How did you know that I'm so sexy?

My Avatar: Slightly Closed Fist - I love taking pictures of my fingers right after doing manicure. I also have pictures of my toes. Yes. I admire my fingers and toes so much. I consider them my asset. I always tell my friends that my fingers, toes, and nails are more beautiful than my face.
@wittynet (4421)
Philippines
November 28, 2011 11:31pm CST
I received a friend invitation from one of myLot members last night. I accepted it right away because I want more friends. I never thought that this member will also send a message right after I accepted his invitation. The subject of the message is "hi baby your so sexy." He asked me to explain what my avatar is. I asked him how did he know that I'm sexy. Well, of course, I'm sexy. I know that. LOL I told him that my avatar is a picture of my fingers and palm. I discovered that my avatar was mistaken for something ... my hands are on my ... you know what I mean. That's why he said I'm sexy. He apologized. I told him I understand, and I wasn't offended.
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19 responses
@zralte (4178)
• India
29 Nov 11
Sorry, could not help, I'm still laughing as I type this. That would be very embarrassing, well, at least I would be, but then I would never ever send a message to someone saying they are sexy. I can see how it can be mistaken, now that you mention it. I did not think of that before you mention it though. Oh my..... I want more ROFLs here.....
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Yes, zralte. I didn't also think of it like something, you know. Good thing this member asked me about it. I'm sure someone reported this to admin two weeks ago. Do you know why? While I was editing my profile backrgound, I noticed that my avatar was missing. I pressed F5 but it's the same. My avatar was missing. I was planning to send a message to admin with regard to this but I changed my mind. I thought it's a very simple issue, so I reuploaded the avatar. After that incident, it was never removed again. I told myself that there was a system lag that time that's why it was removed. Whew! I was wrong!
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
I'm happy that I have made you laugh. I always agree that laughter is the BEST medicine.
@zralte (4178)
• India
29 Nov 11
Definitely true.....you are making my day by making me laugh now.... Whatever their avatar is, I don't think I'll ever be comfortable saying that. Saying that, if anyone think like that, their mind must be in you know where....
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Nov 11
I see now what he was seeing but that was not my reaction to your Avatar. He sounds like a weirdo. He requested your friendship for the only reason that he thought your avatar was something else....there's your sign! I think I'd be offended ...not sure but I think I would. The fact that he requested your friendship to send a PM like that is a bit creepy. If he posted it on your discussion..different.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Nov 11
Well, if you aren't offended then I guess I really don't care what you choose for an avatar. I honestly didn't think anything about it until this discussion. As far as I'm concerned...it's all your choice.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hello, sid556! Well, I know what you mean. Maybe I'll get offended if a friend or someone I know sends that message to me. But because he's a stranger, I'm not really affected. Maybe another reason is that I suddenly realized that someone from myLot reported my avatar to admin for he or she was thinking the same thing, that I'm displaying something which is violating myLot policies. That's why, I modified that avatar last night. I love taking pictures of my toes and fingers right after doing manicure and pedicure. Next time, I'll see to it that I'll include my thumb in the picture to avoid such problem.
@Gram13000 (443)
• United States
29 Nov 11
lol, thats hilarious. Sound like he has been doing too much surfing on the web and his head is filled with those type if images. He gotta be a true pervert to get that from a pic of the tip of your fingers wow. Not even a face or a body that serious.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hello, Gram13000! I was also not aware before, but when I scrutinized the picture, I understood why it was mistaken for something. The palm looks like something ... you know. Anyway, he did apologize. That's something I did appreciate. If he's a real pervert, he'll not apologize. That's my opinion.
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• India
29 Nov 11
Well, as it normally happens, I keep figuring out about the next topics for my discussions and one of them that flashed my mind today was what do you feel if someone passed a comment saying 'you are so sexy' and I was trying to figure out what the responses would have been. I was about to suggest that many of us tend to take the compliment depending upon who we were with when the comment was made. Which is, we feel gratified, honestly, if we were telling the truth. And lo! here you have a real instance but the ugly part is that the guy tried doing it creepily. To be honest myself, I was inquisitive about the post having chanced the title and did never focus on the avatar per se. But you appear to be a sport with a good heart. If you are in control and you meant it is just for good laughs, thanks for making us laugh.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hello, Pushhyarag2000! I am glad I was able to also make you laugh.
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• China
29 Nov 11
I have ever taken photoes like you,the fingers.I think your fingers in your avatar is cute.It's funny to see such a thing happen in mylot.When I took photoes of my fingers,my friend said that it was sexy and I still dont know why.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hello, freedomcat! Maybe because your friend finds you sexier with those nice fingers. I'm sure they also look like candles. That's what my friends always tell me. Do you still have the picture of your fingers? I would love to see them.
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@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
If somebody send me like that i would never reply coz we dont know whats their motive to us.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hello, svjomboy! If it so happened that I received a text message like that, I'll ignore it. You're correct! We're not sure what the motive is. But I got curious why he sent that kind of message and he also requested to describe or explain what my avatar is. I replied to correct what was mistaken for something.
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@djbtol (5493)
• United States
30 Nov 11
Nice of you to be understanding. I think his imagination got away from him for a bit. Even so, he was right, because you have declared yourself that you are sexy. Congrats!
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Hello, djbtol! Yes. I am very understanding. Maybe because I worked with different kinds of people for almost 11 years. Different people have different attitudes.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
22 Jan 12
LOL... That was funny... It is good that the misunderstanding was cleared right away... You should change the avataar then.. I am sure you must have done that already, I am not able to see it as I am using myLot in my office... LOL.. It does not show any images here... :( Take care...
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
Hello, mr_pearl! I didn't change my avatar instead I added these words: my fingers and my palm I, myself, didn't see anything in my avatar aside from palm, fingers, and nails. Yes. It was cleared that day, right after I received his message. It's my palm which was mistaken for something...
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
Be careful. Your boss is beside you right now.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
My deepest apology. in your office Oh my God! It means you're the boss.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
It is either a scammer or someone who doesn't have anything to do. I also receive messages like that and never respond to those ones. I simply ignore and delete those message and if ever I received same message again from same sender, better delete from my lists.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hello, jaiho2009! If not because of my avatar, I'll also ignore the message. But the message made me recall that this avatar was deleted two weeks ago. It means that aside from this member, another member had the same idea about this avatar. I assume that he reported the picture as abuse.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
I didn't take much notice of your avatar had it not been the cause of the topic. Indeed, to some it could really mean something, specially that the fingers seemed sexy alright. Well, at least now it is clarified, as to what your avatar is indeed.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
29 Nov 11
I was exactly the same, SimplyD. I didn't think a thing about her avatar until this. Now I can see what it might look like to someone elses eyes with a different mindset.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Was it deleted? So how come it's that again?
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Me too, SIMPLYD. Now I understand why this avatar was deleted two weeks ago. Thank you for the compliment. Yes. I always admire my fingers.
@chrisding (141)
• China
29 Nov 11
:).Funny.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hello, chrisding! Yes. Others will find this funny, but others will also find this annoying.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
I am not offended. Good thing this member sent me a message about my avatar. This message answered my question on why my avatar was deleted two weeks ago. What's the answer? One member from myLot reported this to admin thinking that I'm displaying something ... you know.
• China
29 Nov 11
yes,you are right.but take it easy,just kidding.
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• United States
30 Nov 11
LMFAO, I guess you could mistake your avatar for something lewd, but you'd have to REALLY have some imagination. Men can be such perverts sometimes. Thanks for the little funny story sexy lady!
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
Yes, queen_ra45. I also thought that this avatar looks lascivious after I scrutinized it. I am glad I was able to make you laugh. Laughter is still the best medicine. Nothing beats it yet.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
23 Jan 12
as i know every one are sexy, if this not found in anyone, then they called by others within other name. now i dont know what that name is?
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
23 Jan 12
Yes. I agree with you! I know that I'm sexy. Everyone is sexy.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
22 Jan 12
friend i dont know how you are, that you can tell me how you are?
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
22 Jan 12
It was just a mistake. The member who sent me the message already apologized.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
this is funny..and i bet that man have a pervert mind.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Yes. This can either be funny or annoying. He did apologize. That's something I really appreciated. He has also helped me realized why my avatar was deleted two weeks ago.
@averygirl72 (37715)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
I agree, I am quite intrigue the first time I see your avatar. Its unique, it does not seem bad or something. Maybe he is attracted with your sexy fingers.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Yes. I thought of changing my picture because I want a unique one that's why I uploaded the picture of my fingers.
• Philippines
19 Dec 11
what do you mean...your avatar is great look for me, because according what i see here is your hand and also something you write it...looks like you are writing something....that's my expectation.
• China
29 Nov 11
I really want to make friends from all over the world. I am dreaming to have a nice trip with my dear friends. And I am so pleased and so glad to invite any friends to visit my country---China, a country with a long history, deep and learned culture and many mysteries, if possible, you are always welcomed and I will be always be your guide. have a nice day and please contact me. life is so short and I can not wait. come and join me .
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hello, conquer2012! Thank you for the invitation. I really appreciate it. Yes. It's always nice to be with friends. I really hope that we'll have true friends here.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
He's a freak! I never see your avatar as something else. I know that it's your fingers and palm. Those kind of guys are someone we should just ignore. I really try to check whether I should speak or response on a PM of someone on the net. If I see them posting sleazy stuff and sending me a PM asking for my personal details or ym id or trying to get close to me, I never reply nor entertain.
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@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Yes, enelym001. Don't worry. I am very careful when it comes to friends and strangers from the net. I know that there are true friends, but I also know that there are scammers. Anyway, he has helped me. I'll send an inquiry to admin. I'll clarify why they deleted my avatar two weeks ago.