Will distance increase love?

India
November 28, 2011 11:42pm CST
Because of our career choices me and my lover is living in different cities. We try to meet and spend time as much as possible. But some times it is not possible. The physical distance in between us will increase our love or our love will fade with time and distance? What you think?
13 responses
@Nebel23 (46)
• Chile
29 Nov 11
I had a distance relationship for 4 years. It was so hard sometimes but when we finally met you can realize it was all worth it. Love can be so strong, hold on and enjoy your lover :)
• India
1 Dec 11
Your words are really encouraging!
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Nov 11
It depends on yourself what will happen. If there is true love it doesn't matter where you are since you will feel that love. My partner lives in a complete different part of the world and we are together too. If you want it to work it will work. If you just focus on everything that can go wrong it will never work.
• India
1 Dec 11
Yes, I think and I hope it is my true love!
@zhaozy (33)
• China
9 Dec 11
Although distant from the heart but can tightly linked.However,also by letter,phone,talk to each other inside,so as not to love fade.
@safety69 (592)
• Taiwan
20 Dec 11
For sure if you spent too long time apart, the love will decreases, if You want a serious relationship you need to move to the same city. Love has to be feed everyday.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
I think it depend on the situation because base on what i see in other couples, some of them survive the long distance relationship and they feel more in love in there partner after a long time not seeing each other and there is also case that the couple end there relationship because of the long time not seeing each other, they look for a new partner and they fall out of love in there previous partner.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
2 Dec 11
As WakeUpKitty said, it totally depends on you and your lover. If you think your love and the bond is strong enough, it will hold good through this test of time that you guys are going through. If this thing is forever and if your relationship is very new, you might consider moving on as many couples do. Suit yourself. ATB
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
That depends on the both of you...there are some relationship that doesn't last because of distance. Strong loyalty and communication is a must for this kind of relationship, goodluck!
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
30 Nov 11
When there's real love I think being away from each other can help us to realize exactly what we feel, in a way it could make us feel we love more but it's because we not only recognize the love but also miss the person.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
It can really go both ways. They always say that distance makes the heart grow fonder and I do believe in that. Distance can make you realize how much you love the person and how much you want to be with them. It can also go the wrong way. Distance can make people realize that they really don't love the person and maybe it was just the proximity and not really real love.
@gkslight (65)
• India
29 Nov 11
Be strong. Both of you. The saying "long distance relationships don't last" is for the week. Believe in yourself. True love always prevail. Definitely it will not be easy but try a little bit harder and "the fruit of patience will be sweet" All the best
29 Nov 11
The way I see it is, over a short period of time, both of you will start to miss each other, which will then help the both of you understand how much you mean for each other. However, as time goes by, love can disappear for a far one, just how if you moved houses from your neighbors, you slowly forget them. As cliche as it sounds, it depends on the individual and how determined they are to keep the love strong. :)
@jgirap (210)
• India
2 Dec 11
i think love increase tremendously,mine personal experience says that. as i and my love say far away from each other but after each session we meat we find that our love toward each other increase.and always be positive thinking about each other.
2 Dec 11
not distance not increase love , but i think it change form one state to anther