'm not the type of person to get angry and start lashing out, I'm more reserved than that. So he's a lucky guy that I'm not going to rip his head off But it does hurt when you see your partner cheat like that. I'll just exile him from my life and the woman he cheated with.
• United States
28 Nov 11
I don't know what I would do, in fact I would be entirely speechless! I mean what the heck? What's up with the disrespect? If these people were anywhere near any of my things or were doing the unthinkable in my bed, I would instinctively have to whip some @$$. That's just so uncool on so many levels! If I was in your situation, I would be entirely lost, so good luck with finding the appropriate solution!