Are you willing to be corrected .?

Philippines
November 28, 2011 6:13pm CST
Correction is needed but not insulted..Correction is needed,because someones loves to corect you,and want you to be live in success... Correction is profitable is good for us all,and is not bad but good.. Once a person not willing to, is becuse something wrong inside.. Maybe pride,stubborn,hard headed....When i was experience like this,when someone corrected me for the right for me, i was not willing to because of my pride...later, i realize that i need to accept no matter what is right, i have to dmit and accept and angry if i m corrected..or argue.
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13 responses
@rencarl (620)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
hello there.when i was young, i really hate it when i was corrected by someone because i am raised in a rigid way by my parents. i am an achiever at school and a single mistake will really hurt me a lot. when i grew up becoming more mature, i slowly understood that not all corrections are intended to be personal attacks.whenever i am corrected at my workplace, i consider it as a constructive criticism.
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@rencarl (620)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
hello there. yes, indeed.we really learn from our mistakes if we accept it with open arms.we need to take away our pride for us to grow and mature as a person.thank you for the response my friend.
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Yes true,we learn from it,and everything work for good and for the purpose for us.. It is hard to accept the failure,if you have pride,and it is easy to ccept it and understand if we have humble heart..Good we learn from it and me too..
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
29 Nov 11
wow what a excellent quiry...I have a neighbor that sometimes says the wrong thing,,for some reason I find myself correcting her...i really don't mean any harm to her and its because i am her friend..so hopefully she understands but she tells me I am the only one who don;t understand her and question her statements sometimes. its not that I think I know everything,,its that I am trying to be a good friend..definately don't want to offend anyone....
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• Philippines
29 Nov 11
yes we encounter different people in our area,and even friends attitiudes.Some people dont be corrected ,because of pride,no humblenes.. Well,it is not offed but to be nice how we can correct them..Should willing to admit.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
29 Nov 11
it is good to be corrected, that is how we learn but it can depend on the delivery of the correction , some people can be very rude and superior and they tend to take pleasure in making people look stupid but corrected nicely is good.
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
If the person correct us ,meaning he/she does know about it.Yes it depends on how we be corrected,maybe the are kind of love to crrect us that is really great..
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
I think it's okay to be corrected. First, you would know your mistakes so that the next time you would be exemplary. Second, I think it's good that there are people who are very much willing to correct us. That simply means that there are people who care for us and who would like us not to commit the same mistake over again.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Yes very true..We are to be thankful to the people who around us that give us correctio,because they care us want us to live it right.. Admit the mistakes that is the humble heart,not admitting is because of pride....
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
It is okay to be corrected by someone. Correction doesn't mean that we are that wrong or we've done mistakes that are bad. No it is not. This is for us to learn the good way. Don't be bothered if someone tried to correct you. Learn from that someone especially if that is your father or mother. They know the right thing.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Sometimes is the pride of people not willing to take the hurt,because of pride!We have to be corrected,we need to learn because of we need to change something!It is to be corrected if you have humble heart.
• United States
29 Nov 11
I don't mind be corrected if they do it tastefully. Some people can be overly zealous and can get annoying. But other then that bring it on.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Yes if they do it in the right way,sure that is good ..But if you correct me in the bad area,shame me is not so good or maybe i just take it silentl or accept it.. Just need to be mature.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
a pleasant day befrindwithme26, precisely, correction should be taken as a positive move being done by somebody who cares for you as a human being. and it should be taken and accepted though sometimes it will impacting your pride and personality. but we must accept that and learn the lessons being impart to us. on the other hand, correction is different to insult. as correction does not need to be harsh and must be subtle enough to be understand. while insulting is when somebody is using offended words that can really turn you upset and annoyed at the end that might lead to argumentation.
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
in addition to what i have posted, if i will be put in the line of people being corrected, i will accept it with all my heart. since, i believed, this is for my self enhancement and will take it as a positive remarks for me to succeed.
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Yes, I am willing to be corrected. I am not a perfect human being. I know something that others doesn't know and the other way around. That person who wanted to correct is a true friend because he/she wanted you to learn more. Don't be afraid to be corrected. Being corrected by others is a way of learning too.
@ohid2u (145)
• Bangladesh
29 Nov 11
I also like to be showed my mistakes,its really not an insult at all,rather it helps to make a stable profit of knowledge.
• China
29 Nov 11
learning to listen to others is our necessary lesson. so to accept the correction made by others needs big heart and gentle moral.
@ayvanee (149)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
I like being corrected, but correction should be done in an unbiased way. Personally, I don't think corrections are an insult as long as it is nicely delivered. Corrections are ways of improving ourselves and making us better.
29 Nov 11
Receiving corrections are part of growing up. We cannot just live on our own, we need other people who can tell us our flaws to be corrected. in return, we can correct other people as sign of our love.
29 Nov 11
Receiving corrections are part of growing up. We cannot just live on our own, we need other people who can tell us our flaws to be corrected. in return, we can correct other people as sign of our love.
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